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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would it be crazy to move in together right away? Or when and how would be right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I moved because of a job opportunity. The job was for 6 months originally, so I rented a place for just the 6 months. I was offered to continue at the job, which is great. But I still need to move in a few months because my current place was only available for ... (285 words)

I made an online profile hoping the guy would figure out it was me. I texted him and now he hasn't texted me back. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on line. Things were going better then expected. I found out he was still actively on more then one dating website. Even tho I know we owe eacn other nothing yet and he has full right to be dating around. I went on the website and made a profile that would not be ... (186 words)

Should I think our hook up was just a one time thing? I'm afraid to ask him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically last year I ended up getting involved with my best guy mate, we spent the summer together and then it just ended for stupid reasons and we didn't speak for 8 months. Now we started messaging and we eventually met up. He was cuddling me while we watch a film and then ... (154 words)

I miss my ex so much and want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I know it's a stupid question to ask but I miss my ex so much it hurts. And I need advise. Well the short story is we have been together for six years and broke up due to cheating. We have been split up a while but still meet for certain stuff. I havnt spoken to him in... (111 words)

Why do people stay such good friends with their ex's?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, so I just wanted to kind of share my problem here and see what opinions I get. I'm a young female and have been in about 5 relationships in my life. Weird thing is is that every guy I have ever been involved with seem to still have ex girlfriend's or past fli... (296 words)

I want my partner to be able to tell me everything but he's keeping secrets

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My partners keeping secrets, I know that he doesn't have to tell me everything but I want him to be able to! he took out a loan but its got a huge repayment. I got angry because we are already swamped with bills he's just been on holiday and to make things worse he got paid ... (102 words)

I'm 22 and hopeless with girls!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 22, I am hopeless with girls. I have never been with one and now I am too scared to even try. I am a male model (physique, underwear etc) so objectively I am pretty good looking at the very least, very hot at the most... which almost compounds my problem girls would expect ... (265 words)

She broke my heart, we got back together but I think the damage has been done

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

5 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Am totally confused, av been in this relationship now for four years. this january my girlfriend left me for another guy, i later got to find out , and she slammed these words on my face in the presence of her friends that 'she's no more interested in the relationship that i ... (273 words)

My 75 year old husband is having an affair with a 29 year old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age - I have only been married for one year. I am in my 60's. My husband is 75. He is having an affair with a 29 year old girl. I love my husband. I do not want to leave him. I am devastated. He denies it all. The psychological abuse is over the top. I am afraid and s... (77 words)

We keep breaking up, does this mean we're not supposed to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex keep breaking up does this mean were not meant to be together ? I don't no really why we keep breaking up we just have petty arguing , he even got into another relationship for about 5months and iv tried moving on but he keeps walking in and out my life and bec... (161 words)

My girlfriend is constantly pissed off with me over the smallest things, I'm starting to wonder if it is worth staying with her anymore?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

5 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I want help/opinions on my over 3 yrs relationship. you see my girlfriend is a great person but she is not a great girlfriend. Its hard to stay happy with her. Shes really delicate in t sense that any little think just flicks the switch on her and she ends up ... (432 words)

My partner points out my physical flaws, is this passive agressive behaviour?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age - First my significant other told me he hates my hair. I have sort of wild curly hair that is hard to control. Now that it has grown longer it is more managable. Lots of people have told me they love my hair and would love to have curly hair so that then they wouldn't have to ... (216 words)

Should I become my husband's carer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all a bit of background. My husband and I are in our mid 20's, married since January this year, expecting our first child and very short of money due to my husbands variable work hours. My husband also has Aspergers syndrome (diagnosed as a child) and receives ... (271 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me because I'm too clingy! How can I change myself to stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here goes nothing, I'm 18, been in a relationship for 9 months with a 25 year old, he's had a lot of pain in his love life in past , but things have changed since we've been together he has got so confident and trusts me 100% and tells me he loves me, I've become very ... (232 words)

My boyfriend doesn't even want to acknowledge me now we work together, does he think I'm not good enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi In addition to my below question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/boyfriend-got-me-a-job-where-he-works.html my bf does not want 1) even to say hello to me in office 2) whenever he crosses me he doesnt even turn my side and even if does he behaves as if im invi... (151 words)

