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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I wasting my time trying to save this marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age - My husband of 13 years had affair that went on for 6 months. She didnt know he was married and he never told her. Didnt. Take long for me to figure out what he was doing and i never left our home all info i learned thru different things. Its been 6 months since it ended, but ... (184 words)

I kicked him out for cheating and now he's begging to come back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 years old and have been with my husband for 7 years .. i found out 8 months after our marriage that he was cheating on me even before we got married... I forgave him.. in Sept 2012 i lost my baby at 6 months pregnant and 2 weeks later found out that he has been che... (137 words)

I'm insecure and afraid of being hurt in this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Firstly just want to say I have not had many girlfriends and was desperately hurt by my last one by being dumped when I thought we had a serious future together (marriage, kids etc). Now I am with another girl (9 months) and still find I have serious issues (insecure,... (175 words)

No one told me that my sister's boyfriend is moving in with us. I'm not happy about this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my mom bought a house in Washington state right near the beach and so she was telling me how there is a house for rent right next door, I decided to rent it out. I was going to pay the full rent which is $700 by myself, my sister who is 20 decided she wants to move too which ... (244 words)

I'm losing my hair because of stress. Will it grow back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. Last year my husband left me. First I heard was by email from his lawyer as I was overseas at the time on a short break. To cut story short i came back he had taken most things. We had been married 20 years he has not spoken to me since. Over the last couple of ... (92 words)

How can I ask my dad to trust my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - About a week ago, some of my mother's jewelry went missing. It was an old necklace that's been in the family for about 20 years and a ring given to her by my father on their anniversary. A couple years ago, her engagement ring was stolen. I realize that she's really distressed, ... (147 words)

I'm at the breaking point with my best friend! Do I end our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I'm at breaking point with my best friend. I had a really difficult time during high school, I had no friends, I met this girl, and we became best friends almost immediately, and that was 10 years ago. The last 4 years have been so dodgey though. I love her to bits... (373 words)

Should I consider going to the same college/sixth form as my boyfriend next year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I consider going to the same college/sixth form as my boyfriend next year? Okay so me and him have been going out a year exactly, we love each other to bits. But now I'm starting to see ahead, I want to be with him for a long time yet, and I'm pretty sure he feels th... (199 words)

No contact for 5 months, finding out things. What else is he hiding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok lets start from the beginning..... My friend set me up. I was leaving work and she calls me and asked me what I was doing after work. I told her I was going home she than told me I should stop by. So 2 busses latter I called her and said I would be there in a hour. She told ... (768 words)

Married coworker loves hugging talking to me but won't leave his wife. What is his game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I make him feel differently? Ok i am infatuated/obsessed with/in love with a male colleague. I put all 3 as I am not entirely sure what it is yet. I work with him everyday very closely. In fact we cannot avoid being in close proximity, sitting together and cha... (844 words)

My partner says he loves me but he can't stay and watch the way daughter is with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age - I'm 50 years old and my partner has been living with me for almost 2 years. My 20 yr old daughter lives with me and I know I run round after her even though she snaps at me most the time. She hardly does any housework and never pays lodgings even though she works full tim... (248 words)

My ex is being nice and I' m missing him. How do I get some self control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I love this site, you're always so helpful. I'm feeling weak because my ex is being nice and I'm missing him. I know I don't want to get back with him tho he keeps trying. Help me please to have some self control. Why do I still miss him every now and then? I was doing so ... (62 words)

I can't handle the competition he puts me through! How can I make him let me be the only one he dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age - I lost my husband of 35 years in 2009. I stayed home without dating for 2 years and when ready, I decided to go online. I met a man 6 years older than I and was very impressed. In fact, I fell in love with him, but was not quite ready to jump right back into marriage. I was ... (253 words)

My ex is moving away and I want her to know I'd go too but I've called 20 times and she doesn't answer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I really hope you can help. My girlfriend dumped me at Christmas and I've been hoping beyond hope that we would eventually get back together. I've kept in touch with her throughout this time even though she's made it very difficult and has practically cut me off. Now I've ... (381 words)

BF told me today "You'd better not come back home until after 6pm" I pay rent & it's MY home too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Background info: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We moved in together for the first time last August. We attend the same college(as full time students) which is only a few minutes walk from our apartment. So, as the title says, he warned me not to come h... (719 words)

I don't see how my parents can accept that I'm really a girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Ever since I can remember, I've known I was a girl. I've always felt alienated when it came to sports in school,for example,the guys did football and rugby,but I always wanted to play hockey and netball with the girls, and wear their cute sports skirts. When I was 7, my pare... (127 words)

Broke up - he came back - now he doesn't know what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused by this man, who I love with all of my heart. I do not know what to do. Everyone tells me different advice, and I don't have any idea who is right. I met this man four years ago while I was in another relationship, and when that one ended we got together... (1624 words)

I told him about the dreams that kept me from sleeping and he reacted harshly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having reoccurring dreams lately about discovering that my husband cheated before we got married. These dreams have been vivid enough to wake me in the middle of the night and upset me enough to the point of not falling back asleep. Before my husband and I di... (227 words)

