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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love her, she's my best friend but she's married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I dont know where to start. I met this woman 8 years ago, and we are as close as ever. The problem is she is married and lives on the other side of the country. I am in love with her.. Always have been.. probably always will be. She knows i love her.. but she doesnt know how ... (138 words)

I'm a 22y.o. virgin - I'm afraid life is passing me by!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 22 year old virgin (female) and never have had a serious boyfriend. I feel a bit 'odd' as the majority of my friends are in long term relationships and the rest are involved in casual relationships. I have been with guys through uni but only kissing and fore pl... (237 words)

Will I be labeled as a liar? I didn't tell the truth about how many sexual partners I have had

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

8 April 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, I'm writing because I'm in a bit of a situation. I was in a relationship for 7 years from the age of 15 and completely adored the guy. On reflection, he was rather manipulative, unsupprotive and didn't really care about me. This was at a time when my father passed ... (491 words)

Could a policeman be called away from home on work duties for 3 weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) age 51-59 - hi ive just found out that a policeman fancies me, but he hasnt been at home for the last 3 weeks, do they work away for that length of time or am i paranoid and thinking he met someone else?... (40 words)

I don't know if my beautiful friend would be into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend that is really beautiful and funny. she's one if the closet people to me and I trust her with everything.sometimes when I'm with her I think about doing sexual things with her like eating her or letting her screw me. I have never really liked girls or whatever ... (120 words)

I'm afraid he won't date me because of the age difference

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, this 24 year old and I have been talking for over a year. He's an amazing guy and he is a gentlemen. We are very alike personality wise and we are always happy together. We both went on a group trip recently and we saw each other but didnt talk too much (I was shy:( ... (108 words)

My family don't accept my gay relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it so hard for my parents to beleive i have a boyfriend. They deny me every chance they get. No i am not just fighting them i am gay and i have a boyfriend. They just don't see us that way. We have done much more then just kiss and cuddle,Yes i'm young, we both are. Our pare... (94 words)

I'm losing patience with his son

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have lived together for 1 year. He and his 15 year old son moved in with me and my 7 year old and we have been trying to all get along. Since day one, his son has refused any type of socialization with me in the house. He stays in his bedroom all day, does ... (500 words)

Does he really love me or does he just not want to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this guy for about 5 years and have been having sex with him for just as long. We both agreed it was a "no strings attached" relationship. A few months ago we were both at the same bar and he acted like he didn't even know me. I was dancing with another ... (333 words)

We didn't have much of a connection, should I just let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so I met this guy online a couple of years ago,we spoke for like a year before we met,he came to see me..and I realised we had nothing to talk abt since we have no common friends or similar interest! Anywys we stayed it touch after the meet but then I stopped talking ... (151 words)

Still in love with my cheating ex, and not with this great guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 21 years old and I have just came home for the break from college life. I've been single for the past 4 months and haven't spoken to my ex boyfriend since Christmas, we broke it off on Christmas Day, well I broke it off. We were together for a year and 6 months the... (479 words)

Did he really get condoms to use with the toy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I really need some answers here as I am a nervous mess right now. I previously was here asking about condoms in my boyfriend's school bag which he claimed to have packed for a trip we were taking. Most people said believe him so I left is at that. Now, I went awa... (432 words)

After five years the cousin thing is a dealbreaker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my cousin have been together for five years and have lived together for four years... last week he broke up with me because we are cousins. He has known this from the beginning. I thought we were over the cousin drama thing after the first two years. He said some ... (171 words)

Is it really over or is he just trying to get me to contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi me and my ex broke up 6 wks ago after been together 2and a half yrs he had new gf 2 wks later he still says he loves me but he really likes her 2 i really miss him alot i stopped texting him 4 days ago he does.nt seem bothered that we're not talking is he really over me or ... (72 words)

I tried to offer constructive advice, so now I'm "unsupportive"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, Hoping for some advice. My partner is a member of a theatre group and he has been for four years. The problem is a bit odd. What it is, is that he keeps inviting me to their social events. I started out by going, but I noticed that nobody really talke... (299 words)

