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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is he going from very very hot to cool and will a bit of jealousy make him make his move once and for all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Does making someone jealous work generally as in they will show their feelings or come forward quicker if they think someone else is interested in you. I wouldnt usually be into games like that but a friend of mine who iv been talking to nearly every day the last few months ... (224 words)

My ex left me because he got his ex pregnant. How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My now ex left me because he found out his ex girlfriend was having his baby. They had parted on bad terms and he told me that he didn't want to get back together with her because he didn't trust her, but he still left me, and I guess that they are or will get back together, ... (398 words)

Is it normal that girlfriend has never orgasmed with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my girlfriend, who is 18, for over a year now, and sexually active with her for half a year. The problem is, she has never orgasmed. I just want to know if this is normal, or if i'm doing something wrong... (46 words)

How do I approach my partner without being hostile and critical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, need some advice on how to approach my partner about how i'm feeling (unappreciated and unimportant) without sounding critical or hostile. We've been together 3 years, live together and have a gorgeous 6 month old baby. I'm on maternity leave from what was a good job w... (605 words)

My girlfriend is a control freak and won't even let me talk without starting problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age - I am currently with a partner for almost 4 years now. She is a control freak, almost always never wanting to admit her mistakes. If I do get her in a corner, she will turn the tables around, accuse me of starting an argument, and then completely changes the topic. One time, I ... (285 words)

Is my girlfriend hiding something from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has lied to me in the past about where she was from. At the time, I forgave it as she appeared to be really sincere, and she cried her eyes out after admitting it to me. I felt bad and decided to give her a chance because she really seemed to regret what she had ... (397 words)

I don't want to hurt someone in the process of finding out who I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm a little confused. About my sexuality. I've always considered myself straight until now, now I'm just confused. Basically, I have a crush on a guy. He's brilliant and I like him a lot. I might even go as far as to say I love him. I have always liked gay people, gay me... (149 words)

Girlfriend of 5 years left me and doesn't care

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Hoping for some advice here, I just don't know what to do anymore :/ Im 21, and my girlfriend, 20, of 5 years left me literally out of nowhere the other day. Everything was fine and dandy except she was acting a little pissy. We got into a little argument a... (559 words)

If missing somebody is a sin, I confess I am seriously guilty.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - If missing somebody is a sin, i confess i am seriously guilty. Missing him is so heavy and weight me down. 15 days already, he only left me some words by messages that " i am busy with my work and will talk with you asap." I do not know how long is " asap". But absolutely, ... (233 words)

Life Balance. May I have some tips on how to prioritize between my school life and find time to enjoy my passion of helping others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Well I have been off this site for a while, and I am coming back for a little while as I have been overloaded with work! Basically, I am 16, and I have a little bit of a problem. My GCSE's are coming up, and as any one can imag... (1059 words)

Is my significant other micromanaging me and is he also needy and clingy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age - My significant other saw me organizing my workspace at home (I work out of the home). I needed to get it in order to take pictures for the tax file. He told me I should be working at my drafting table. He told me I have too much stuff in my curio cabinet and that it look... (426 words)

Why didn't he tell his potential new boss that he got married since the last time they talked?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband recently had lunch with a potential new boss. He met him a couple years ago, when we had just moved in together (not married yet). Now, my husband and I are expecting our first child. He's very proud to talk about it with everyone he's currently working with. He t... (138 words)

I created a fake ad on Craigslist to see if my boyfriend would make contact. He did, now what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A little background info first: my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. He always told me I was his first love and I'm the first girl he's even considered marriage with and so on. His family has even told me I'm the first girl he's ever brought home. ... (207 words)

Does my Muslim boyfriend love me or is he using me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a catholic woman and have been seeing my muslim boyfirend for over a year now,i am very happy with him,he is originally from Yemen but from the age of ten had lived in cuba, he has been in britain for nearly 4 yrs now, he is still waiting to hear about his visa.We met ... (178 words)

Am I being played? I gave my last husband excuses for his behaviour, I don't want to do it again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had two disasterous marriages with men who treated me badly. I have three lovely children all under 11 I work full time and recently bought my own house. I do want a loving meaningful relationship I am fourty and work from home on my own. I do have good friends but want ... (693 words)