I don't want to be seen as a secretive liar, but I don't want to discuss the rape either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii, wondering if you guys could give me some advice. Basically, about a year ago I was pretty brutally raped by a stranger, who said he was going to kill me when he finished. I really think he would have, because he had a knife, if the police hadn't found me when they did. ... (538 words)

She's never been with anyone else and want to try a new relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have been with my gf for about 6 years now we have two kids and and im 20 she is going to be 21 in a couple months. Well recently everything is fine she was my first i was her first and up till now i love her so much i dont want to leave her but we have some issue. ... (192 words)

In love with an older family friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, i'm in a bit of a sticky situation hopefully you guys have some good advice for me. Okay so here the deal, i'm in love with this guy (not puppy love), but he is a close family friend. He is the son of my dad's best friend, but even though our parents are the ... (379 words)

Do I tell my girlfriend I got 2 drunken pecks on the cheek? Or let it go?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello All, Quick overview on the situation: I have been dating this woman, whom I love deeply, for about 6 months now. We live about a short distance apart and I shortly plan to propose to her. She is definitely the one for me. I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. How... (603 words)

Can't stop wearing colored contact lenses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started wearing colored contact lenses when I was 17, I haven't been able to stop 5 years later. It's become a crazy addiction and I can't stop wearing them. I wear them everyday I can't go anywhere without them. I am not an ugly girl (not being conceited) I received a lot of ... (98 words)

How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous GF the first couple times we... (372 words)

I don't want to raise another child alone. I don't think this relationship will last. Should I have an abortion?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I need some major advice. I am 29 and a decent paying job. I have a 12 year old that I have raised by myself. I am currently 13 weeks pregnant and fully comitted for about 3 years. This would be his first child. His job is not that great at all and I fear that we ... (151 words)

Why doesn't this girl look at me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I caught this girl staring at me last and when I caught her she didn't look away so I kept looking until she did. I won that staring contest. then a couple days ago I was listening to my music and doing my work in art and I was just zoning out in my own world. I looked up in ... (168 words)

When you moved into your fiance's home did he call it "our" home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age - When I moved into my fiance's house, he asked me to move in with him, he called it "our" home, although he owns the home. No mortgage on the property. I started my own business and have been very busy with that. I've been organizing the rooms at home and I let one room go ... (272 words)

How do I tell my ldr b/f to go home and come back in a few days because of my studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) age 30-35 - been with the boyfriend 2+ years, have been long distance in the past couple of months whilst i finish my studies. however he is coming up for an event the day i hand my last piece of coursework in. however he has got a work meeting that means he is really close by so wants to ... (243 words)

No Sex till after marriage this is my value

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at university and I've decided I don't want to have sex before marriage, as I don't want to sleep with someone who isn't fully committed to me. I feel very strongly about this and I don't think I'd like to change it. I'm definitely not asexual (I've made out with quite a ... (344 words)

Is it possible to have a relationship without having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 24 year old guy. I met this girl, who's a couple of years younger than me, about a year ago. She's verbally impaired (mute, I don't like to call her by this name). We have been very good friends. I don't mind her disability at all. She's very sweet by nature. She had ... (324 words)

During Sex I pick a younger version of my 50 year BF

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it strange that i think of my boyfriend's younger self during sex?. I'm seeing a man who is 21 years older than i am. I am 29, and he is 50. I have seen a video of him when he was 29 ( so, that's like my age now lol ). He was very handsome and sexy then ( and still is lol! ... (97 words)

GF brother is becoming a problem in our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about six months now. Everything is great we have plans on having kids and getting married in the near future except I dont like her brother. He's 2 years younger than her. He doesn't have a job but goes to school and he is basically ... (388 words)

BF wants me to improve on my appearance, I feel hurt!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a very good looking boyfriend . . . He loves me a lot . . . But he constantly asks me to change my hair style , to use cosmetics . . . But i like to be simple . . . He also gives examples of the girls who look beautiful . . . . This hurts me a lot . . . I cant say this ... (82 words)

I can't decide who I want more: my FWB or my ex boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, i was in a fwb arrangement then i met my boyfriend who is now my ex. i am drawn completely to my fwb he is also the same with me. when were together the sex is amazing but the problem is i still love my ex boyfriend but i cant get enough of my fwb. there is a... (81 words)

Gave my GF herpes, She now wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - okay last October, i met a female photographer (39y.o) at a venue while i was out by myself supporting a friends band. I was married at the time and was at the venue to see my friends band and also take photo's of the band as i had begun a new hobby. Anyway a very attractive ... (857 words)

How to tell if she's interested or just friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but it's been about 5 years since I've really dated someone. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other every couple of weeks and even t... (194 words)

My bridesmaid bought a shoe a size too big. I'm worried about how she's going to wear it for a couple of hours???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I'm getting married in May. I'm having a bit of an issue. I told my bridesmaids they could pick out whatever shoe they wanted. One of my bridesmaids bought a shoe that is a size too big. I know you can stuff a shoe to make it fit correctly. However this particular shoe is a 4 ... (222 words)