My boyfriend's mother tries to hook him up with his own cousin.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a very uncomfortable, awkward, and disgusting situation and I just have no clue how to deal with it. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, and we've been living together for the last two. Me and his mother have never got along, but I don't see her much so it never ... (582 words)

He wants a relationship, but not with someone with children

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

- So I pretty much know what I should do, but I wanted a second opinion... There's this guy I started to hang out with outside of work (we're co-workers sort of). He has a temporary job working in the district I permanently work in. We started hanging out in January and have... (234 words)

Boyfriend likes the fact that women love him, and who wouldn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a scout leaders, he deals with all kind of males and femails of different ages, at some piont i was under his command and we loved each other. He is very sweet with everyone, very respectfull and generous and that is why i love him, alonge with many other gi... (160 words)

If we're broken up then why is she still getting in touch with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - She called yesterday and she called today. She texted a few days ago just wanting to know how I am. We broke up. Well, technically as she would put it, I broke up with her over two weeks ago. Yet, she still contacts me. If the relationship is over then why does she keep ... (143 words)

Girlfriend cheated, I no longer wish to be with her. She is emotionally blackmailing me saying she won't be able to live without me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in relationship for the past two years. everything was great until i caught my girlfriend cheating on me. even though i confronted her she somehow emotionally tricked me into staying with her. i am unable to forget this incident. i made it clear to her that i don't trust ... (117 words)

She says that I'm just a friend and now is pretty much avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - 6 Months ago I fell in love with this girl to this day I am still in love with her, I used to obsess about her and when I finally became friends with her things started to get better but then I told her I liked her she avoided eye contact smiled when I told her but when I asked ... (168 words)

How do I make him realize that I'm a catch and he needs to make some effort!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been friends w a guy for 12 years. He admitted to me about 5 years ago that when we first knew each other, in grad school, he had a big crush on me and kept his distance from me because of that. For the middle part of our friendship he was in a serious relationship ... (732 words)

I lost my friend over a rude text that I didn't send to him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had a sexual encounter with a friend (married)(someone I've known since childhood),we re-connected and talked on the phone for over a yr and saw ea. other daily. Our relationship became sexual no strings attached. A family member decided to joke me (I was unaware at ... (215 words)

Why are college boys so confusing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, history does repeat itself! I am a college freshman girl with a good head on my shoulders, great grades, athletic, outgoing, independent, career focused and definitely not just looking for a husband. That said, I like the emotional intimacy of being in a relationship and ... (231 words)

I have competition for this man. Should I just give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel this way? Is it the right thing to do? I've liked this guy for months now. He works at gym and whenever I'd look up he'd be staring at me. So I decided to train with him. I've lost alot of weight and I look better and all his colleague friends are cons... (195 words)

After a bad dating experience I don't trust easily. How can I found out more about someone I am dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am 24 years old,about 4 years ago I met a guy at a place I go to jog every morning..we clicked and we started dating,he met my family,friends..but its only later I found out that he was married and has a child I was shocked,I confronted him and he lied saying h... (174 words)

Why do people listen to Sad love songs? Is it sadness that draws one to listen in the first place? Or do the songs make one sadder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just curious really. That all started out while i was on the bus listening to random song on playlist [ do note most people i know complain about how lot of songs i listen to somewhat depression or sad]after today i probably agree to some degree. But like i sad i was... (132 words)

Is it that he's too possessive? Or is it more serious? Could it be that he is an abusive partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about two years now. We work together in a fast food restaurant and that's basically how we got together. It's weird because when we have good days he's perfect and then a bad day comes along and it's horrible. He will be set off ... (552 words)

Should I just try to adjust to his moods? My Bf is just not very showy when it comes to feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so in love with my new boyfriend (we've been together for 2 months) but there's a small problem. He's just not very showy when it comes to feelings. Don't get me wrong, he can be incredibly sweet - he comes to my place when I'm sick and brings me medicine and tea. He's a... (263 words)

My boyfriend will not stop doing weed. What can I do? I don't know what to do about his actions any more

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I would love some help right now please. I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we have always been happy, things are almost perfect. When we argue, it is all about the weed. When we started going out he only smoked weed at the weekend and 2... (354 words)

