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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It seems like my husband is attracted to everyone but me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I asked my husband why me never says anything nice to me I asked him is there anything you find attractive about me. He said I can't think of anything but he said to me in front if exwife that I'm jealous of her cause she's pretty an your big fat cow an he would leave for hours ... (96 words)

The longer I'm with my b/f the more I worry about his past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's my problem...i need to know how i can stop worrying about my past. Im 19 and in my second sexual relationship....i feel each to their own but my personal feel about sex is that it is something to be done with someone you love..i never had a problem in the beginning with ... (176 words)

My friend's behavior hurt and embarrassed me. Does everyone think I'm just a fat slob begging for food?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl, whom I'm friends with. We're not best friends, but we do go out for coffee, we hang out with other friends, etc. I though she was so nice, and that she liked me also. Today she was with some people (who I also know). I said hello, and at that moment one ... (383 words)

I need help in ending a 2 year relationship. She has done nothing wrong and I don't know how to do this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Need help ending a relationship. Even thought marriage counselor looked at me and said "do not start a new relationship" when my divorce started I did. The person was wonderful and supportive and sweet and I can say nothing but nice about her. Problem is I feel I need t... (245 words)

My husband never wants to have sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i just wish he would come on to me or somebody! I'm 43 and lonely. whenever I try to have some time alone with him he always make sure that he bring someone home with him I've got a friend or something or just blows me off I almost thought about having sex for money I feel so ... (90 words)

I'm obsessed with my female English teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3892 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok,i'm in love with my 'best friend'. She's my best friend but i'm pretty sure i'm not hers. I'm obsessed with her. I met her three years ago but we've only been actual friends for a few months. It feel like I've known her forever though. I remember everything she says.. a few ... (402 words)

I need to cancel a trip for work reasons. How do I tell my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i told one of my friends i will be coming to visit nim nect month and even bought my ticket. however i got a job offer from a very good company and i don't want to request days off right ow. please tell me how i can explain to him that i need to reschedule. what are the right ... (62 words)

Does every man in a relationship still look at other women? Would every man cheat with a gorgeous girl if they definately knew they would get away with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, sorry this is long. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he treats me perfect and has never cheated on me or given me any reason not to trust him. But out of nowhere I've started to drive myself (and him) insane by questioning him and thinking that he's lying to me... (599 words)

My friend hurt me and I'm wondering should I give her the chance to do it again or send her packing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend hurt me really badly about a year ago it started suddenly for no obvious reason. She seemed to be constantly going out of her way to hurt me and said some terrible things behind my back. Including playing mind games and making nasty comments about my weight looks ... (178 words)

How can I make friends? I feel that I missed out so much by not going away to college!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I graduated high school last year and lost all my friends. Most of them went off to college, and they and the ones who are still in the area have changed, so I don't really want to hang out with them anymore, and we've lost touch. My parents couldn't afford a real college so I ... (432 words)

HELP! Does he have mutual feelings for me? I am falling for him...but don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice if this guy has feelings for me. We have known each other for 3 years on friendly terms. I have a feeling our mutual relationship is more than friends. He is going through a divorce and he tells me he no longer loves his ex, only as the mother of his kids. I t... (586 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me and is now dating a girl who looks like me and has my name?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for 3 years. Lived together (with parents) for 1 1/2 years. I go to texas for a week with family and during this time he tells me that he cant do it anymore and tells me he is moving out. He still loves me but his heart is "hard" so I gave him his ... (149 words)

Boyfriend cheated once, now he has a second chance, will he do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up for about a month, due to the fact I had caught him cheating and chatting up other girls. It all started when we were about a month in, and he was accused of kissing a girl at a party, we worked out it wasn't true, bu... (671 words)

Can a guy have an orgasm while dry humping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I sometimes have dry-humping (we've not had no sex yet, but he had with other girls before me). I often have an orgasm, but don't know if he has too. Can a guy reach an orgasm with dry humping? And if so, does he always wet his boxers?... (53 words)

Does he not want a future with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I just want an interpreation to a line my boyfriend said when drunk,although I know I shouldn't be paying much attention to it but still! So I'v been dating this gorgeous man for 3 years now and we went to an engagement party last night,my boyfriend gets d... (149 words)

Should I take my nephew's advice and contact this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age - 5 weeks ago my car was vandalised and a policeman came to my house to take a statement. This was a Wednesday. We started chatting and realised that we had lots and lots in common. I am 53 and he is 49, I am divorced and he has been separated for 2 years. He was at the en... (595 words)

Acquaintance calls me clever. Are there any hidden messages behind this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) age 36-40 - Hello. My name's Bill, and I met a beautiful woman at a café. We chatted a bit, and as I made a pun in the middle of our conversation, she laughed in a good way, and told me that I'm very clever. I wonder if there are any hidden messages behind what she said, as it's rare tha... (73 words)

He kissed me and then the next day told me to forget about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3892 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, well me and my guy bestfriend kissed like 4 days ago. It was really sweet cuz he made me feeel better but the day after we kissed he texted me nd was all like "i feel bad, can we please forget about yesterday?" nd i said ok. and then he told me he likes me more than a ... (89 words)

My friend hurt me. Should I give her the chance to do it again? Or should I send her packing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

'that was nice, good to see you looking good' How do I interpret these remarks by my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I will bullet point this to get the main information you need across; We dated for a year Split up last nov 12 - agreed to remain friends. Stayed in contact but only saw each other for the first time since the split last weekend. It was really nice, no awkwardness, gre... (133 words)

