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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was this girl ever interested in me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I caught this girl staring at me last and when I caught her she didn't look away so I kept looking until she did. I won that staring contest. then a couple days ago I was listening to my music and doing my work in art and I was just zoning out in my own world. I looked up in ... (165 words)

I feel marriage is important but he doesn't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear everyone, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and I’m almost 36. We’ve lived together for a year. Problem is this: he knows I wanted to get married and have kids. He wants kids, but he doesn’t want to get married. We talked about this recently and ended up arg... (120 words)

Things are going nowhere with my crush and I want him to ask me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I totally have the hots for the lifeguard at my pool. Yet I'm so nervous and naturally shy I havent had a proper conversation with him as of yet. Every session I attend and he's on shift, we have so much eye contact! He smiles, i smile. It's definitely flirting, and i've been ... (159 words)

Is it normal for your boyfriend to start acting like a jerk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for your boyfriend to begin acting like a jerk? Mine has started ignoring me for 15 hours at a time for video games, telling me he doesn't like texting because it annoys him, never wants to stay on the phone with me, and hardly ever wants to see me. Sometimes I ... (149 words)

I found out my husband has Alexithymia. I think my marriage is in trouble!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. I think my marriage is in serious trouble. My husband has always had a problem showing emotion, sympathy, compassion and empathy. He also has always spoken in monotone, no emotion in his words. When he says "I love you" you don't feel it, it's just words he ha... (901 words)

I'm playing guitar at a folk club and told my on/off ex not to come. Am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm playing guitar and singing in a folk night tonight, and my on-off-ex said he's down in town, and invited me out for a meal, and said he'd see me in the pub. The thing is, I feel really uncomfortable about him being there when I play. It's so 'complicated' between us and I ... (200 words)

My boyfriend constantly accuses me of cheating and I don't know why!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am twenty years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Shortly after we got together, I became pregnant. Through out out relationship we have had problems as all couples do, but it has been worse here lately. He is constantly accusing me of c... (170 words)

How can I sneak out to be with my boyfriend without my family knowing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Am 22 with one kid who's 2 yrs old. last year i met with my current boyfriend whom am expecting his baby. am 4 months pregnant. am worried that my parents won't allow me stay home with 2 kids so i want to move out of home and stay with my boyfriend. i don't know how i will ... (70 words)

When me boyfriend and I try to have sex it's very painful. Should I just let him go in anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend who is 21 for over a year now. I'm a virgin and he isn't. We've tried to have sex and I've found it very painful, it's not because I'm not wet enough because I have been. Whether it's because I'm not relaxed enough I dunno. So what I n... (124 words)

Is her attitude about marriage something I should worry about now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a simple question, but it might have a complex answer... My girlfriend and I have been dating 2 years. Recently, we were talking casually about marriage. Not about us getting married, just the topic in general. She said "You know, right now, I don't know th... (457 words)

Any ideas why he's so changeable when we are apart? It's great when we are together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship t the moment and hope to move in together soon. But its been very difficult. He hates emailing, calling and texting in general as it is but does make the effort to stay in contact often. But whenever we talk o... (187 words)

Heartbroken after a devastating loss, how can I get my friends and family to back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My life has taken sucha downfall,I'm heart broken and I'm unable to put the pieces together! Background:I 'was' dating this guy I met in high school,as we grew up got jobs we decided to move in together,he was my life,my best friend,my boyfriend.. One... (241 words)

Our sex life changed after she read those books and now I don't know if she is teaching me a lesson or what to do now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife of 20 years about 6 months ago started reading the 50 shades books and after 19.5 years of marriage and basic sex every 10-14 days she started wanting sex more and more which doesnt sound bad but eventually started doing things she never did in our marriage and started ... (195 words)

What are some helpful ways I can tell him to comfort me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Although my partner has been through very similar situations to me, he doesn't know how to sympathise/empathise or comfort me at all. He is not a very touchy feely kind of guy and doesn't understand that it's not okay to just say 'that sucks' to a serious issue. My que... (134 words)

Is my significant other a complusive liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age - When we first started to date he told when he heard I was single he sat on it for months before calling me. His folks said when they heard I was single and informed their son that he called me right away. I asked my significant other about it and he got defensive and sa... (564 words)

My boyfriend doesn't really touch me and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really feel like being in some kind of vicious circle concerning the sex life with my boyfriend. We've known each other since childhood and he has always been my closest friend and now that we both finished university we finally got together for real. I truly love him and ... (689 words)

I feel like I will never be significant in her life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am so confused and I don't know if I'm totally out of line or if my girlfriend is being unreasonable. My girlfriend is very attached to her family. They are overall a very close, intimate family who are all open with each other. I, in contrast, was brought up in a more iso... (742 words)

Is my husband at the root of all my problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had such a difficult couple of years. Long story short. -I have been a stay at home Mum for nearly 4 years. Gave up my sort of "career" to raise my two kids. Which as left me feeling neglected and unappreciated. - My parents are divorcing "badly" due to my Dads... (189 words)

Is it my fault that I can't remember in detail my first time with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been with my guy for a little more than 1 year. He was a Virginia when he met me however, I wasn't. I have my own regrets and mistakes that I made being naive and trusting my exs when they promised me futures. My guy knew and he couldn't get over it for a long while an... (457 words)

Why would he want her to come to our wedding when I don't feel comfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend has a female friend but i have only heard them talk very briefly a handful of times in 7 yrs but we are arguing about him wanting her to come to our wedding. i dont feel comfortable about there friendship, due to what seems to be secret. im very hurt that he would ... (91 words)

What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country, One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in love with me as well.. He even br... (142 words)

