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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The Crying Game: what to do other than leave this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Im 40 years old and tired of a four year relationship with a 33 yaer old woman who cry's all the time. Ive asked and tried to comfort but she does it and has done it so much it infuriates me to hear her whiney voice and its always over attention she isnt getting. We lived in ... (226 words)

I want to go out with a guy I've never even met!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this sounds ridiculously stupid but please hear me out. I'm at uni, the stereotypical "party girl" and used to be really shallow regarding guys. I'd get romantically involved with the most attractive guys who showed the slightest bit of interest in me, who also hap... (416 words)

It's getting harder to resist my urges!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all I'm a 28 y.old guy and I've been in a good relationship with my 24 year old gf for more then a year now. We love each other, and spend all our spare time together. It is important to mention that I find her very attractive, yet, I can't stop looking at other young wome... (128 words)

He told me to keep the ring but I think he should have it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was engaged to be married to this wonderful man,we were dating for 4 years and then he asked me to be his wife,we were engaged for 8 months and were to be married soon!BUt things took a complete downfall at his work,and he started taking those frustrations out on me and in ... (169 words)

I feel I missed out, I've only ever been with my wife!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I married 20 yrs I know all my wife's sex partners. We went to high school I've even know what they did because she told me year 20yrs ago. I have seen her have sex with one at a party. I cant get it out of my head its driving me crazy . I have been with her all my life ... (84 words)

Should I feel guilty? My ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids, we haven't had sex in over 2 years, and I have started seeing someone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids we have had no sexual relations in over 2 years he hasn't even tried. he doesn't kiss me or tell me he loves me. He doesn't even touch me in anyway. I have talked to him about it. he said he would try harder but ... (151 words)

From the sounds of things is this still worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - A couple of months ago, I met a guy via online dating and I have not felt this excited about someone in such a long time. I have been single for 3 years. In the early stages, we mentioned about the idea of meeting up and seeing what happens. He lives under 2 hours away from me, ... (215 words)

We are going to hang out at his apartment, alone, and I'm as nervous as all get out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been talking to this guy for two months now and thisnSunday we are suppose to hang out at his apartment, alone, while his roommates are at work. We've hung out before just not THIS alone. And well, clearly I'm nervous as all get out. He is more experienced annd crazy ... (106 words)

Why don't I want someone who actually wants me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 21 years old and ever since I was 18, I've only had 2 serious relationships. My first relationship was abusive and controlling, my second relationship involved drugs and alcohol. My first abusive boyfriend left me for another girl and got her pregnant, which I am... (574 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years has lost interest in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I believe my bf of 3 years lost interest in me. He is not calling/picking up calls when he is away. Not spending any time with me even @ home. Always fighting. I'm not nagging, I don't fight, literally do everything he ask for. What should I do now, how to rekindl... (63 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm not sure if I did the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated my boyfriend for 8months and we started drifting apart. I attributed it to the fact that he was working at that time (it was vacation. We're both college students) so maybe that's why we couldn't hear from eachother much. That was actually our first time spending some ... (367 words)

Does it mean my LDR is over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We talk about our future plans sometimes and decided to live together in Aug. He studies abroad and has a part-time job. He has to work almost every day so he can afford the rent and other expense. He's always busy and ... (213 words)

How do I get my girlfriend out of my house? I'm sick of her lies and her cheating...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl for almost two years. She has constantly lied and told me she was not talking to guys. She talks to guys that don't help her I help her financially and emotionally, and I have taken care of her when she is sick or car problems. I am a professi... (402 words)

Need some help reading the signs from this girl....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this girl for like 10 months she's a bit weird to me sometimes she's really nice eye contact and everything and then sometimes she's distant, cold etc.. Sometimes when we're walking together she walks really close to me we're always bumping on each other, I actually... (112 words)

I'm so tired of my mother!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well, this is pushing me to the limit I can't handle this any more I think there is some thing wrong with my mom. She wakes up at 330am every morning because she makes coffee right next to my room because the kitchen is next to my room, so anyways she wakes up at 330am says ... (180 words)

He cant be bothered with intimacy anymore, am I wrong for wanting more than just companionship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong to want more than companionship?? Hi I'm in a relationship with a guy who I've known 10 yrs. I'm in my late thirties. My relationship has been a Rocky one. He has always been the one running back and I have allowed this. The last 6 mths or so we haven't had much ... (248 words)

Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - So im 14, I HAVE ALWAYS ALWAYS liked boys. I have many pictures of male celebs on my wall and phone. I have always made sure i looked good when a hot boy has walked past. Tried to impress boys make them like me. Started friendships and formed crushes or already had one. I ... (222 words)

