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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My fiance seems to have no goals or ambition

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 24 and my fiance just turned 30. He lives at home with his parents, going to community college for the last 10 years now trying to get his bachelors, and has no work or real relationship experience. His 'income' comes from his parents by working around the house. (Which he ... (165 words)

I think I made a terrible mistake and need help making amends

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I made a terrible mistake. I am a college student, but I am an older one trying to get a second degree. One of my teachers is the same age as me (and I am also a female). She invited me to couple of her concerts (she plays instruments in a group). After the concerts we greet... (253 words)

How do I learn to forgive myself for all of my life mistakes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to like myself. I might get happy and excited about a future venture or project but then I remember all my past failures and I lose hope. I have a problem, which is I remember every mistake I have ever made and cannot forgive myself for committing them. I have ... (149 words)

My girlfriend claims we got too close too soon

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

4 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused on what my gf is taking about. She said she's to attached to me to soon and feels she needs to take a step back. . We've been dating 3 months. The other day she's talking about me meeting all her family and her son and now this. I don't know what to do or what ... (78 words)

Was his relationship with his ex that much easier than being with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hope you can help me and my boyfriend were together for two years I met him in a club and he chased me he had a girlfriend at the time but told me he hadn't loved her for ages but she had a four year old daughter so was hard to split up I told him I wasn't interested because ... (429 words)

I'm a shy girl so what would be the best way for me to proceed with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys There's this boy I really like in the year above. A few months ago we were on a school holiday together and apparently he said he liked me, though at the time I had a boyfriend. This relationship finished soon after for other reasons and now I find myself majorly c... (170 words)

I can't move on even though I am the one who ended things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3907 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I broke up with my boyfriend after 3 months in February. Recently I have really started to miss him, though I don't know whether this is because I miss having someone to talk to or whether I actually miss him. Our relationship was quite messy and when I think a... (131 words)

If he likes me then why doesn't he talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello There is a guy on a lecture I go to. This guy is always sitting alone with a girl. They also take the same bus after the lecture. This guy looked sometimes at me in the lectures. Everytime I look at him I see this girl looking very angry at me. (This girl is having a... (897 words)

Will he ever stop going on dating sites? I hesitate to allow our relationship to develop further because of this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone please answer, because I think I am slowly losing my mind through this. I have been dating for three years now. He wants to take our relationship further, but I can`t. The reason I can`t is because for at least two years, I have been catching him on dating sites.... (130 words)

I am his Gf. She was his crush. Now he's talking to her online. Am I missing something here? Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have been dating this guy for about 3 years now,we go to the same university! But before he met me he was crazily in love with a crush on a fellow student.. They were in the same class and he was head over heels in love with her. Yet when he summed up the courage to as... (272 words)

My boyfriend and his ex...is he lying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice people, here's my dilemma: I have a boyfriend of 7 months now, I met him two years ago and he did then have a gf and I had a bf, nothing came of it, just regular chats here and there. I broke up with my BF and he also broke up with his gf (his gf, left him, too... (682 words)

Almost had sex with a co-worker during a rough time with my marriage, should I suffer with the guilt rather than destroy my husband by telling him about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year before christmas me and my husband went through a really crap time. He was being agressive (not towards me) we were fighting lots and he pushed me away mentally by refusing to hold my hand or anything. I ended up getting close to a guy i work with and after us both ... (181 words)

I introduced my boyfriend to porn. Boy am I ever sorry!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together over a year we are both very serious about each other. Our Sex is phenomenal and no matter what we are going through Sex is always that one thing that we have that just made everything better. until about three months ago i introduced porn ... (248 words)

I'm thinking of ending my 2 years relationship. I think its just time to let go.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Lately I have been thinking about ending my two year relationship with a really amazing guy. I just feel like at this point in life he will be better off without me and could be happier. I don't want to break up with him because I love him more than anything and he ... (200 words)