My Bf is getting angry unneccessarly and calling me names. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Today is my bf birthday. I called him several times from the morning to wish him, he didn't pick up the call and not responding to text. He is in his parents house now. I know he is not sick nor busy, got the information from common friends. He is kind of av... (125 words)

Porn is just images of women on a screen. The men will never meet those porn stars. So why is watching porn such an issue for women?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am curious about this. It seems that to some women the worst sin a man can commit is looking at porn and I don't get it. T hey are just images on a screen of women he most likely will never meet or ever have a chance with. The chances of him actually cheating with th... (75 words)

He is not the "one". So how can I break up with him? He gets so upset when I mention breaking up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi thanks for reading, I'm looking for advice on how to end my relationship without hurting my boyfriend. We have been together for around 18 months, and he is the sweetest boyfriend I could have imagined... But he is not 'the one'. To be honest, I feel bored. There is n... (127 words)

How many more years am I suppose to invest in this relationship when I am already tired and over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My head tells me to leave him but my heart tells me to keep on fighting for his love. He is so indifferent towards me he no longer comes to have lunch with me and he is gone all day. He says his works keeps him busy but what about me what about his kids. He leaves in the mo... (256 words)

Despite knowing about my Bf's past, now it's haunting me. How can better cope with my feelings about his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi..I have this really nice warm loving soul as my bf. We have been together for over an year now and the later six months (till date) has been a long distance. The issue is we made a mistake of discussing his past in detail. Well he trusted me back then and we started as fr... (270 words)

Will my husband eventually resent me if he moves back to a small town rather than living abroad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I got married a few months ago and I'm now in a long distance marriage with husband working and living abroad. Since I work the weekend, it's pretty hard for us to meet and lately we've only managed to meet for a week a month- which is killing me. Anyway, my husba... (194 words)

My little mistake shattered my boyfriend ego!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a problem and I need some advice. Ok so usually when me and my boyfriend wanna have sex it takes so long for me to come so he usually goes down on me and at the same time fingers me and that alone usually makes me come after a little while and after I come we start ... (429 words)

I love him so should I break up with him or consider an open relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted on here before and found the answers to be helpful, so I'm back. My boyfriend of about seven months and I are in love with each other despite our differences, which I don't mind since I actually like him as a person. He doesn't believe in or like monogamy because he ... (215 words)

does my boyfriend seem into the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together a year now. We're quite happy together. He has a very stressful job, and whenever he gets very stressed at work, I notice. He gets distant, and he's not able to keep in contact with me as much during the day, and he always has his mind ... (206 words)

I'm tired of feeing sexually neglected!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I could use some advice. Im feeling neglected sexually. My husband and I have been married four years together 6. Im a stay at home mom by day and work partime nights 10-230am as a waitress. My husband works nearly fulltime and also trains as a volunteer firefighter. I ... (132 words)

I am tired of telling people what they want to hear instead of what is actually on my mind. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend asks me my opinion on how I felt about her and her boyfriends relationship. I told her as long as shes happy thats what matters. She then tells me after a short amount of time that she now lives with him. she should have told me that to begin with and also he is ... (109 words)

How can I quit basing my worth on whether I'm single or not, with guys pursuing me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I'm 24, recently out of a long, troubled relationship. I think we broke up for good a couple months ago already. Anyway, when I was with him, I wanted to be single. Now that I'm single, I feel very lonely despite having many friends and my family, etc. I don't really want him ... (276 words)

Our son's friend lied to his mother about being teased at our house. How can we handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a 12 year-old son. Recently we had a friend of his, whom I'll call Joe, over for dinner with a lot of other people. The next day Joe's mom texted my wife and said that Joe didn't like being made fun of at our dinner table. I think my wife texted back and tried to explain ... (270 words)

I'm too jealous and need attention constantly from my partner. How do I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 6 months and have recently moved in with him. We love each other and treat each other really well but for some reason I find it hard to feel satisfied in our relationship. I feel jealous and angry when he leaves me at home alone to go out ... (473 words)

I like to dress up in women's clothing and then hump a pillow. Why do I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

17 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My question is embarrassing and its about a sex fetish. I tried looking it up on google and i got all kinds of porn ads n than i tried to find a sex fetish forum but couldn't find one so i found dearcupid.com. i hope my question doesn't offend anyone n i hope people answer with ... (220 words)

I don't want to move in with my mom and my step father but they need my income!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I don't know what to do. My mom is getting married and before that we had plans to buy a house. I don't want to live with her and her husband I like him ok but living with them where we are aggravates me. At our place theres constant noise, cant sleep well and i work two... (153 words)

Me versus Drugs? is this the wrong way to look at it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 1 year and six months now but we keep having a big issue:her smoking weed. She's been smoking well before she met me so it's not something rather recent. We've discussed it and I've told her I don't like it, though I don't have a ... (163 words)

How Come My Boyfriend Won't Talk to Me on His Own Anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, my bf and I have been together for nearly 2 years now and I am 21 and he will be in June 6th. Well, you know how in relationships, as well as any other relatio ship for that matter, that you once in a while communicate with the person saying I miss you or some stuff ... (307 words)

He broke up with me because he thinks he doesn't make me happy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were together just over a year, we then had a few difficulties and spilt for about a month, we had time apart to think, do our own thing etc. We then got back together, made sure things were sorted, that we wern't making the same mistakes again etc, and thing's were ... (206 words)

I've done nothing to encourage him because my friend liked him first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Currently my friend has a crush on a guy. I met the guy during a coffeehouse event but he didn't approach my table until my friend left. We got talking and joked around a lot but I know he's territory I shouldn't be trespassing in because my friend liked him... (204 words)