He left his first love for me. Now how do I learn to trust him, despite his past track record of distrust?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have trust issues with my partner, Ted. we met when experiencing the worst times of our lives, and eventually fell in love. became best friends, study partners and each other's greatest comforter. the issue is, Ted had cheated on his former girlfriend, Mary Anne, to be... (469 words)

Has anyone with PCOS succeeded in getting pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have PCOS and thanks to that I never get a period. Me and my boyfriend want a baby. I started metformin a month ago and have been taking 2000mg for 2 weeks now. Has anyone succeeded in conceiving? I really really want a baby now. Anyone any tips that could help... (66 words)

Should I tell my cousin I love him, or make him fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - im a teenager, im in love with my cousin but he dosent know that. i want him to be my life partner. their family is so close to me. i tried hard to forget him, but unable to do it. i am unable to avoid him. when i see him my heart beat increases and i feel so happy when talks ... (109 words)

Confused why she kisses me but doesn't want to take things further because there's no spark.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm forty two and recently met someone. She's thirty nine and single. We've gone out about half a dozen times, and cuddled a few times and made out three times. The first two times it was mutual and spontaneous. We were cuddling in my room and all of a sudden we were kissing. ... (161 words)

Anyone know a good way in which I can shave daily and not bleed to death and tear up my skin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Wondering if anyone else has experienced this and can give advice. I have PCOS and as a result of that I have rather bad hirsutism, lucky for me though I am red headed and my hair isn’t exactly dark but I do still have to shave. Everyday I shave my face. So each morning w... (334 words)

Why do I get hiccups all the time and what can I do about them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Though this one is not related with relationship etc, but this is a situation i am currently going through. Problem I am facing right now is that, I get too much of hiccups, sometimes continuously for many hours and after every 5 minutes or so couple of hiccups are must... (183 words)

I'm trapped in a loveless relationship. Should I just pay him to leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Trapped in a loveless relationship. I am not married. I've been in a on/off relationship for 8 yrs. my problem is that after a split of around 9 mths I stupidly got back with my ex. He had lived with his mother most of our relationship which had caused a lot of our problems. ... (317 words)

He tells me that he loves me because I love him and it feels good to be loved my someone. Is that enough???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are going on a trip and we'll be staying the night together at a hotel. I thought we would sleep together (for the first time), but he wanted to get a room with two separate beds. This bothered me because why wouldn't he want to sleep with his girlfriend? ... (327 words)

I've lost my boyfriend and a lot of my friends and now my lifestyle has changed dramatically, where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My 3 year relationship ended recently. Not only have I lost my boyfriend but I've also lost a majority of my friends because a lot of my friends were my boyfriends friends. They're all still friends obviously and are always doing things together and nobody even talks to me... (114 words)

Who can I talk to about the visions that I have? Some of them scare me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Sometimes I have visions but the hook me up because some of them come true most of them have him come to pass yet but I get the feeling up to going to come true. Who should I tell about my visions?And why? Sometimes these visions scare me I don't know why and I need help. Can ... (62 words)

I'm married with 3 children, one of my children may belong to my lover. How can I make everyone happy? I don't want to lose my husband.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married eight years ago to a man i seriously thought was my soulmate. Shortly after our wedding he started shutting down sexually and left me wanting for more. Since that time i have had a few affairs, nothing that would threaten my emotional feelings for my husband b... (241 words)

Should I tell my step-cousin I'm attracted to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am sexually attracted to my step cousin and idk if I should tell her. She is 31 and I'm 23 we have been hanging out for a few years I started taking her every where because she doesn't have a car. I tell her everything now, she helped get over an ex last year and shortly ... (190 words)

How do I not ruin myself over some boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - in middle school i liked this boy for over 8 months (still do). i told this boy that i liked him and he said thats digusting. i know your thinking well just dont like him anymore.but i cant stop liking him. the problem is he likes my friend,who also likes him. how do can i not ... (71 words)

My siblings seem to think finding a relationship or using a vibrator will make me happy what is their problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been sex free for ten years now I am not in a relationship with anyone my sex drive is shot due to being abuse by men in my life mentally and physically and I just gave sex up period right long with drinking and smoking pot .I get teased all the time by my ... (188 words)

How do I get his attention without seeming clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he's told me how much he loves me over the phone and in person. However, lately, he's been very independent. He doesn't talk to me near as much as he used to. I've been trying to get him to pay attention to me like he used to, ... (96 words)

