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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Friend told me we are better as friends but did he mean it as he is acting more into me now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Just looking for some advice as to whether my frend meant it when he said we are better as friends. The back round is that we know each other yrs and have been getting closer in recent months as in talking every day. I know he has liked me for years but i never looked at ... (521 words)

Have I let this friendship go too far? He's going through divorce and I am married. I won't cheat for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - First of all, I am married to a great guy whom I love very much. We are not a perfect couple but we are still good together. I trust him completely and he does the same with me. Having said this, I am finding myself in a bit of trouble. A few years ago, I reconnected wi... (459 words)

There have been plenty of opportunities for my b/f to say he loves me! So why doesn't he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, we are both 19 and I am sure I love him, having been in love before. I do everything for him from cooking for him if he finishes work late, to just doing thoughtful things such as putting his washing in too if mine is going in (we ... (211 words)

My friend fancies me. I don't know what to say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So one of my best friends who i've known since starting college (september 2012) has just told me she 'fancies' me, and i don't know what to say?? Any advice?... (33 words)

I have a crush on my teaching colleague!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, and thank you for your attention and possible advice: I'm a 25 year old teaching assistant, studying to be an english teacher (in France) and here's my story. I've fallen for one ofmy colleague, a PE teacher. I know that he noticed me, when I leave the staffro... (138 words)

FWB--should I bring up the subject of being exclusive? Or just chill and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Short version: I'm hooking up with this guy, who's friends with my friends, so we're at each other's houses most weekends. No talk of exclusivity, but we're not dating anyone else, and he's made a point out of acting quite couple-like in front of our friends. Looong version... (417 words)

Fancy me? Or just friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I need help. I met the most amazing guy. He is funny, intelligent, charming and has a lovely smile. He isn't amazingly good looking but something about him draws me too him. I met him through a friend a few weeks ago and we've hung out in groups about ten times since.... (180 words)

Is my boyfriend completely over his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. He is 30 and I'm 29, and we started living together about a month ago. It was around this time when he first told me he loved me too. Things are going really well. We get along great and are very sexually attracted to eac... (383 words)

The elephant in the room: is he my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy on a dating website and we have been dating for 2 months. We speak to each other everyday and say goodnight before bed. We sleep at each other's houses and have sex twice a week. He seems very loyal and committed in his actions and has expressed a lot of interest in ... (150 words)

She thinks that the guy has to make all the effort

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - so i've been with my girlfriend for 4 months and we have a long distance relationship and its a strong one but the problem is that i have put so much effort to make it work and she has only put a few and she believes that in all relationships the guy has to show more effort ... (94 words)

Why Does My Ex Have Hostile Feelings Towards Me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My BF broke up with me months ago on Halloween. Even though HE ended it, he is the one who is hostile. We just cannot seem to ever reach peace. He would contact me and it always starts good and nice, then ends really dramatic. We'll have good conversation, then he'll make ... (251 words)

He wants kids, I can't have any more. Shouldn't we just make a clean break?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 31 yrs old, my boyfriend is 36 yrs old. We have been off and on for 2 yrs. November 2012, we started dating again. We have an amzing relationship. Never fight, act goofy together, always get along and were a perfect match. Which we both agreed on. Month or two ago I asked ... (276 words)

Could our friendship really be over just because of an argument?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really stressfull problem. I was friends with this guys for years and always liked him. As far I was aware he didn;t feel the same as we stayed very close friends (although many people thought he liked me as did I) ... Afew years later we got together, nothing official ... (397 words)

Why do I keep dreaming of my Ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 21 years old, i have a boyfriend of four years and a little boy who is 2, we dont have a complete happy relationship but we do love eachother and he wants to be with me forever. before i met him i was very heart broken, i use date a boy who was a few years older than me, he ... (323 words)

Moving out for the 1st time, and in with boyfriend! Need reassurance/ advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Aunts and Uncles, I’m getting ready to “fly the nest” as a 25 year old woman with a BFA in Illustration. I have enough money saved up to last me 6 months should I fall on hard times. I have been semi-guaranteed at least part time in the city to which I’m moving. I would... (373 words)

It feels wrong for a girl to make the first move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if any of you girls feel the same, where it feels kind of wrong to make the first move? Whether it's hurting the guys ego or making you look easy... Can we make the first move? If you like the guy, you like the guy right? Sometimes I feel like wlaking up to them ... (99 words)

Why can't he just say if he doesn't want to be friends? Why not tell me why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why can't people just tell you to do one if they don't wanna know you? What is it with people just saying nothing, surely if you want them to leave you alone so badly you would just tell them outright instead of ignoring them which will leave them even more confused. I have ... (525 words)

Two years and I still can't move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - It has been almost 2 years since I broke up with my ex. I have been blessed in so many ways, I first moved away to cope with the breakup, ended up moving back... I have seen him about 6 times since I have been back (I have been back in my home state for about 6 months),... (543 words)

Why is she acting this way, after she found out how I feel about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been friends with a girl since october. we were really tight. she used to tell me everything and i was the secretive type who kept people at a distance as i dont like being close to anyone. i started having feelings for her. in late december i threw her a surprise ... (314 words)

