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writes:Is it strange that i think of my boyfriend's younger self during sex?. I'm seeing a man who is 21 years older than i am. I am 29, and he is 50. I have seen a video of him when he was 29 ( so, that's like my age now lol ). He was very handsome and sexy then ( and still is lol! ). I haven't told my boyfriend this, but sometimes i think about his younger self, like when he was in that video, when i am having sex with him. Is that strange?. Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag +, writes (16 April 2013):
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If neither of you mind then it doesn't matter if it's strange if your imagining a younger version of him or not.
I would question your choice of man though as your fantasising about him when he is younger during sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): I think it's rather cute. You already accept him as he is, there is nothing wrong with being turned on by whom he once was. As a matter of fact; I bet most women who have grown older with the men in their lives, still visualize him as he was in his prime. However; don't apply expectations on your older version that he may no longer be able to live up to. We change as we age. He apparently hasn't lost his charm or sex appeal.
He snagged himself a woman nearly have his age! I hope he is able to keep you happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): "I haven't told my boyfriend this, but sometimes i think about his younger self, like when he was in that video, when i am having sex with him. Is that strange?."Not strange at all, actually it could be a good thing because if he's shacking up with much younger bedmate, then he probably wants to believe that he still looks 29.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2013): Hi there it's normal to sometimes fantasise you're with someone different or you yourself is a different person, age, body shape etc. if you're still enjoying sex and feel comfortable and attracted to him as he is there's no problem having a secret fantasy, it's normal to picture him at his attractive younger self!
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