Is it wrong to cheat if our sex life has sunk to the point of nothing? And possible ED that he will not seek help for.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong to cheat if your sexlife with your partner is zero? My partner is 43 and I 37. He doesn't have a high sex drive and over the past 6 months we have only been intimate twice. When we are intimate he completely focuses on himself and usually only last about 45 se... (263 words)

My current Bf and I have sunk into "too comfortable to be romantic". So how should I handle this growing closeness with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same man for two and a half years now. We were high school sweethearts and he did everything so wonderfully. His parents hated me and he stood up for me, even when they told him it was me or them. He picked me. But then four months ago I moved. Our re... (419 words)

Do I back off? Seems I am doing all the initiating. Every date I am the one who contacts him first and ask him when he is free to hang out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been on four dates with this guy, after every date I am the one who contacts him first and ask him when he is free to hang out. After the fourth date I decided not to contact him and he hasn't contacted me and it has now been 5 days! i really like him! I do know he ... (90 words)

I want to be happy again and live life to the fullest. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you in advance for reading this and the help. I really need it!! I have been at university for 2 years now and was very unhappy and homesick here for a while. However, in August, I met a guy who had a reputation for being a player/ladies’ man and drinker/weed smoker ... (743 words)

I am not interested in her. How do I let her down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is this girl who moved into my neighborhood maybe 3 months ago. She has a huge crush on me and i am not being egotistical because she told me the other day. She always hangs out with my sister and I am unable to go twenty minutes without seeing her. I have no interest in ... (91 words)

Is it worth it? He's young, charming, intelligent and in his mid twenties

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - It all started last yr during september when i started working and i really enjoyed everything from the atmosphere to the people. Slowly i began to fall head over heels for one of my mentors, he was one of the assistants for my boss. Young,char... (289 words)

She's the Gf of a guy who is the best friend of my Bf. What should I about the continual rudeness of this girl towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. Well, I'm really quite down tonight because for a while now I have been dealing with a huge problem. Some of you may think it's silly but it's something that has really been bothering me so I would like to get some advice. The problem, in a nutshell is my boyfriend... (494 words)

We just broke up and I don't want her to slip away from me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend of 4 and a half years recently broke up. We have been together throughout most of our teens and haven't really experienced "going out" and enjoying being young etc. Basically to enjoy the thrill of being single and experiencing other people, dating, sex etc ... (716 words)

My mom is sleeping with a guy my age!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My Mom is Sleeping with a Guy My Age. Advice? My mom is 45 and she's sleeping with a 21 year old guy I knew while growing up. I'm her only son (only child) and I'm 20. I don't think this is right, or appropriate at all. I think she should act her age and not be dating, or ho... (119 words)

If she sees me only as a friend why does she act this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - According to a friend of mine a girl I like views me only as a friend. She's one of the girl's best friends so she must be telling the truth. However, why does it appear as she does in fact like me? I always catch her glancing at me when she thinks I'm not looking and when I do ... (150 words)

Should I experience my husband's friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Any suggestions? I am 40 and have been married for 18 years and my husband has been my only sexual partner. Our sex life has had its ups and downs. Currently I have more sexual energy than my husband. This wasn't the case before, he wanted something everyday so we usually di... (485 words)

Her roomate boyfriend is taking his male friend to see my ld girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in a one year ldr. my girlfriend just moved from her parents place and now she is sharing an apartment close to her campus with another girl. when her roomate boyfriend goes to see her, he comes along with his buddy. They talk and have drinks. it looks to me as double d... (172 words)

How can I get along with my child's father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How can we get along? Me and my daughters dad HATE eachother we can not have a conversation with out cursing and drama and its interfering with our co parenting we tried the only talking about our child but it always lead to the arguing and disrespect let me give u some hist... (229 words)

Depressed after break-up, how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

8 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, My boyfriend and I of 2 years recently broke up and I just feel so depressed and lonely. The only friends I had were his friends and now that we broke up I've really lost everyone and I feel so alone. He seems to be so happy and everything and I am over here depressed ... (154 words)