I said I'd have a threesome but now I'm having second thoughts about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My Fiance and I have decided to have a ffm Threesome, we decided to use an Escort for it. My fiance had Threesomes before with his Ex GF, it is my first one. Also I'm not BI not into other females at all. But know he likes to see the Bi of the women, so I agreed that it would ... (202 words)

Wife wants to take a break but we have 3 kids and 12 years together! How am I supposed to deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been in a relationship for 12+ years. Me and her have three beautiful kids together...two boys and my baby girl. We've been going through a rough patch over the last few months, I found out she somehow got in contact with someone from her past and she pretty much adm... (385 words)

When it comes to exchanging phone numbers with girls I get nervous. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I currently live in London Been here for 5 Years now.I am originally from Pakistan.i am good looking, well dressed and good speaker but I still couldn't find any English girlfriend. Had few of other nationalities tho!.ok English girls start conversation with me and im ... (101 words)

We spend every night together and act as married but I am living out of a bag!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - For the most part I am living with my boyfriend. We spend every night together at his house. He calls it ours, we share everything like a married couple. Yet, my belongings are not moved in. I live from a bag and when I brought it up we had an arguement. Why won't he take the ... (162 words)

Is it ok for a man to have women friends that are ex's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it ok for a man to have women friends that are ex's? Sometimes I get jealous and even though he says it innocent, it really hurts. We are living together, and in a very serious relationship. Is it wrong to ask him not to text or call her? Is it wrong for him to stroke her ... (107 words)

Is he only dating me because he couldn't have my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, im stuck in a bit of an awkward situation and i dont know what to do so I wondered if anyone had any advice? Basically I am seeing a guy at the moment, but its very casual, we've only been dating a month or so, so we havent told anyone about it yet. But the thin... (236 words)

Why do I have lusting ways toward a guy who is soon to be engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I ran in to my elementary love/crush on this one web site and the groove was the same we greeted one another with small talk and everything then he told me he is engaged my heart broke into a million pieces.I think he is the one I should have been with but time goes ... (112 words)

Should I text my boyfriend to break up? I'm not going to see him to do it face to face

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend work shifts at the same place and I want to end it, it's only been a few weeks but its never going to work, I know this. My question is can I do it by txt message, I know it's harsh and not nice but I need to do it before Tuesday so I can forget about him... (116 words)

I really like her but I'm not sure if she's still dating someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for ... (702 words)

Friend tried to get me to sleep with him, even though I have a boyfriend. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Recently I have got back with my ex-boyfriend, things have been okay between us, and I guess for once things are looking up. However there is a slight problem. Me and my boyfriend both have a group of ... (738 words)

Do guys normally hold out a few days before making contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, last Saturday a guy who I got friendly with at a club overseas took my email address and I haven't heard from him yet. Does that mean his not interested? Or do guys normally hold out for a few days?... (43 words)

Married 6 years and I still don't know if my husband loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I m now married fr six yrs but still dont know whether my hubby loves me or no? I love him though but he hs never exressed his love verbally Any signs to understand tht he loves me?? Well he does takes care of me but he never hs celebrated my b'day or anniversary... ... (74 words)

Is it wrong to date two guys at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - is it right to date two guys at a time? There is this who helped me once with finding a location. And since then, we've been friends. I tell him some personal things about myself, and he does same. I like him as a friend and wish to kip it like that with him. I dont want to ... (170 words)

Why do we have sex only when my boyfriend wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, so i posted a question on here yesterday and the people didnt really understand what I ws trying to day so and gonna try again I have been with my Boyfriend for 3 years. It's our sex life that I think is the problem. We have sex, oral ect... and its great. I do get s... (232 words)

Do I tell my jealous boyfriend that I've been texting a friend to play games? B/f has forbidden me to do so!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I have a question, it's kind of bothering me, so I'd like some advice... I'm 21 years old. I have 2 friends, who I don't hang out with (they're busy with kids and such) so I'm normally hanging out with my boyfriend. We've been together 5 years, well - will be in ... (173 words)

