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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex girlfriend are back in touch in after 3 months. I asked jer to meet up and she completely ignored the question and changed the subject. What does this mean!?!
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (21 January 2013):
 I means she doesn't want to meet up.
If you're hoping to get back with her, it might be better for you to just cut contact completely so you can move on more quickly.
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reader, Hennessy1989 +, writes (21 January 2013):
 It means she's not interested pure and simple
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reader, tby1 +, writes (21 January 2013):
 This is women full stop mate, I ask my ex now 2.5 years ex after 8 years together things about the future and where were going etc. ignored, but when she wants something do I ignore her, no chance, cos I've got manners and respect for others. You'll never work them out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2013): She means that she didn't want to meet you.Try again to tell her to meet and when she ignores again it means that she didn't want you.Then leave her and don't talk with her.She will cry and try to call you and try to meet you. Then you will meet her ;)
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (20 January 2013):
Well, there are two possibilities:
She wants to see you.
Or, she changed the subject because she doesn't want to see you.
I'm leaning towards the second.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2013): Its a sign that she doesn't want to meet up so I wouldn't waste your time. I mean do you really want to hang out with her now I reckon that she would be pretty poor company.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (20 January 2013):
When you say you’re back in touch, who initiated contact? Why are you back in touch? Have both or one of you moved on with some-one else? IT means for whatever reason she doesn’t want to meet up with you. Maybe it’s too hard for her, maybe she thinks it might cause problems in her current relationship or yours, or maybe it’s too soon. Perhaps you want just friendship and she knows she couldn’t handle that, or perhaps she thinks you couldn’t. Why not ask her again what were her thoughts on meeting up and see what she says. It’s impossible to give more specific advice without knowing the history and circumstances so I hope this helps to get you thinking about some possibilities. Also why do you wish to meet her anyway? Do you want her back? Sounds like she’s showing you that she doesn’t feel the same.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 January 2013):
 It means that she is your EX and such she wants to stay.
She may be OK with occasional contact ( did you get in touch with her first, I suppose ? ) out of politeness, natural extroversion, boredom , to show there are no hard feelings, or another dozen of reasons. But that does not mean she is OK with something dateish like meeting one-on-one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2013): It means that if you was hoping that you might get back together, then you probably wont be doing. I can only repeat what bronzed has said to you really.
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (20 January 2013):
 I dont know why you even need to ask this question. It means she doesnt want to, or is not going to, for reasons she has not yet mentioned.
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