HOW do I stop being so foolish with and about this man who treated me so appallingly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So. This isn't really a big deal, but it is something I find really frustrating. I have a bit of a complicated situation with a guy I was with about a year ago. I met him in my home country, we had a fling for a couple of weeks, and then he went back to his country (other s... (902 words)

What actions should I take to protect myself from this demanding girl who's behaviour concerns me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I got talking to this girl on a dating website on Wednesday. She asked me firstly would I pay for sex! Obviously, I said no. I gave her my number and I thought all was legitimate, until she asked for £2500 to 'make her flat habitable' because she had had it broken into. ... (100 words)

I just don't "get" this guy during some moments with him. Can you suggest why he behaves the way he does? Thanks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So few days ago i started dating this guy, which i never paid attention to, but he always did at me. And he kissed me and it was great like he will be careful, he is a gentleman,etc. He even met me with his friends later on on that day. So, i am a person who thinks a... (225 words)

I need help feeling better about my Almost flat chest! Sometimes it gets me down!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - (Btw, I'm in a relationship and I'm happy with my relationship, it's great, and I'm confident and comfortable with my body most days, but some days I'm not) Now that I've got that out of the way... Sometimes I feel confident, but other times, usually when I want to feel femi... (247 words)

I'm a struggling army girlfriend who feels like I'm giving 80 percent and he's giving 20!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2and a half years is in his advance infantry training in the army right now it's been 4 months since he left and i have only got to see him 2 days out of all of that and I still have 4 months to go. This is the hardest thing I have ever gone through and I don't ... (158 words)

I feel like I am being pushed out of my relationship with my b/f because of this flirty girl! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know you guys probably get questions like this one all of the time, but I would like to share my story. I'm currently in a long term relationship with my boyfriend and very happy with him. However, for about a month now there is a situation that has been bothering me. ... (722 words)

Why can't she leave her self destructive relationship and see what a good guy I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My life is changed.. Its so very complicated... I love a girl who stayed with me all the time but had a boyfriend and were in a relationship for almost 5 years.. Then things started to get messy in btween them... they broke up and soon they patched up! This guy no matter h... (247 words)

She knows I want a no strings attached relationship. Is she willing to accept that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

5 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Bout 5 years I had a crush or fell in love with a girl. I wanted a relationship but she rejected me. She started to date other guys so I left. Took a bit but I got into a relationship and she got married. After years not talking my relationship was dying so I called her for ... (306 words)

I'm Atheist and dating a Christian man. Are we likely incompatible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy since I was 17 (We are both 22 now). Although we lost touch after high school graduation, we recently met again for dinner and coffee. Surprisingly it wasn't awkward like I thought it might be. We had a wonderful time, laughed a lot, and found we ... (270 words)

My husband has these rapid changes in his life and never seems affected by them. What could be going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age - It is going to be a difficult question,because it is not a very common situation . Im not sure what goes on with my husband, but Im suspecting a mental condition, not sure, and also helpless about how to relate to it. Some mental conditions are so easy to diagnose and understa... (277 words)

Sexually angry and numb

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband sleeps in the recliner instead of commingle to bed. Plus he watches porn and downloads videos and pictures. I think his addiction is giving me no desire for him I just have sex to do it. I don't get orgasm and some reason I'm detached from him sexually Its like my ... (99 words)

I have a crush, but is the age difference too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

5 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - This is not like me but I've got a crush on a girl who is 18. I have never been attracted to a girl with that big of an age difference and I kinda of feel weird aboit it. I'm 30. When I first met this girl I thought she was 22-24, and that is right on the boarder line for me. ... (256 words)

Lost feelings for my husband, fell for another guy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33 and have been married for 3 year, dating for 5. I was coming out of a bad relationship and this older, successful man came into my life. after 2 years, i figured it was time to get married. I started doubting my happiness in my marriage almost immediatly (about 6 ... (335 words)

He always has to be right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

5 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been with my boyf for about 8 months and the last few I have been noticing how he always has to be right. I don't know whether I'm overreacting but I feel myself getting very frustrated sometimes in conversation. Some examples: When I try to share some knowledge, ... (336 words)