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writes:Help! I love this site, you're always so helpful. I'm feeling weak because my ex is being nice and I'm missing him. I know I don't want to get back with him tho he keeps trying. Help me please to have some self control. Why do I still miss him every now and then? I was doing so well. Please advise me!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 April 2013):
 stop having contact with him and giving him hope and belief that he can win you back.
if you don't want to get back with him and you have no children with him you have no need to have any contact.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (17 April 2013):
You are hurting him. Do you realize that?
You need to distance yourself from him. Do not answer the phone emails or text messages. We all get lonely from time to time. Fill your time with something constructive.......use a buddy system. Ask a girlfriend to assist you with this. Ask if you can call her when you feel lonely.
You are also hurting your chances to move forward.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): its natural, you once loved him and so of course there will (potentially always) be feelings. you just need to keep remembering that there is a reason you are not together, and that being lonely or missing him or whatever else is not a good enough reason to get back with someone. keep strong and keep going, you're a confident independent woman and you dont need him anymore, no matter how nice he is being. things will always go back to the way they were, they always do, so try to distract yourself from him and he will soon be out of your thoughts
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