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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My Crush always has a hard on around me and does nothing to hide it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've noticed that my crush tends to have a hard on when we hang out and he stands in my face and it becomes very obvious to me that he has a hard on. I don't look at it cause I know is there. Is almost as if he wants me to know he has an erection. Why does he not try to hide ... (108 words)

How important is it to date your type (physical preference)?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How important is it to date someone your type? I've always liked guys with softer features and slender eyes, seemingly shy but with a bright smile. My first ex was exactly that and I've never been more attracted to anyone else. He was cute more than handsome, and yo... (183 words)

He wont show me affection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for about 1 1/2 years and he is the man I love. I am a very happy girl with him and we care about each other a great deal. One niggling problem though is his reluctance to show me affection. I am quite an affectionate person and feel that small ... (684 words)

How do I deal with my partner's manipulative ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hope you can offer important advice please. Myself and my partner have been together 2 years, he has 2 wonderful children who I love to bits. He has been broken up from his ex 4 years so we met a long time after they broke up. We have recently moved in together. His ... (277 words)

How do I let this older man know I am interested without screwing things up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently found myself being really attracted to a man I have got to know through social media. We have a lot in common, share lots of interests and there is an age gap of about 20 years. How do I let this man know I am interested without scaring him off? I'm pretty s... (113 words)

A good friend confessed that he likes me and I'm uncertain of what to do. He's not my type!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was online on FB last night and a good friend of mine wrote to me and said: .. bare in mind he is a good friend of mine and is completely not my type. I don't know what to do? Will I regret not taking this chance? Is he even asking for a chance or is he just informing me that ... (457 words)

My uncle doesn't like me and my mother's taking his side

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I really need help with some family issues. (I'm sorry for bad english) A couple of months ago, my uncle (my mother's brother) said really mean things about me and my father, in front of me and my mother. He was rude, he yelled at me for no reason at all, he made me ... (494 words)

We're great together but I'm frustrated by his lack of maturity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! So me and my bf has been together for almost 2 years now and we have an amazing relationship. Hes only a year younger than me but i feel like he has so much growing up to do and it literally drives me crazy! My biggest mistake was taking all of our classes together ... (175 words)

Why is my crush so in denial about liking me? He's always trying to get my attention.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a problem with my crush. He is so in denial with his feelings towards me. I know I may sound like I know that he likes me but he even said some things about him liking me. He's showed a lot of sighs that he likes me he helps me he does a lot for me. Whenever me an... (251 words)

I love my boyfriend but don't want a sexless passionless relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I love him very much, but I'm not happy with our sex life. When we first started dating he was really hot for me and couldn't get enough of me, but it has tapered off drastically. We have sex maybe once per week and when we do ... (224 words)

Is it just me or is my crush over protective of me ?!?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Is it just me or is my crush over protective of me ?!?! Ok so I've been noticing that he has been wanting to be around am ALOT. He never really gives me a chance to like talk to my other dude friends . He is always trying to help whenever me and my other dude friends are play ... (200 words)

Should I accept him when he doesn't know why he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out every week with this friend who was introduced to me by my friend. He is a very nice guy. He text-ed me everyday and makes time for me. Last week after several dates he asked the question:" I was thinking when is a good time for me to ask the question can ... (194 words)

Married man let himself get close to me and now he is ignoring me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Me and this married guy are "friends". We used to talk together a lot privately after work. He would stay back making extra time for me. He would always hold my eye contact for a long time whenever we saw each other. I caught him looking at me a few times when he th... (254 words)

I'm getting frustrated with my boyfriend's girl friend but I do like her. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Argh this is a horrible question and I've been debating with myself on whether to post on it for ages now but it's just got to the point where I can feel it getting on top of me and I need someone to talk some sense to me! Basically, my boyfriend and I haven't been tog... (499 words)

We tried to have sex for the first time but it wouldn't fit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I think I'm not the first one to have this issue, but i couldn't calm down from all I've seen on the Internet. Last night, my boyfriend and I tried having sex for the first time. It was my first time, well I don't know if this one even counts as a first time ... (185 words)

Do I tell him that I was intimate with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know where to start with but... I after finishing 12th always wanted to have a loving and caring boyfriend...when I entered B.tech i stayed at the hostel where i found that almost every girl is committed to someone...I too wanted to have a relationship...so I started ... (626 words)

Married for nearly nine years, together with my wife for eleven and a half years and I've fallen for a 20 yr old girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for nearly nine years and together with my wife for eleven and half years. Recently the marriage has been going through a lull and I fell for a 20 yr old girl. We get on really well and cant stop wanting to be together. They know about each other and b... (82 words)

