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writes:Dear CupidMy bf of 4 years is annoyed with me all the time, whatever i do makes him angry, im scared even to talk to him. I already have a lot of problems work realted stress, my family issues and i dont want my bf to give me hard time now. I told him about my problems, and also asked him why he is behaving this way, he says im irritating him or nagging him, thats y he behaves the way he does.I never nag him, what should i do now, pls help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, CMMP +, writes (16 April 2013):
People get like that when a relationship has run its course. He may not want to break up with you, but he is certainly acting resentful.
You have two choices to make things better: you two can see a relationship counselor so he can get to the bottom of his feelings, or you can dump him.
If you choose to stick it out without counseling you're just prolonging the inevitable breakup.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): That is the part I hate about relationships, when the other gets irriated with you for whatever their reasons. That is when I wish to remain single so I don't have to deal with his issues with me. There are days I long just to be myself, alone and in peace and quiet without the burdens that being a couple can bring. To sleep in when I want, to make a mess or to clean without someone commenting on it, to come and go as I please without another person's interference. That is just me.If he is annoyed all the time, there are other deeper issues in the relationship. If he is angry that is scary. You very well may be in an abusive relationship. I would suggest counseling for yourself to pinpoint that and then go from there.I wouldn't want to waste my life on an easily annoyed angry man.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 April 2013):
 Have you talked to him? How it makes you feel? I can't even imagine having a relationship where I would have to walk on egg-shells around my partner. It's not healthy at all.I think there is something else going on besides you "irritating" him.
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