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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He didn't want a relationship, so why has he contacted me after 2 months of no contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age - I had a relationship with a man for 5 years. in the beginning we had sex, but after 6 months it became just friends as he didn't want a relationship with me. For the next 4.5 years I struggled with being just his friend as I loved him deeply. 2 months ago I told him that ... (371 words)

How do I deal with his anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend... we have been dating for lets say 4 years. In the last 3 years everything was perfect but lately as we have gone to college....i am facing a lot of problems because of him. he keeps yelling at me when he is angry with some one else, he scolds harshly when... (118 words)

Worked at creating a friendship, then she realized she had feelings that were one-sided

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had this female friend for a while. We were very distant at first; she'd talk to me but I wouldn't let things progress very far because I figured she was just making small talk. Eventually she revealed that she had been interested in getting to know me for a while now,... (237 words)

I feel hurt by his remarks -- am I wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm slightly upset and I should not know if I should be. It was my boyfriends birthday. I was laid off, but I had saved some money for this occasion. He knows this, and he is aware of my financial situation. Firstly, he wanted something very specific. He wanted a choco... (400 words)

Do I have a right to be angry that he is going out to dinner alone with another woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it acceptable for a man to go to dinner with a female acquaintance when he is either in a relationship or trying to "work things out" with his ex? And if you're "working things out" then does that mean you would describe yourself to others as being single or would ... (461 words)

If my b/f loves oral sex then why does he so seldom ask for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have a few questions about guys' sexual preferences. Background : we have a loving relationship and a fantastic sex life. He makes me orgasm 90% of the time through penetration alone otherwise he'll finish me off with his fingers. He's an all round gentleman and ... (420 words)

I suspect my husband may be gay or bisexual and now he's told me to leave the house! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age - Hi I will be married almost 10 years soon, my husband hasn't taken me out very much, usually we go away a few days once a year. We don't go out socially but he goes out with his male friend. We haven't been sexually active for almost a year! He told me a few years ago that ... (249 words)

Should I be worried if my boyfriend asked a girl on facebook for her number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost 5 months asked another girl on Facebook for her number. We go to different schools but see each other every weekend. I know this because I went on his Facebook to post something really sweet and it popped up in a little chat box. Should I be worried? I ... (79 words)

Could my friend and I make things work as a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I have been there my best friend forever for 9 months. She just got of a serious relationship with a guy. He kept breaking up with her a few times before he proposed to her in front of me and they had a fight and he told her to go and do something to herself while he was ... (167 words)

Is it ok to kiss others if you are dating but not exclusive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Honest opinions on this, if you are taking a girl out on dates, so you are dating now. Is it okay to still kiss other girls, or does that count as cheating even if she isn't your girlfriend? I don't mean a lot of dates only about 2 maybe 3, but say you text each other a lot... (295 words)

He calls me immature for questioning his relationship with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for five years and have a three year old twins. His ex girlfriend, who is also his other child mother is a serious problem in our relationship. He cheated on me with her multiple times, in fact gave me an STD ... (244 words)

Did she cop out of the relationship and choose her career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Did she Cop out ? We were together for 1 year and like any couples we have our ups and downs.Im not perfect and never claim to be but then again who is? The last 4 months have been a right test for both of us because we were going to move in together but i lost my job and have... (482 words)

Does everything has to be "his way"? Is there anyway to get him to see reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, hoping to get some objective feedback. My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, but have been in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and 8 months (approx) and we have a two year old son who lives with me full time. (A bit of... (658 words)

Should I be worried about her being a threat to our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 20 year old female and i am in a relationship with a great guy. BUt I'm concerned you see a few months back the girl showed up out of the blue to see him before he got home from work i was at the house making dinner and she introduced herself and said he knows I'm coming ... (478 words)

Husband has gone away again to think... I really need some help and strategies

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of two years has left the family home again for a few days to "clear his head" and to "sort himself out" and I'm bewildered! We have had discussions (not arguments) with one another recently as we understand the marriage is not as good as it could be, possibly down ... (452 words)