How do other women handle the situation when their guy will not stop ogling other women?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Posting a question about ogling here. I had this ogling issue and my now ex would tell me it was nothing, that my expectations were "too high", that I would never meet a man who didn't ogle and that I "shouldn't expect him to walk around with his eyes on the ground" - I never ... (1073 words)

Love versus hate? Should I stay or should I break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. Just hoping for some sensible advice and support... It's a rather complicated story... and I really appreciate no one wants to listen to someone waffle on so I'm cutting it real simple When I got with my bf a year ago we worked together! Before anything happened... (824 words)

So do I still have to wait? In spite of the fact that he has now reached his marrying age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - we broke up recently because when we were together, we couldn't control ourselves of being so intimate. As much as possible, we don't want to have sex without getting married.. He was asking me for marriage but i refused because he's still taking up his 2nd course and i am ... (203 words)

My girlfriend was annoyed by my FB post. Did she over-react? Was her reaction immature? I thought the post was light fun.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Three days ago, I wrote on my Facebook Wall that "If you can't change the girl, change the girl!" . My girlfriend (for two years) didn't like it and called me jerk when she met me later. She is talking to me but can see some change in her attitude. I wrote that just for fu... (99 words)

I feel tired after I have climaxed three times. Yet is it fair that girlfriends have called me a sex addict for wanting more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi am 27 years old and something is disturbing me when am having sex with a lady after ejaculating i still feel horny and i can continue having sex without having to rest upto the 3rd round that is when i have a refractory period or feel tired.And this has made the girlfriends ... (71 words)

Sexless marriage and clinically depressed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (M)

age - I have a problem that seems to be just the opposite of some recent Q and A's. We have been married for 33 years and busted our humps to correctly and lovingly raise our Daughter and Son, now 31 and 24 years old respectively. Nobody could ask for a better son and daughter. We ... (465 words)

I think I'm gay because I'm crushing on a female teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I think I'm gay. I have had three boyfriends and broke up with all of them because I just didn't have any feelings for them (more than friendly feelings). I have had a few minor crushes on a some of my friends and one bigger one for this exchange student. She left a few ... (109 words)

Is this strange for a FWB hook up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been hanging out with my guy friend a lot more lately, and we have become 'friends with benefits', I think, can't really think of a better term right now (I usually don't have casual sex like that so it's kind of throwing me off). Anyway, I spent the night at his house ... (184 words)

The relationship was impossible, how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) age 30-35 - How can I get over an impossible relationship? I met a guy during a trip a couple years ago. We added each other on Facebook. We sometimes chatted, and got along well, but it didn't go past that because of the distance. However, a few months ago we started chatting everyda... (394 words)

He seems to be overreacting -- could there be more to the story?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (?) age 41-50 - i met this man online almost two weeks ago and after exchanging phone numbers we clicked instantly. We were both smitten by each other texting all day calling every night telling each other how much we missed each other it was crazy we had such good emotional intimacy. We had ... (353 words)

Is he still interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think he is still interested in me? So on Friday night i met up with a guy friend i haven't seen in years. We went to highschool together and recently started talking. Before we met up, we had been texting each other everyday throughout the day. So back to Friday, ... (639 words)

I love him still and want him in my life but have come to the realization that for now I have to let him hit rock bottom and pray that he finds his way back to my heart..hopefully soon enough.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I love with who Ive been off and on (not because we argued all the time, just because he has not been ready for a relationship because of many aspects of his life). 1- When I say he's not ready for a relationship is because he isn't financially stable (now this is not... (482 words)

How do I ask him to hang out? I'm quite inexperienced and also are there any excuses I could use to touch his hand or something next time we're together, to gauge his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Just need some quick advice :) So there's this guy, he's lovely, a couple of years older, and we get on quite well. I'm never sure if he's flirting over FB but in person he uses a few excuses to touch my hand, like when it was snowing and he gave me his gloves then held my ... (215 words)

Do you think anyone would be upset by his actions? I'm doubting myself and I feel like I'm in the wrong all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

22 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend seems to have 2 personalities. He said he come to dinner with my parents earlier but then changed his mind, my mother went to the effort of cooking for him so I told him he was being rude. He went out and I have no idea where he is and has not come home. I put a ... (279 words)