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writes:I caught this girl staring at me last and when I caught her she didn't look away so I kept looking until she did. I won that staring contest. then a couple days ago I was listening to my music and doing my work in art and I was just zoning out in my own world. I looked up in her direction not really thinking about her, I caught her staring at me again, and then I looked away right away cause I felt weird. I feel like I messed it up by looking away from her stare, but I just did it on instict. Only that time she was giving me a smile, and She's really attractive too. I noticed recently that she stopped staring at me. Is it because I didn't talk to her and she lost interest? Is there any hope of her taking interest in me again if I talk to her?What do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2013): The whole staring thing doesnt work on everyone. For example, i dont stare at the guys i find attractive cuz im shy.
The thing that works though is talking! Go talk to her. Youll eventually end up doing it anyways, skip the awkward looks and dive right in!
You can do it!
Good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know for sure she had some kind of interest with the way she was looking at me. take my word for it. Is it ever too late to go and talk to her?
Also what I forgot to mention is that she started staring at me after I would look at her and then look away. So I kind of initiated the whole staring thing, but she continued it by doing it the next couple days. That's where we are at and she hasn't done it in like a week.
Do you think she just started doing this because I was giving her attention by looking at her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): "nothing ventured, nothing gained." if you don't take a risk and talk to her--introduce yourself to her--you won't ever really know what the staring was about.
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