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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am getting mixed signals from my friend, but I really like her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4265 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Does my female 19 year old uni friend like me? The things that make me think 'maybe' are: She jokes about going out and that I am the type of guy she would want to marry She always tells me I make her laugh She calls me cute I catch her looking at me sometimes and she of... (164 words)

Are my insecurities playing a part in this? Or were his comments rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been seeing this guy (exclusively but not boyfriend and girlfriend yet)for just over 2 months (I have known him for 5 months but things started progressing properly 3 months in), I'm 20, he's 21, things are really good between us in general. But I’ve noticed he doesn’t ... (684 words)

Why would he call me a Princess and then tell me that I like to get my own way and I sulk? Is that a compliment or is he flirting with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he say that to me? Is it a compliment? I was talking to this cute guy I like. I'm very quiet and shy around him and he's quiet Around me too. He said I'm very mysterious and a princess I said why does he calls me a princess he said I like to get my own way an... (93 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I don't want him talking to his friend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He has been talking to his friends ex girlfriend lately. Not to sound mean but I honestly don't like this girl much because she's just one of those girls who is always starting drama and trouble and I personally don't want to ... (244 words)

Is my boyfriend nonchalantly hinting at a baby or just joking

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4265 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend just got back together and things have gotten a lot better between us communication wise, now I'm starting to open up to him a lot more which makes him happy. Well once night we were talking and teasing and joking around. (We haven't haven't had sex ... (375 words)

Is it wrong that I want to feel as if my efforts are appreciated ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for some feedback\insight to my issues! I've always been 'the one' lending a helping hand,be it a friend,be it someone less fortunate.. I work for a charity and make donations..but I think 'when you do good you should never accept anything or want anything'..but ... (151 words)

So hung up on my ex that I can neither move forward nor ask for closure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, let me just say that I appreciate any and all advice I may receive on here. Three years ago when I was just seventeen, I met a man in his thirties and we spent the next seven and a half months together. I was entering my senior year of high school and went through a p... (552 words)

His answer to me standing up for myself is to break up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf broke with me cause i called him more than twice today. I had some money problem, i called him for his help, he got angry that im calling more than im supposed to and broke up with me in phone. I know i have to move on, i couldnt. I still... (159 words)

Is it reasonable to go a week without seeing each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend hasn't seen me for nearly a week. Should i leave him?. I told him that i love him, but i don't like that we hardly see each other sometimes, and he replied saying " I do love you. I've got the confidence in our relationship. Please try sharing in that when we are ... (298 words)

When to reveal a disability during online dating?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When should I mention I have cerebra... (84 words)

Is my older boyfriend just realistic or pessimistic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - HI there, I am 22 years old (female) and my boyfriend of two years is 32. I know the age gap is big but so far its not worked too badly. My BF isn't very experienced and so it sort of works. My question though is this: I am a very positive person, my ambition is to move to Am... (234 words)

Have you ever been so in love that it makes you cry with happiness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Yes, I know it is an odd question, but have you ever been so in love, that it makes you cry with happiness? I dated and lived with a guy 25 years ago. However, because we were so young at the time and I was rather insecure too back then, it didn't workout and we unfortuna... (247 words)

Should I seek counselling let go and forgive, or Should I leave and not bother trying to fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Everytime my boyfriend and I have a huge argument I would leave for a night to go to my parents house to cool off or to go and speak to them and ask advice. When my boyfriend and I argue, we stay mad, irritated, etc., at least a whole day/night. So anyway, while I'm gone he ... (318 words)

Are we friends? more? What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4262 days ago

26 April 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Ok, so this is not the first emailing we did. We emailed on and off since late 2011, but we needed to stop because of our circumstances. Middle of 2012 he had to leave town, so there was no talking or anything for like a year. Without anything changing this year, he started ... (790 words)

Where is my marriage ending? Unhappily ever after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm unhappily married to a man more than twice my age approaching his 70s. While we dated, I knew he was not the right person for me. I however admired his maturity and intelligence. I was at downnest point with no money, career and basically messed up. So I got involved out of ... (490 words)

Why does he talk to everyone else but me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he talk to everyone else but me?:(? So there's this cute guy I've likes for months now and he has a lot of female fiends and he's friendly and chatty with them but when it comes to me he's so quiet. I don't understand why doesn't he have a convo and tr... (211 words)

We are very much in love so why am I beating myself over her past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 45 my girlfriend is 28,which we have been together for 2 yrs and have a son.I have only slept with 1 woman before her, my ex wife who I was with for 23 years. I have this re occurring problem which plays on my mind, she has had about 4 partners in the last 10 years as we ... (102 words)

