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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Planning to adopt a child and want to give them a name

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a single woman and I'm starting the adoption process. Being a single parent doesn't bother me because I don't need a man to complete me and I was raised by a single father and I always knew I was loved unconditionally - I didn't need a mum because I had an aunt to talk to ... (191 words)

Is he interested? I'm not sure what to do next!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I am ordinarily a well put together 36 year old woman but find myself in Unchartered territory. I have recently been having a flirtation with a guy (which is an alien concept as I have been on my own for a long time) in person he is gentlemanly, charming and ... (129 words)

She moved on, why did he succeed where I failed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex of 2 years because the relationship was very toxic. She treated me very badly and I didn't respond in kind. She had a very tough past and kept remnants of it. After 2 prior breakups, I realized that this one was for good and decided to not try again. ... (200 words)

I know that I’ll never know this guy’s intentions unless I go for it, but I’m nervous and don’t want to end up hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (?) age 30-35 - There’s this shy guy at my work who at first would not say anything to me, but now seems to be making attempts to say hi and stuff to me. He’ll stare at me and if I stare back, he’ll like fumble around. I don’t get it because at first he wouldn’t talk to me and now he seems to ... (232 words)

I feel too ugly to be a bride!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't want to sound conceited or like I'm being an attention seeker but I'm due to get married in 1 year and i feel as though I'm too ugly to be a bride. I hate having my photo taken and I even discussed with my fiancé about not having a photographer and i dont want ... (371 words)

How do I find out what she feels for this other guy before I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - over the last few months this girl has been acting in a way that makes me think that she likes me. always talking to me and looking at me as well as ruffling my hair when i'm around my friends only mine and at a party on saturday I kept looking over at her and when she looked ... (332 words)

How can you tell if a guy actually likes you, or is just attracted to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I really like at my work and I am having trouble figuring out if he actually likes me or is just attracted to me. He'll always joke around with me and when I'm telling him something, regardless of how big or small, he'll give me this look almost like this in depth ... (306 words)

I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear from him through text once or twice ... (140 words)

I found links to live cam shows on his computer! How would you feel about that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright. I've just returned from being out of town for two weeks. In the time that I was gone my boyfriend accidently broke my computer, so I've been using his laptop. Anyway, I know it's sort of an invasion of privacy, but when I typed into the address bar, a bunch of redtu... (119 words)

How can I become closer to my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't feel close to my parents at all. I love them loads don't get me wrong and we have a laugh I just don't feel like I can talk to them about serious topics because they'll judge me or they'll make suggestions I maybe don't think are helpful, then they get annoyed and ... (77 words)

I kept waiting for him to leave his g/f but he never really did so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I'm confused that I already made a mistake as he asked me to wait for him to breakup with girlfriend of 6 years he told me they are in verge of breaking up but I didnt do it. I just stoped waiting and said goodbye a month ago. I've waited for him to figure things out for 2 ... (280 words)

How do I express my feelings to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my boyfriend asked me to tell him my 'feelings', and I'm not too sure what to respond with, I love him a lot, but I don't know how to express my feelings to him.... (35 words)

Need advice! Is he genuinely interested or just wants sex or some action?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This a guy I met at a party who's going to the same school as me next year, and we started talking on facebook. We would talk for 3~7 hours a night and we have really entertaining conversations. I can't tell what his intentions are, and I'd really like to date him or just be ... (353 words)

My wife stresses about EVERYTHING which in turn causes much stress for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone - I've been married now for around 9 months. When my wife and I were first dating everything seemed like we were on cloud nine, we got along really well and did not have a single drama. The few weeks before our wedding however things got really bad with lots of ... (647 words)

Should I just give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for a while now he's really sweet, polite and cute. We text every week and we have hung out and he recently introduced me to his friends. We are friends and I do like him but he's going to be going away for a few months and it's implied he's going to be too ... (159 words)

Will he notice that I gained weight? Does it matter to men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I am probably going to sound completely insecure, but hey, I need some reassurance. I have liked this guy for a long time now, we used to see each other once a week over a 6 month period last year, but for various reasons we kept it purely platonic however looking back, I ... (347 words)

Boyfriend borrowed money and then lied about paying me back. What is going on with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my BF for 3 years. About 6 months ago he borrowed some money and promised to pay it back the following month. It hadn't appeared so I casually asked if he had paid, he said yes, I thought it was just taking a few days but 2 weeks later still nothing, I asked a ... (323 words)

How do I handle this unwanted breakup? And yet he still says he wants to be my 'friend.' Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have had terrible times with my guy friend. we have been really good friends ever since 2011. We have been very close and had intimate sex. But every-time he tells me he doesnt feel for me more than a friend. So finally in the month of November 2012. I finally took the... (793 words)

Why is it that he can afford this rent and living expenses now, when he said he couldn't when we moved in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. He has been living with me for over 2 but he has always called it my place. He claimed he couldn't afford to split the rent ($1200/month) so instead contributed $300 a month plus we take turns with grocercies. Now he has ... (253 words)

Confused as to why he keeps threatening to go to prostitutes if I do something he doesn't like!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - im in relationship with w for more then five years. the only thing i promised him was that i will never leave him or for sure i will never betray him. but i will leave him if i get to know that he is with other girls. if any girls cross into our life. he always traten me that ... (134 words)

Why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i need help understanding something. why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger? and i dont mean just a few year either. im talking 20 years or more. and why would anyone want someone that much older? i have read all of the material out there on ... (367 words)

Should I follow my BFs advice and smarten up for work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - HI guys, This isnt a relationship question per sa, but I hope you can offer me some guidance. Basically I work in an office with no dress code so I go to work in jeans and tee shirt. I am allowed to do this if I wish but some of the staff choose to wear smarter attire. ... (186 words)

