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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

So is having a high sex drive good and why do my hormones drive me crazy, is it because of being only 23 years old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, is it wrong that I look at glamour models on website and magazines everyday because it seems the only way to control my urges. It as if I have a high sex drive and I am a virgin, is that a possibility. Obviously, if I met a girl then this would probably stop but how ... (206 words)

I'm feeling paranoid about his roving eye!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just met a divorced guy with a teenage son. He seems lovely and genuine. We have been going out a lot these past few months and I can't help but notice how visual he is towards attractive women. I asked him if he knew the prety barmaid last week as he kept looking ov at ... (248 words)

'm in love with my best friend and get jealous when she dates other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I don't know if anyone can help me, but I'm feeling a lot of stuff and just want to get it out. So, here's the situation. I recently fell in love with my best friend, and don't really know how to handle it. Especially considering the fact that she moved a couple states ... (378 words)

Should I keep trying or is it time to throw in the towel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been in a relationship with "A" for almost 3 years now. In the past 6 months or so I've been "dumped" 3 times by him. It's always the same situation. He is feeling depressed and unsuccessful in his life and things aren't going his way, he starts getting grumpy a... (314 words)

Why is he suddenly MIA on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for about two months. He's moving out of state after graduation, about a month from now, so we've been keeping it casual. He seems to really like me, texting all day everyday and he calls me most nights of the week to talk for 2+ hours. We made plans ... (385 words)

Confession on face book has let people know who my crush is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd posted a very embarrassing personal confession in a confession group on FB, and then shared it on my profile to keep it in view.It was about an incident about a senior at college and how I had developed a crush on him. A classmate saw the shared confession and made a c... (153 words)

Is this relationship healthy? Should we break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend have been having problems a lot lately. Last week and today we were fighting because i apparently am not nice to him, and i dont support him, and i don't love him correctly. He also won't allow me to talk to any guys besides him. He also says i beat ... (275 words)

My b/f doesn't text or call me. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my current bf for two months. At the beginning (like two weeks), he usually wrote me like 5 texts per day and I liked it, we saw each other like 2 times per week and I thought the relationship was really great. After like two weeks he texted me less and less. ... (220 words)

Is this friendship, mind games or more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this friendly behaviour or more? Mr A mids 40s, i am mid 20s. Both single work together. He does not do this with any one else. He throws things at me then will tease i assault him e.g hoola hoops, my sweet bag, paper clip , soft things and he will aim for me. I always... (331 words)

I'm being accused of cheating because I bruise easy. Men don't trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I divorced my husband with whom I had an almost ten year relationship due to the fact that I could no longer take his jealousy and accusations. I had never been unfaithful to him. Part of the accusations were my bruises, I am clumsy and bump into things pretty much everyday, ... (373 words)

Is my man ignoring me because he doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - About 3 days ago I was texting my boyfriend from Florida, where I was on vacation. We have been together just about a month now but fell in love immediately, he has introduced me to his family and his daughter and I as planning on having him meet my son. He texts me every ... (222 words)

My 12 year old daughter told me she is bisexual. I don't know how to handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - HEllo,i have an 12yr old daughter who told me over this. Weekend she is bisexual she told me she have had these type of feelings since last yr.Iam totally Shock and concerned i don't know what to do or say i'd ask her have she ever been with a girl she said no.I'd also ask her ... (68 words)

I want to be happy with myself without having to have a woman in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was in an on and off 16 months relationship with what I thought was the love of my life. It was very dysfunctional because of her very rough past that's affecting her daily thought process and behaviors. It took me evry ounce of strenghth and mental fortitude not to ... (804 words)

Why can't we stay friends??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Others, Do you believe that friendship between a girl and a boy can work fine? I'm in a problem as there is a boy in my class who loves me, more than just friends. He told me that he thinks he is in love with me (still now not sure because I don't return his feelings). ... (321 words)

My wife is very aggressive in bed, I feel emasculated.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

21 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a unique problem. My wife is too aggressive in bed. She has been the one taking initiative right from day one, The first kiss, the first time we had sex, she literally pulled me on top of her. It's been four years, and it seems when we are making love, I have very ... (351 words)