Why the comments on my shorts this year?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I live in Michigan and it is starting to warm up out here. On Saturday I wore my shorts (they are a short athletic style) and a t-shirt. I had some errands to run and some of the looks and comments I got were very strong like Hey Baby nice ass! and are you wearing any underwear ... (80 words)

My head says the break up is the right thing, my heart is telling me no

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, me and my boyfriend have just split up from a 2 year relationship, one of which has been long- distance as I am at university. I am 19 and he is 20. We're both absolutely devastated as we both still love each other and were also best friends. Our reason for split... (467 words)

I haven't told my parents about him. If I break up with him he'll tell them and I'll be homeless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and want to break up. If he breaks up with me that's all fine and dandy his family knows everything about us. But if I break up with him... I dont know what he would do my parents don't like him and they don't know about us... I'm ... (192 words)

How should I re-initiate communications with him and build up rapport to make this happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've lately rekindled attraction for a middle school crush but not contact. We're in our late 20s now and haven't seen each other in 14 years, but we're on each other's Facebook (he added me first years ago, despite havign ignored me as a teenager). He ra... (547 words)

Desperate for sexual contact after long time single - what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Keeping it brief. Was in a 10-yr LTR that was sexless for last 5 years. My girlfriend always had a low sex drive, I loved her, decided I could cope but it eventually totalled petered out. After 5 years I couldn't cope without intimacy any more, she didn't want us to split. ... (245 words)

I'm pregnant and feeling sad knowing my child's father won't be in the picture

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im having to face being a single mum and only in the last week or so I have been feeling loss of love towards my baby. I know it could be hormonal but i dont like feeling this way. Especially when I felt nothing but excitement towards my baby from the time i found out. I know ... (152 words)

I know my ex needs comfort. How do I tell him he can always come to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. My kids fathers mom and dad died and I need some advice, I know that it is killing him, how do i comfort him? His current girlfriend and I don't really get along. I know he needs someone to talk to and he usually comes to me for comfort. I have always been there for him how ... (75 words)

I know I deserve way better than this! What do I do about this marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here is the situation at hand, my husband, I just don't know anymore with him, on 4/27/13 I was having bad chest pains and I was thinking about going to the er, he wouldn't even go with me, he said that all my anxiety attacks are coming from me, reason he said that is ... (233 words)

I miss talking to her! Will time bring her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i still love this girl so much it hurts and i feel like crying. we tried being friends the first 3 weeks of our breakup. but she said i act crazy asking how she is i slipped i love you a few times as well. sex jokes with friends and simple stuff like talking to each other were ... (152 words)

How can I forgive myself for letting him treat me so badly and make sure it doesn't happen again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I spent two and a half years in a relationship with a man who treated me horribly. This man was abusive, manipulative and sexually violent, and always found a way to make things my fault. He said horrible things to me and made me feel like I was nothing. I knew all along t... (521 words)

Why is my ex civiil to me when she told my friend she doesn't even like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm confused why the girl i used to date would make comment like this to my best mate about me. I thought things we're okay, so why she lied seems off to me. You decide... We had a bad break up, I was a douche to her I wont deny that. But she said since it's a small town and... (312 words)

I want to break up with my secret b/f but I'm scared he'll tell my parents and ask for his christmas gift back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years... He is smart funny sweet gentle loves me a lot... My parents don't like him and made us break up but we got back together and they don't know. On top of that Christmas he gave me a really nice gift that I really needed so ... With that ... (152 words)

We only talk properly when alcohol is involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing a guy for 4 months and we have not had sex yet although we have come close to it. We are very shy when we see each other, which is everyday as we do a course together but in different classes. We have a hard time opening up to each other and so have not really ... (126 words)

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiating alone time, then he kissed m... (763 words)

Why am I dreaming about the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, mad question....i keep dreaming of the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with??? im nice to her in the dreams...here's my story we have been together 4 years now i have 3 kids 2 are his my eldest from a sperm donor (lol) hugs my partner took on we have changed his name ... (216 words)

First she says get back together with him, then she talks trash about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hi good day every one , i need help, I have a relationship with a guy for a month now, he has a son and still have a communication with the mom of the kid. few days ago we broke up and within the broke up I MAKE FRIEND WITH HIS X WHICH IS THE MOM OF THE KID IN FB. the girl ask ... (145 words)

I am in love with my x boyfriend, but married to another, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age - To make a long story shorter.. I met Brac about twelve years ago in a chat room. He was my friend that listened to all my guy issues. Was there for me all the time.. He is getting his masters degree soon, but when I met him he didn't have that in mind yet but had a great job, ... (405 words)

I'm afraid my insecurity is going to drive him away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I am very needy and insecure when I meet a guy. I recently met a guy about a month or 2 ago. He's awesome, we started of great he told me I was always putting a smile on his face. We went on our first date and we had a lot of fun. But I've been noticing that he's ... (228 words)

My ex guy friends are not responding on phone. Do they feel threatened that they don't have control over my life now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have a question I like to keep in contact with male friends of mine from time to time. We laugh and talk on the phone sometimes but when I started talking from my heart and saying things that I have been saying for years finally touch base with these guys. No... (122 words)

I want him to end the friendship yet he won't. What can I do about this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

28 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a male friend who is currently going through a divorce. We were friends for several years, however, he tends to be a bit self absorbed and while I have listened to his problems for the past several years, he has not been exactly attentive to my concerns. I've got... (189 words)

She does not want us to break up. Yet I feel doubtful all the time. What can I do? Because I want to get to know someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my first and only girlfriend for almost 4 years now. i am 21, shes a couple years older. for most of the time we've been together, about 1 and half years after we started dating, we've been in a long distance relationship, seeing eachother during breaks ... (464 words)