My ex. When I see her now I get a burning feeling in my stomach and tears are always close. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help dealing with this. I've recently broken up with my first serious relationship. Anyways i feel like I'm bipolar. I am sad then depressed then I'm ok for a short while, then back again. I miss her a LOT. I don't know how to handle this. I'm being stupid but i... (85 words)

Could she still have feelings for me? Or has she moved on? Or is that she does not hold grudges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I saw my ex on Thursday night and it was strange because things ended very badly with us, I was an idiot and was reckless the way I did it. I know I acted very insensitively after too so I didn't help the situation. So of course I expected her to want nothing to do with me,... (273 words)

I liked him. Do you think he liked me or was just trying to recruit me as a volunteer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in a cafe this morning. He asked me if I was one of the volunteers. I said no, and he introduced himself and shook my hand and started telling me about his work. Then he invited me to sit down with him to have my breakfast, which I did. We had a really n... (215 words)

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companies. I've been in a serious rel... (618 words)

Creepy leery guys ask for my number. Yet NEVER do any of the 'normal' guys, who I see looking, actually approach me. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old female, single and have never had a boyfriend before. This alone worries me a little since literally everyone I know has had/ is in a relationship. Without sounding conceited, etc. I would consider myself attractive. I notice men will check me out whenev... (102 words)

She thinks she's protecting me but I think she's trying to control me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend, my gf's sister, my brother, and a couple friends are all mutual friends. We all know each other and hanged out sometimes. We have an event planned to take pictures at a tulip field. Due to certain circumstances, my gf, my gf's sister, and I can't attend the phot... (455 words)

He can't seem to feel love for me. He does care about me. Should I break up with him? Or are there other options to consider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years we live together and get along great. All the arguments stopped once we started living together and everything flows great. The one problem we still have, is that he can't seem to feel love for me. Most people would say we sho... (193 words)

How to get my boyfriend to gain his feelings back ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So once again my boyfriend and I are having issues. He told me he Lost feelings and interest in me .. He said he wants me to make him get those feelings back. I have no clue how to do that :( I feel that after I see him tomorrow I will be a single woman.. Someone help me .. I ... (89 words)

I am worried about first time sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now, but have yet to have sex. It seems as though we are getting closer to us both being ready to take things to the next level. Unfortunately for me, I'm not sure how that will go. We're both virgins, our onl... (241 words)

I can't get over boyfriend's betrayal! Should we stay together because we care about each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been having trouble with our relationship for about four months. We've been together for around 4 years. We care about each other very much, but sometimes I wonder if this is enough. There was an incident where he was dishonest with me, he didn't ch... (240 words)

Not attracted to my own race... am I shallow for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So... I'm not interested physically or romantically to guys of my own race (black). I've never dated a black guy, and just don't find them appealing for a relationship. I have many black guy friends but that is all they are. And I feel horrible for it. Really, I feel l... (192 words)

He doesn't want to commit, Should I walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Aunts i need your help! So there's a guy that i have a class with ( college ) we recently started to get to know each other. So I haven't been with a guy in over a year so im not rushing to be in a relationship. I was talking to alot of guys but there was no sex involved... (254 words)

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit case packed there, waiting; daughte... (428 words)

What do you think? Is this slightly older guy at work just trying to be nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want to know if he's just trying to be friendly. There's this guy at work, he's a bit older than myself. I've noticed him around the office but never thought much of it. He sits a few rows in front now and everytime he goes back to his seat, I have realised he make... (181 words)

Truthful? Can I trust her? Is she going to screw me over again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for almost four years, we love each other and have been through alot together, divorced parents, long distance, the works. Last october we had an incident, she cheated on me (kissed a guy at the club) then proceeded to hang out with this guy. S... (451 words)

He's moved on and he's happy. What do I do? How do I stop missing him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend broke up with me. Over Facebook. We were "that" couple and everyone loved us. We got along on every level and always had such an amazing time together. The last couple weeks we had been fighting because every weekend he would get tras... (398 words)