Let this April Fools joke slide? Or break up with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Boyfriend pretended to break up with me as an April Fool's joke? Well, apparently, he said it was an April Fool's joke. Should i leave him?. I think that's a cruel joke.... (32 words)

This pregnancy is making me miserable! Am I normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am currently 41weeeks preganant and completely MISRABLE. I cry every single day, i am in pain, fat, i can barely walk or even stand up, tired, bored, uncomfy, the list is endless! It's got to the point now where i just want to get back to being me. Even feeling her moves ... (177 words)

How can I get rid of this anger and resentment towards my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a brief picture of what happened: I dumped my ex of nearly 3 years in the New Year after finding out he'd cheated multiple times/ had a drug problem/ was a compulsive liar etc. I'd wanted out for ages as (as bad as it sounds) we just weren't on the same level and I ... (437 words)

Is neck kissing a turn on for guys? Or just girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Is neck kissing a turn on for guys? Or just girls?... (11 words)

Are my good intentions possibly hurting her in a way I didn't intend? Do I need to step back and let her do these things instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been with my girlfriend for a year now and everything has been great. We are able to discuss any issues that come up calmly - something she was never able to do in previous relationships. Due to a rather unscrupulous ex of hers she has been saddled with huge debts and ... (240 words)

My husband will not stand up to his conniving family for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay I really need some clear heads on this: Married for 10 years, together for 13. My husband is from a very small family - only a mother, sister and one niece. He says he's never been overly close with them, really. They were very nice to me at the beginning but it di... (418 words)

Was I wrong to tell him of my concerns?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ma boyfriend has a new dog so that dog keeps him away from me most of the time. So now the dog is sick which means more time on it more than on me we no longer bond like we used to at first...today i told him am angry because of all that stuff and he suddnely changed telling me ... (85 words)

We need a good cover story for how we met in a coffee shop, help, please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Basically me and my gf have been going out now for 3 years and we are going to get married. But first we have to tell our parents. Our parents have indian cultures. Hence we haven't told them before, because gf and bf is frowned upon. However we are planning to get married ... (205 words)

So I met a girl online, was I pretty stupid putting the "friend" thing on a dating site?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a single dad with two boys, I decided to have a try at one of the main dating sites, and a girl started messaging me, said she liked what I said on the profile. However, one of the things I wrote on there was that if I couldnt find a lover I would be happy to find a ... (589 words)

Is it normal for a guy not to come everytime?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I lost our virginity together, he never came the first time. After a year he still doesn't occasionally. And it seems like it takes lots of effort to come. He admitted an addiction to porn halfway into our relationship, and he's let that go now (apparently). I feel ... (220 words)

I wasn't a rebound but how do I move on, he's gone back to his ex after 3 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex was together for three years then out if the blue last November he finished with me I know he was depressed because his ex before me left him in twelve grand of debt and when he finished with her she wouldn't pay half and didn't have a job so he took it on , he met ... (283 words)

Who makes the first move on a third date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone! I am single and have joined an internet dating site. I met this fellow, let's call him Mr.M. Originally we organised a date for the week after we met, but it just so happened that our work gave us the same day off before the schedueled date. He asked... (589 words)

She seems to have lost interest in me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I met the most wonderful girl on a dating site - intelligent, articulate, humble, kind - and we've been communicating online for more than two months now. We bonded together over a series of uncanny coincidences and shared interests. We also share the same expectations for... (426 words)

I want to know how to ask my boyfriend to be STD tested!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - has anyone ever asked their fiance/significant other to get as STD test? how did you manage to do that? Everytime I want to bring it up, it feels so weird so I don't. However I'm a virgin, and he is not by a long shot, and we were talking about how I get sick a lot compared to ... (121 words)

I want to move things along!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a college party and we exchanged numbers. At first we were texting constantly and having video chats since we both go to different colleges and don't have the opportunity to see each other. At the start we were equally texting each other but now its gotten to ... (130 words)

It's hard for me at work with my boyfriend/ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i am in this serious situation, my boyfriend / ex boyfriend I don't know what to call it. we work the same place. i just found out that a lady who have to conduct business where we work is with my b/f. she brings lunch for him and visit him, he carries her home and stu... (220 words)

I have issues with my girlfriend's past

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, Kindly please help. I am a Virgin, She had 2 past relations. Just recently, my girlfriend told me about her past two relations: 1) She never planned to marry them nor was serious with them. It was just for fun. 2) Initially, she had thought of marrying some rich ol... (236 words)

My much younger girlfriend goes dancing with her ex boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age - I have had a girlfriend for over six months and in all that time she has been very affectionate at times but never once said she loves me. She likes to go dancing and occasionaly has men call her and ask if shes going. Recently ske has had an ex boyfriend pick her up and take... (190 words)

I don't want kids and I'm concerned I'll end up alone

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

1 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Feel like I am going to be permanently single. Been single 5 years. I don't want kids, so my dating pool is much smaller and even on online dating sites there are so few women who don't want or don't already have kids. Have lots of friends but it's not the same. And I hav... (88 words)

Should I try to support my friend or just leave her alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

1 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I know this is a relationship type of site, but I just really wanted advice for my problem. My best friend X (girl) started going out with Y (guy) about 2 or 3 years ago, and they were a pretty hot couple. I was happy for her, but everyone, including X (girl), knew that... (444 words)