When drunk my b/f told my friend she was the love of his life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age - We had a party last night and my boyfriend thinks this one friend is hot. She tends bar at a club we go to. He gets drunk and always talks about how hot she is to me and last night with my friends at the party told her she was the love of his life and it was all about her all ... (113 words)

Is my ex confused about his feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my ex confused about his feelings for me?. One of my exes friends told me a while ago that my ex said that he regrets that we broke up and that he likes me. My ex has text me and called me sometimes, asking how i am and what i have been up to. I went out last weekend and i ... (640 words)

How do I ask her out without sounding creepy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - There's this girl who I've been friends with for a good couple of years and over time we've been seeing each other more and more. It wasn't until a couple of months ago I started to develop feelings for her. We met up yesterday at a friend's house, we ended up playing truth or ... (152 words)

Is my long distance relationship essentially over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my (maybe, probably, I don't even know) ex are both 35 yo females in an LDR. Very very long distance, like 10000 miles. I was meant to visit her but recently I've been diagnosed with a very serious anxiety disorder so I'm unable to. She cancelled the flight and got a... (786 words)

Does she need more time, even if she says that she would like to be in a relationship with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear community, here's my problem. There's this girl, I've always liked her (as a friend of course). One day, she broke up with her boyfriend (they've been together for three years). We started texting a lot, met several times, had a great great time together, kissed and ... (221 words)

How do I develop a social life again? I look after my Mom at home and I work as well. At the end of the day I'm tired.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 24 years old.. And I'v been working for a year now but it has completely taken a toll on my social life! When I was a student I was very active,hang out with friends,go to a lounge..BUT now after work all I want to do is come back and sleep or rest and watch a DVD or n... (159 words)

I want to call her so bad but it's been 2 weeks :( What if she's fallen out of love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I’m in really hard situation. My girlfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago, and it’s hard to say who really ended it; it was as mutual as it gets but it was over text messaging. We have been fighting a lot and I think at that time we had had enough. We were engage... (390 words)

Is he commitment phobic? He told me he loves me but then destroyed my trust in him. What's his problem?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age - Hi, Would like some thoughts on the following... Dated a guy for two years and for the last seven months we have been going through a rough patch about living together. We arranged to sell our houses and live together. I sold mine first and he was going to sell his and... (560 words)

Were her remarks a harmless joke? Or a hint that she likes me? Because I really like her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A harmless joke or a hint that she likes me? Was a bit shocked when I bought my new friends [two girls] at uni, a cute little dessert back from the canteen, for one of them to say 'aw, you're so sweet' and then 'I think I love you, I'm not even joking' [straight faced]. ... (89 words)

I met this guy and I like him. Would meeting for coffee be a good idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi people! I met this guy on Friday night, he was really nice and we talked/had alot of drinks together. I ended up back at his house for a drink - note we were both drunk but i was sober enough for it not to go any further (i am not like that at all) anyway because we were ... (247 words)

He's still with his girlfriend, so why is he still seeing me? Does he like me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a guy about 3 years ago and we never broke it off In bad terms we just fell apart .. So he ended up with someone and i was really happy for him so last year i messaged him and we spoke about the past and he asked if he could come over. So I said yes and we had s... (97 words)

Are there any options to deal with a mean boss who seems to enjoy humiliating people and being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My manager isn't the nicest of people - well actually he is, if your face fits! He's been with the company for 3 years and has always had an attitude on him. What really bothers me is how he treats people. For example he's only nice to people who have money or from wealthy ... (481 words)

It's my wedding. I've been polite to her and it didn't work. How should I deal with this very demanding clingy wedding guest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting married later on this year; abroad in Switzerland (my partner is from there). Now I have a couple of my friends coming over for the wedding from the UK- which I'm happy about with the exception of 1 person... Basically this friend of mine can't seem to understand t... (426 words)

Depressed. Have even lost the urge to sleep with hookers. And I like this girl's who's unavailable. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been sleeping with hookers on a weekly basis since I was 21. However, things have changed recently. However, recently, , I've just lost the urge to do it anymore. To make matters worse, I'm afraid that it might have something do with the fact that I harbor feelings... (179 words)

Why do girls like guys with attitude? Why can't they admit they don't like swet guys?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m in a relationship with my current girlfriend for the last 14 months. Before that, I was in relationship twice : for two years and one year respectively and I was dumped because I was too sweet and loveable boyfriend. Before entered into this new relationship... (319 words)