Should I consider an open relationship or break with my boyfriend even though I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted on here before and found the answers to be helpful, so I'm back. My boyfriend of about seven months and I are in love with each other despite our differences, which I don't mind since I actually like him as a person. He doesn't believe in or like monogamy because he ... (215 words)

Are there danger signs in this relationship or am I just insecure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend I love very much. He understands me more than anyone I've ever met and loves me for who I am, even my bad qualities. I care about him so much and can't keep him off my mind, which is something I definitely never thought I'd ever feel about a guy. But no... (638 words)

I don't feel like I love my boyfriend anymore. Should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and recently I feel as if I do not love him anymore. He has been all of my firsts. The only guy i have ever dated. Lately it seems that I am wanting more, like maybe for him to surprise me at work or anything ... (166 words)

Is it possible to get back with your ex if you are still on talking terms

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has broken up with me after living together for one year. In this time some was good some bad plenty of verbal abuse near the end. He is 32 I am 44 I understand it is a big age difference but it just happened. He is a party hard person in the weekends I'm not, I ... (333 words)

how did you move on and past the sense of potentially great relationship ended prematurely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - The girl I was dating ended our relationship about two weeks ago. It was short-lived, the beginning was intense, and then it seems she hit a plateau (I learned later), while I was on cloud 9 and so happy to finally find somebody like her. Sometime in between, we confessed our ... (352 words)

Girlfriend's mom might have cancer, and she threatens to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is having a major crisis and it's deeply affecting our relationship. First of all, we've been dating over 2 years. We have discussed serious matters - possible marriage, living together, etc. She just found out that her mom may have cancer. It's not for ce... (817 words)

I learned my lesson, take your own car ladies! Don't depend on a guy to take you home from a party!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went to a party with my boyfriend.... He was eyeballing a girl right in front of me. So I got upset. But I didn't say anything and held it in. I got over it by going into the bathroom and telling myself that I'm pretty too. People started getting really drunk. I ... (1208 words)

Could anyone help? I'd like to hold a conference for anti bullying!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I want to hold an antibulling conference but don't know where to have it or when!!! I need help with getting every thing set up. So if anyone has a suggestion please tell me.... (34 words)

A bad experience with a past relationship is getting in the way of this one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Before reading this, please understand that I do realise what I did was wrong, I see the mistakes I made and the faults in my decisions. Just in case I receive any answers telling me how stupid I was, because I already know. Okay, so I'm 20 years old, 21 in a few months, I'm ... (1020 words)

Husband cheating, left me. How do you go on after this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - im soooo hurt. i dont know what to do with myself, or how to get over this betrayal. my husband of 15 years was caught red handed with a 23 year old. and now he has packed his stuff and told me he does not love me anymore.... i dont understand, just yesterday we were holding ... (194 words)

My boyfriend is annoyed with me all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years is annoyed with me all the time, whatever i do makes him angry, im scared even to talk to him. I already have a lot of problems work realted stress, my family issues and i dont want my bf to give me hard time now. I told him about my problems, and... (102 words)

Can I kiss a girl on the first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi...First I really want to tell u who i love this website I really like it...It's really cool Isn't it? lol...Okay! I'm going this Saturday on a date with a girl...It will be the first And I want to know if I can kiss this girl during the first date...If yes How should i... (93 words)

Am I fooling myself into thinking we could get together again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, here is my situation: One night i got drunk and kissed a guy. I told my boyfriend the morning after and he broke up with me. That same day we broke up i got depressed and slept with the guy. A week after my boyfriend and i got back together. 2 months after the guy i slept ... (124 words)

My parents wont help me pay for university, but they're spending money on things I don't need?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm an 18 year old guy heading off to university next year. My parents and I have had some fallouts in the past, due to our disagreements over how to fund my education. My parents did not save up enough money to pay for my university. However, their income is very high now and ... (236 words)

Should I marry a girl I love but has cheated and lied to me in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answers helpful so I am back looking for some more advice please. Should I get married to my on off girlfriend of four years given that we have had quite a volatile relationship? The reason I am asking this is becau... (1562 words)

Seeing a guy at work - am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seeing a guy i work with and its been going on for about 3 months i stay at his place, and he comes to mine but what I hate is when he comes to mine he doesnt stay the night because its just sex so i feel used. But when i go to his place he hugs me all night long and holds ... (285 words)

Is it the weed that makes him act this way? I'm so confused in this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, so i need some objective advice in relation to my partner. Bit of background - In early 2011 I went through a marraige breakdown due to his infidelity. It crushed me obviously and my current partner, who was a friend of 10 yrs, stepped in and essentially, "picked up the ... (817 words)

I've been waiting 8 years for him to ask me out. How do I get him to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy on my swim team that i really like and he's really cute, we barely ever talk and i'm not sure if he even notices me even though we have been on the same team since i was eight and he was ten. I wan't to get him to notice me more and you would think that wearing a ... (170 words)