How do I deal with this girl and my strong dislike for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. How do you deal with people you really dislike? Basically, there is a girl who is the girlfriend of a friend of mine. Not only does she always cheat on him and treat him really badly, but she also knows my boyfriend, and she is always all over him as well and neve... (179 words)

Planning to adopt a child and want to give them a name

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a single woman and I'm starting the adoption process. Being a single parent doesn't bother me because I don't need a man to complete me and I was raised by a single father and I always knew I was loved unconditionally - I didn't need a mum because I had an aunt to talk to ... (191 words)

Is he interested? I'm not sure what to do next!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I am ordinarily a well put together 36 year old woman but find myself in Unchartered territory. I have recently been having a flirtation with a guy (which is an alien concept as I have been on my own for a long time) in person he is gentlemanly, charming and ... (129 words)

She moved on, why did he succeed where I failed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex of 2 years because the relationship was very toxic. She treated me very badly and I didn't respond in kind. She had a very tough past and kept remnants of it. After 2 prior breakups, I realized that this one was for good and decided to not try again. ... (200 words)

I know that I’ll never know this guy’s intentions unless I go for it, but I’m nervous and don’t want to end up hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (?) age 30-35 - There’s this shy guy at my work who at first would not say anything to me, but now seems to be making attempts to say hi and stuff to me. He’ll stare at me and if I stare back, he’ll like fumble around. I don’t get it because at first he wouldn’t talk to me and now he seems to ... (232 words)

I feel too ugly to be a bride!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't want to sound conceited or like I'm being an attention seeker but I'm due to get married in 1 year and i feel as though I'm too ugly to be a bride. I hate having my photo taken and I even discussed with my fiancé about not having a photographer and i dont want ... (371 words)

How do I find out what she feels for this other guy before I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - over the last few months this girl has been acting in a way that makes me think that she likes me. always talking to me and looking at me as well as ruffling my hair when i'm around my friends only mine and at a party on saturday I kept looking over at her and when she looked ... (332 words)

How can you tell if a guy actually likes you, or is just attracted to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I really like at my work and I am having trouble figuring out if he actually likes me or is just attracted to me. He'll always joke around with me and when I'm telling him something, regardless of how big or small, he'll give me this look almost like this in depth ... (306 words)

I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear from him through text once or twice ... (140 words)

I found links to live cam shows on his computer! How would you feel about that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. I've just returned from being out of town for two weeks. In the time that I was gone my boyfriend accidently broke my computer, so I've been using his laptop. Anyway, I know it's sort of an invasion of privacy, but when I typed into the address bar, a bunch of redtu... (119 words)

How can I become closer to my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't feel close to my parents at all. I love them loads don't get me wrong and we have a laugh I just don't feel like I can talk to them about serious topics because they'll judge me or they'll make suggestions I maybe don't think are helpful, then they get annoyed and ... (77 words)

I kept waiting for him to leave his g/f but he never really did so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I'm confused that I already made a mistake as he asked me to wait for him to breakup with girlfriend of 6 years he told me they are in verge of breaking up but I didnt do it. I just stoped waiting and said goodbye a month ago. I've waited for him to figure things out for 2 ... (280 words)

How do I express my feelings to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my boyfriend asked me to tell him my 'feelings', and I'm not too sure what to respond with, I love him a lot, but I don't know how to express my feelings to him.... (35 words)

Need advice! Is he genuinely interested or just wants sex or some action?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This a guy I met at a party who's going to the same school as me next year, and we started talking on facebook. We would talk for 3~7 hours a night and we have really entertaining conversations. I can't tell what his intentions are, and I'd really like to date him or just be ... (353 words)

My wife stresses about EVERYTHING which in turn causes much stress for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone - I've been married now for around 9 months. When my wife and I were first dating everything seemed like we were on cloud nine, we got along really well and did not have a single drama. The few weeks before our wedding however things got really bad with lots of ... (647 words)

Should I just give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for a while now he's really sweet, polite and cute. We text every week and we have hung out and he recently introduced me to his friends. We are friends and I do like him but he's going to be going away for a few months and it's implied he's going to be too ... (159 words)

Will he notice that I gained weight? Does it matter to men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I am probably going to sound completely insecure, but hey, I need some reassurance. I have liked this guy for a long time now, we used to see each other once a week over a 6 month period last year, but for various reasons we kept it purely platonic however looking back, I ... (347 words)

Boyfriend borrowed money and then lied about paying me back. What is going on with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my BF for 3 years. About 6 months ago he borrowed some money and promised to pay it back the following month. It hadn't appeared so I casually asked if he had paid, he said yes, I thought it was just taking a few days but 2 weeks later still nothing, I asked a ... (323 words)