Our marriage is on the brink. How can I understand my husband and his actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - A year and a half ago I would have said I had the best marriage ever. Three great kids, a devoted husband and good father for our kids. So much so much can change so quickly. It started with a move. Husband took a job transfer and the plan was for the kids and I to be... (359 words)

How stand by my decisions, without feeling like I have to be a certain way, to have friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4270 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have decided to make some changes in my life such as stopping drinking and trying to love myself more so I dont get involved with losers which just leads to getting used and abused. My concern is that I won't know how to communicate with the people in my life, the ones I u... (147 words)

He proposed, I turned him down. I want to be honest to him and I don't want to lose him. What is the best way to approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Boyfriend for 4 years, thinking of getting married, is it a good idea? My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years now. I say almost because almost every year we break up for a a month or 2. We have had to go through a lot together and it has been really hard... (594 words)

Should I contact him after 1st date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my clients (I'm a cosmetologist) set me up with her boyfriends friend. He never really texted me a lot but when he did he seemed nice. She informed me that he's really shy so I figured that's why he doesn't text a lot. He asked me out to lunch and we went. It was nice. ... (226 words)

My wife's sister hates her and we don't understand why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is 42 years old. Her sister is 43 years old. For reasons we don't understand, my sister-in-law hates my wife. I understand that they fought when they were little and throughout high school, but no singular event occurred my wife can point to. It's not like my w... (752 words)

My girlfriend has manipulated me into staying

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - this is my story.... i am doing my ug course currently.during my freshmen year i met this girl with whom i have been in a relationship with for the past two and half years. everything at first was magical. she was my first love and i believed her to be "the one". but one day ... (453 words)

Should I give him a love letter on graduation day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4270 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with this guy for over a year now. He knows about my feelings for him. We talked about it and he said he wasn't sure about how he feels and that he didn't want to get into a relationship that he wasn't sure he could fight for. We're "friends" right now. We ... (270 words)

How can I have a better relationship with my mom, boyfriend and children??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4265 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I have "relationship" problems with my mom, my hisband AND my kids! Im 24 years old, and currently moved in with my mother and grandfather to help them care for themselves. My mother is a hoarder. She has many emotional issues, and Her best friend who is a family ... (834 words)

I'm falling for my boyfriends father!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old about to be 16 and I used to date this boy that is now 19. We broke up because he wasn't in a stable environment at the moment. We still remain extremely good friends, though. We talk almost everyday. Now, I don't know what has gotten into me but I'm starting ... (177 words)

Slept with him before I discovered he was in a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that I slept with a guy a few times before he told me he has been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He keeps telling me he really likes me though. The problem is I really like him too. I know I wouldn't ever be able to trust him if they broke up an... (167 words)

I feel that my friend is trying to tell me something about my Bf. Could this be true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4270 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I caught up with a friend who I hadn't seen for quite a while, although my boyfriend and his friends do sometimes hang out. friends Anyways, I live next to the bus station, and he was going home, so he dropped me off at my place. While we were waiting for his bus, he ... (365 words)

He has health issues and his has POA over him. Why does he defer to his sister so much? Why can't he spend more time with me instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4270 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age - I like my boyfriend who is my neighbor. His mom lives with him she has health problems and he suffers with seizures. I do feel that she baby's him a little too much. My problem is this afternoon his sister came, went with his Mom and they went out. He always takes a nap due to... (235 words)

How can I best get over him? Or just come to terms with the fact that he's not interested and is going away in August?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4270 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I met this guy at a party in October of 2012. He was in my extended friend group and it sort of became obvious that he like me after we met a few more times at the pub and at more parties. I wasn't sure, I liked him as a person and we had a lot in common an... (976 words)

What does it mean when guys seem interested, yet then cancel dates at last minute for stupid reasons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

14 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a guy seems excited to see you but then cancels on you for a stupid reason? So there's this guy I met in high school and we liked each other alot back then and admitted we liked each other. We were also good friends but long story short he... (313 words)

I need your input please. He flirts a lot. But is there no hope, if he told me that he's: "relieved that you don't have a crush on me"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

14 April 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I know that I have posted a similar question before, however I need further advice. I have known this guy for about three years and been emailing literally every day late 2011 - early 2012. Then in the spring we had no contact at all really for a year. I had no idea where w... (742 words)

Her mother caught her doing a hand job on me and I had to leave.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

14 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I were at her house we were cooling about and she was giving me a hand job her parents are strict and against us doing anything however, while she was giving me a hand job her mother saw and called josie out of the room said that I needed to go home right away ... (73 words)