Is there any way out of this clash of values and attitudes? She wants to stop having sex until the wedding day (no date set for wedding yet)

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

4 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, This is a bit long-winded but I hope you enjoy the ride. It's certainly been interesting for me. The backstory: I'm a 33 y/o professional traveling musician from the states. Three years ago I met a lovely 33 y/o girl in Germany and I asked her to take me on a ... (1004 words)

I want to show him I've changed. Shall I write him a letter telling him how sorry I am and how I've changed and see him face to face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my boyfriend and I were together for three years but he finished with me six months ago after we kept going on breaks and I kept on finishing with him. We had a really good relationship but we both got stuck in a rut. I lost my job and had bills to pay so he used to help... (222 words)

How would you see this situation if it was you? When sober he doesn't want us "official" but when drunk he "loves me" ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys. after a bit of advice, its really complicated to me but ill try my best to explain it. so, i started working at a job in 2009. I'm a friendly person so got on well with everyone although there was one group i got realy close with, about 6-8 of us. wed go out a lot... (300 words)

I'm pregnant, we're engaged and yet I feel like we are hitting rock bottom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm twenty, and my fiance is 24 now. We've been living together and been together for two years plus. The first six months we've been living together, things were amazing. He wasn't afraid of PDA, kissing, hugging, he wanted to cuddle a lot, we had sex often, and our line of ... (770 words)

I don't want to be this man's toy and then he moves on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently dating a Saudi guy (we are both studying abroad): he is an awesome person and hanging out with him is fun (on a mental level). We hang out, been a little physical (foreplay) but haven't gone all the way yet. I'm afraid that once we have sex, he will lose interest ... (392 words)

Why does my stomach feel upside down when I talk to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is this girl that I had dated for about a year and a half. She broke up with me in December. I still have strong feelings for her and have this feeling I can't shake. I am very sure it isn't sadness, I just can't stop thinking about her. I have never felt this way before ... (107 words)

Why is he embarrassed by me? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i determine if this guy likes me or simply gets embarassed by me ??? bcoz he doesnt really know alot about me its hard to tell, all i know is he makes me very self-conscious when im around him bcoz he always blushes??? ... (47 words)

Boyfriend got me a job where he works but tells me I am not to acknowledge him in any way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I was in a layoff situation, and my bf (of 3 years) told me he can find some position in his company and he did and i got a job there through his recommandation. His work collegues does not know im his gf which is fine with me. But they know he really talked t... (208 words)

After 3 years he still introduces me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Three years dating and I'm still introduced as a "friend." Hurt like hell but I'm stupid. He's a sweet guy in other ways, we get along SO well, he cares for me and it's obvious in how he helps me and soothes me when I'm down. People say he's in love with me. I thought so too, ... (249 words)

I'm scared he's just using me till he sorts himself out and goes back to his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry this is pretty long but i'd love for someone to give me their thoughts on this. I have started seeing a guy who I really like but I have a feeling he is still really into his ex. He's been straight with me and told me from the beginning that he wasn't promising t... (1031 words)

Help me my boyfriend likes my best friend and porn and lies about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for going on 3 years now .... we didnt have any problems In the beginning of the relationship .... I would say a year in to it we were having sex and we went for like hours and hours so I said I needed a smoke and a drink and I will be ... (1011 words)

Our marriage is like brother and sister because he has ed and doesn't want to play in bed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age - Hi been with husband 23 years and he has ed and doese not want to play in bed or try because he say he get upset ecause it wont stay hard and it makes it hard for hin to breather/and yes he is going to a heart doctor to find out if he needs surgey,but i cannot unstand why he ... (94 words)

My ex wants me to apologize to his mother for raising my voice to her. Why should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex have a woman while he was with me. i asked him about he said nothing. i ask him about our relationship he said nothing. i found out and keeping to my self, he have made attempt to pull me in back after the two days i found out. i didn't budge. i asked his mother... (256 words)