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writes:Hi...First I really want to tell u who i love this website I really like it...It's really cool Isn't it? lol...Okay!I'm going this Saturday on a date with a girl...It will be the first And I want to know if I can kiss this girl during the first date...If yes How should i do it without screw up the date? But If Non when I can take that step...Plz Help me and thank uI'm 17, male and I'd never kiss a girl! ! Thank U... Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 April 2013):
 IF she wants to be kissed then yes you can kiss her... but only if she wants it...
I think that maybe a kiss on the cheek when you walk her to the door to say goodnight would be perfectly fine as long as she's ok with it.
the truth is, you will be able to know if she wants a kiss, the way she tilts her head, or closes her eyes or purses her lips... my husband says I always pout just a teeny tiny bit when I want a kiss....NOT a lot but enough that he has learned my signals.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (16 April 2013):
 I don't think you should kiss her on the first date unless that is what she wants.
If she wants you to kiss her you will know. She will stand close to you, look at you, look at your lips and into your eyes. She will not speak, just stand close and look at you as if she is waiting for something. Then you should try to lean a little bit closer, and just see how she reacts. If she doesn't move, then you can kiss her. If she moves away a bit, retreat and wait for another time.
Kisses aren't common unless you're already starting to become a couple, I think.
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reader, HeresBoo  +, writes (16 April 2013):
 hrangel28 is right, go with the flow.
I found it very cute on a date I went on when the guy had asked me, while texting beforehand, if he could get a kiss on the date and it became a cute way to flirt with me saying maybe and him waiting for it.
Another guy I was seeing, who I used to take the bus with each day, asked me if he could walk me home and after a few times doing that he asked me if he could get a kiss, so I said maybe and as we got off the bus and onto my street, he stood there open arms as I walked off and said "where's my kiss?" I thought it was very cute of him, showed he wanted it :P Nd of course he got it haha, sometimes you an just ask!
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reader, hrangel28 +, writes (16 April 2013):
Well I can tell you for sure that the first kiss. Will always stick with you.
Yes. You can kiss on a a first date. But. Believe me during the date your mind won't be on her lip.
Before you try to make a move on her. Make sure the date is going well. Be aware if she hints you anyway. Maybe she beats you to the punch, and kisses you first. The truth fccis you don't know. My advice would be to. Just go with flow of. The date. If it happens, it happens. Not then. Maybe next time . Look the best advice that I
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