Should I submit and be treated like dirt because I'm pregnant or should I simply abort?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old 2 weeks after meeting a guy I discovered how rude, controlling, short tempered and impolite he is and so I ended it. Now I jus discovered I'm pregnant I text him messages telling him of my suspicions and he has flatly ignored me. He is not the ty... (127 words)

Ways in which I can get my emotions out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - This question should be realitively short, but basically i'm trying to find ways to get my emotions out? And it sound strange, but I need help. I have one or two mental health disorders, and I have always beleived the reasons I have these is simply b... (307 words)

My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc., but I have some big concerns!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc. No one knew about us but some did suspect a little not because we did anything but because one time, during a small meeting where it was a bit serious, we grinned at one ... (357 words)

Important interview tomorrow. Help! How do I create a good impression? What are the points to take into account when being interviewed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Tomorrow I have a very important career interview for Aviation, Hospitality, Travel and Tourism training college. Tomorrow is going to be my first interview and I have no idea how things go and how to make an impression. Please tell me all the dos and don'ts that I should know ... (58 words)

We were happy until I had a miscarriage. After that we argued constantly and broke up.I miss him. So what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone my ex and I broke up middle of march after a 4 month relationship we had known each other to speak to for 5 years then we got together the relationship was intense we both fell in love moved in together i fell pregnant which we were happy about then i had a mis... (103 words)

Is this normal? Sometimes he's so loving and sweet and the next day he's cold and distant. What can I do?

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29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how exactly to describe the problem my boyfriend and I have. Or probably it's just me? We've been together for 2 and a half months and while sometimes things are going great, there are times when it's all a freakin' mess. I'm very self-conscious and const... (313 words)

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

Does a broken hymen grow back if you don't have sex for a long time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it true that a broken hymen heals back into place after a long abstinence?... (16 words)

Why will he not tell me the truth? Is my husband gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband for 12 years. In the beginning of our relationship he put a porn video on to see if I'd be willing to watch it with him. Just a few seconds on there was a shemale on the screen. He quickly turned it off and said he didn't know where that video ca... (316 words)

Thirty Three Years of Marriage with the last 6 years of no sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age - My husband and I haven't had sex for 6 yrs. I brought a vibrator and love using it... I've tried to make my husband want me by posing naked and doing sexual dance moves ... He is still not moved by my moves, does this means he doesn't want me? He's 65 and I'm 59 and love ... (94 words)

Have I messed up any chance of having a friendship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4245 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 16 and I wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-my-feelings-for-her-how.html because I thought I had feelings for this girl I know. I mean I still think I do but this could easily get confusing and too complex so I'll bulletpoint it to put it in it's ... (888 words)

I'm homesick and need a comfort zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4255 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this isnt a relationship question. I just moved to a new city to study and I am so homesick. Its my first semester here and its almost getting over, but I just want to go back home now. Although I can't. My home is far away. My room-mates were initially nice to me, bu... (146 words)

I want to get my ex out of my head and have a normal life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a very tumultuous relationship for 2 years. My ex and I really loved eachother but her behaviors because of her rough past caused many arguments. I, on the other hand escalated situations. We broke up in a major way 3 times but we would both get very depressed and end ... (545 words)

Should I try to reach out to a boy I don't know to give advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4255 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy at my school. He's in one of my classes and were not exactly friends but I recently heard from a friend of his that he is depressed and has cut himself. I wish I could talk to him and give him words of encouragement but I don't know him that well. What should ... (61 words)

I intend to stay with my boyfriend no matter what. Is that the wisest decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My long distance boyfriend who I have known for eight months has recently began to take a long time responding to any messages that I send him. I asked him yesterday of why that is, and he said that normally he is doing multiple things on his computer at once, though he does ... (344 words)

I feel isolated and hopeless to ever have a good relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age - I have been in a second time around relationship with a passive aggressive man. I understand he will not take responsibility for his actions, and will simply be contrary in order to evade "giving in" to me. He had insisted that we become engaged in order to build trust, but... (485 words)

33 year old guy. Looking for relationship advice as I've only been out with one girl before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm really sorry, but this is going to take some reading. Hope that's alright :) First of all a bit of background: I have very little experience with women, and am a fairly shy person. I'm a 33 year old guy, and have been told that I'm not bad looking, look young f... (1628 words)

If you think someone is mentally unstable, can you call a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if anyone will know the answer to this but here goes. .. If you think someone you know is mentally unstable, can you call a doctor? Everyone I know thinks that my ex is out of touch with reality because he thinks we are together and goes around saying we are in ... (208 words)

My boyfriend has asked if I'm ok if he goes to Amsterdam with 2 single friends. I already don't completely trust him! Should I tell him to stay behind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - HI all, Im in a sticky situation with my boyfriend of 3 years, and really need some advice! last year for valentines we went away to Amsterdam on a city break for a couple of days and had such a good time we went again in december, my boyfriend has always wanted to go but never ... (471 words)

Am I crazy to hope there might be more between us or should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

29 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a FWB for three years (we've known each other fir 16 years) when we are together we act just like any other couple but if we're at work or out with friends we act as if nothing is going oneven though mist of them know we're sleeping together I'd love for there to be ... (123 words)

I'm ruining my girlfriend's life with my drinking but she won't leave me. Should I break things off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I met a girl 3 years ago at a bar in which she happened to be a singer,her voice spoke to me,it was beautiful I used my contacts and got her work at a higher end place..we eventually started talking and then dating..her career graph is reaching sky high and I'm happy fo... (234 words)