Should I believe that I'm a special girl and that he will wait for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I recently have been hanging out with a guy (i.e./ he skateboards/buses to my campus which is roughly 45 minutes away everyday this past week and we walk around and talk, he taught me how to skateboard, cuddle on couches watch movies and tv shows in my room while... (272 words)

What he said to me made me so sick to my stomach that I didn't sleep all night. What are my options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years we had a perfect relationship but then he got addicted to drugs. I had to become more of a mom figure to him. Then a girl friend due to everything he was getting himself into. But through it all I stuck by his side and by all I mean hi... (355 words)

Why do I appear so imperfect to him? Do I give up on this relationship or what am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (of now 4.5 years) was a bit stupid. After one year of the relationship, he kept saved pictures of his ex semi-naked and met up with her secretly behind my back (but did not physically cheat). Anyway, after I found out we had a big row and decided to give it one ... (244 words)

So many questions I never had an opportunity to ask my ex. Why can't I move on? Why can't I stop thinking of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age - Why, do I keep thinking of my ex? It's been almost a year, I don't think I am missing her. I never got my last words in, never got to tell her what what I needed to say, like why did you break up with me? I keep thinking what I want to say to her, tell her what I think of ... (91 words)

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions began to get further and f... (249 words)

I love him. Is he a shy lover or a player? He's sent me mixed messages and is now avoiding me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My best friend isn’t gay but I am. He was sending me mixed messages. He send me a text. We hadn’t hung out in like 6 months. I always liked him and came over to spend the night and I was climbing up my bunk bed and slipped. He caught me. I would’ve busted my head and in the r... (154 words)

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued texting each other and she said tha... (724 words)

How long could it take to get over my first love? Is there any hope to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - how long does it take to get over my first love? i dated this girl since oct 2012. she was the one who went after me. i had the biggest crush on her to scared to say anything. she was just amazing beautiful kind funny and very tall 6 feet. we were good friends before all of t... (206 words)

We didn't have sex but he use erection support pills! What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, I don't know what to think!!! My boyfriend and I finally decided to live together and he took all his things to my apartment. Today when he already went to work I put his things in shelves. He has a lot of supplements and pills, especially diet and sport suppleme... (423 words)

What does he mean he 'doesn't want drama'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi , so there is this guy at my work that I like so much but he is m y boss. I knoe he likes me too because of the way he act. But he never tells me that he likes me so last night I told him I like him very much and all he said was he is much concern because he doesn't wanna ... (86 words)

Me and my boyfriend are fighting all the time & I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4267 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months, I am 14 years old and sexually active. At this age I wish I wasn't. We had sexual intercorse when we started dating for 2 months. On the second day that him and me started dating, i kissed another man while i was too ... (421 words)

Is he more into this relationship than he's willing to admit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age - An old relationship is in the process of being renewed. He says he wants to keep it casual, but is constantly saying and doing things that don't define casual. He comes over several times a week, sometimes, twice a day. If I don't call him, he comes flying over to find out if ... (134 words)

One of my closest friends just happens to be my ex. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a little long. Okay, so I have a rule I go by when it comes to dating. I won't date someone unless I've known them for a long time, I honestly care for them, and I feel it will go somewhere. My first boyfriend, I dated for 3 years. He was caring, sweet, was a gen... (392 words)

Why is he being mean? How can I tell him to be nicer to me, without ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I like and I recently got into the habit of chatting. We've never spoken in person though, despite attending the same school. I thought it was because he hated girls, but then he was unexpectedly nice to me at prom. Anyway, the thing is, ever since we've started ta... (198 words)

Why is he ignoring me? Did he get mad at me for not sleeping with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in my class who I had never spoken to until last Friday (I am very quiet in class). Last Friday, I somehow ended up talking to him and we went to eat after school. At night, I ended up at a small party with my friends and he was there. I could tell he wa... (503 words)

Why would my friend delete me off of her Facebook and Instagram?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been friends with this girl for most of my life and our families are also very close. We go to the same school as well but as time progressed we kind of grew apart. Even though we didn't talk as much we still kept in touch through social media and we would talk if ... (191 words)

Why do woman treat me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

26 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i need help. im insecure and need advice on geting over it. i grew up being singled out by woman. i was called ugly laughed at and picked on by woman it diddnt matter who. its caused me to have low self esteem. ive tried asking woman out but ive been used so much. sometimes ... (73 words)