How can I get him to pursue a relationship with me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be "building a relationship" with this game named "James". I liked him a lot in the beginning, but over a few months of me waiting to be in a relationship, I found him less and less attractive with everything he did. He always asks me for money, just told me he is ... (253 words)

Hubby has no job and exchanges sexual pictures with girls online. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok im not sure what way to turn... i can really go to my friends like i want too because i dont want them to judge.... but all ive done is cry today... i been with my husband for 15 years off and on but only been married 4 months... we have 5 lil ones together... about a month ... (284 words)

I lied to hubby about child being his, marriage is unhappy and another child on the way! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35.I met my hubby 2009 through a friend. Immediately we fell in love. I have a good job. He works as shop cashier. I was abit uncomfortable and embarrassed with this, but later accepted him. He however intelligent, hardworking. He was sharing house with his brother the ... (1598 words)

I want this to be more than just "One Night Stand". What should I do guys to make this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear All So here it goes, I have a colleague at my work place that I truly am attracted to him and wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him. He lately been flirting with me sexually, his been touching my waist when he has the opportunity and always tries to get ... (325 words)

Should I give up everything, and move interstate to be with my boyfriend? It would mean giving up my own home, which I purchased before I met him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my BF for 4 years. We are each in our late 20's/early 30s. I have my own house. He still lives at home. He was studying which is why he stayed there, but he could have moved out by now! (has it too good!). A big concern for me is that he tells me that me ... (365 words)

My controlling Aunt wants us to change the date of our wedding. How can I deal with her reaction?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Recent events have upset me and dare say ruined my wedding ...Please read... My aunt (my dad’s sister) has always been a bit controlling. I remember when I was a child she'd always have tantrums and cause arguments if things didn't go her way. Anyway when I was 16 she ... (594 words)

Is my boyfriend lying to me? He said I was accusing him of lying and then he gave me a sad look.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in January, I remember I was at home and my boyfriend hadn't responded to my texts for over two hours. He finally texted me back, saying he was in his aunties house visiting them. I thought it was so odd, for him to visit relatives as it is something he would not do. Any... (384 words)

Am I blowing this out of proportion? Should I confront him? He's my LDR and claims he forgets to text as he's "busy". But never explains what that means.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid May be i'm blowing this out of proportion? I wanted to write here and check before i fight with my bf (of 3 yrs). My bf works in a different city, few days he stays with his friends and few days he stays here with me. I ask him to call me or text me atleast on... (208 words)

Should I tell my ex my true feelings? We broke up recently and since then he's phoned me and asked if I am sleeping with anyone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex(it's been two weeks since he left,he broke it off) spoke to me last Tuesday 5 days ago (for my birthday). We had a nice chat and at the end of the conversation he asked me if I was sleeping with anyone which I thought this was strange as it has only been two weeks si... (142 words)

My parents don't like my Bf who's older. They're suffocating me with their over protection and treating me like I'm still a child. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I live at home still because I am in post secondary and cannot afford to live on my own and I am fortunate enough to be able to live a home for free. But my parents are extremely over protective of me. I have tried sooo many times reasoning with them that I am 19 and can make... (624 words)

I feel as if I set myself up for failure. Are men just not interested in pregnant woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I am 3 months pregnant but I am not now with the father because things weren't working out. I did things I shouldn't have done when I was mad. I didn’t Like the person I was when I was with him. But anyway, we aren’t together, and I’m not looking for a relationship, but ... (293 words)

He never told me earlier. Is he really gay? If so , why be with a woman to begin with? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and no sex! He was in prison for 15 years before we meet and while he has never told me he had sex or was raped I have a strange feeling. He did try once to have sex with me the first year and I didn't because of how m... (357 words)

I broke her heart with the high school thing. How do I tell her that I did so bad they took me off of aid? There's no easy way to tell her and I've held off for months.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My relationship with my mother has always been strained. We never do the traditional hug/kiss/I love you mom! thing. I just never understood it, however, I do understand that she cares for me and wants the best for me. I want to make her happy and proud of me ... (428 words)

He really has ruined this girl emotionally. What can I do please I don't want to not be with her, why wont she let me in! Any advice would be helpful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

21 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for the past few weeks, not long I know but I like her so much and the more I get to know her, I'm sure of it already I want to be with her as my girlfriend. But last night I was left crushed at what she told me, that I'm devastated now and unsure of ... (492 words)