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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he not over his ex? Should I even try to have a relationship with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (?) age 30-35 - So I am getting mixed messages from the guy I like. I met him about 7 months ago. We started talking and we hung out a few times. My boss and cousin felt like he liked me as well(we all worked together until he got another job). At the time I met him he was with someone (hi... (165 words)

My b/f is flirty and has become friendly with a flirty girl. Should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. My boyfriend is 23 and we have been together for just over 3 years now. I love him a lot but I can't help but feel worried about this certain situation. My boyfriend has always been the type of guy who is really friendly and helpful and has always had a ton of fri... (538 words)

I'm insecure about dating. I really want to grow up but I don't know how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have really low self confidence and I don't know how to improve it. I always feel like I'm not as good a person as I could be. I feel like I could do more to make the world a better place by giving more to charity, getting a career in a humane cause etc.... (493 words)

How to seduce a man in his early thirties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nineteen and I have a huge crush on a man who's thirty one.. Whenever we're together it just feels right but I can tell we both keep questioning the age difference and it's kept us from moving forward. How can I seduce him and get the relationship I want with him? I've ... (85 words)

How can I tell if it was just a hook up or if he wanted something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I have known this friend of my male cousin (who is very protective of me and everyone knows this) for about three years, he's not a player and has had a serious relationship since I met him. Recently I have started to become attracted to him and around Christmas time rea... (727 words)

Should I ask her out before someone else grabs her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I decided to ask a girl out, and asked my friend whether it was a good choice or not. He then said to me that it would be a very bad decision because she recently broke up with someone because she was too stressed with exams for a relationship. I then happened to see on my ... (124 words)

My crush just split with her cheating boyfriend. Should I make my move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old guy with a crush on my female friend. We have always jokingly flirted but I've started to really like her. She missed a week of uni and when she came back she told me that her boyfriend had been cheating on her for four months and they had split. I joked that ... (150 words)

B/f lied to me and said he wasn't a virgin when he was. Will he want to date others since I'm his first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone and thanks in advance for your responses. I have a boyfriend whom I dearly love and I believe he feels the same way. We have been together for almost 3 years and we often discuss a future together - marriage, kids, where to live etc. I do have one doubt and ... (541 words)

Is he just playing with me or genuinely in it for the long term?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - dear all, I am in a relationship with this man. There has been a few issues. He was texting his ex girlfriend while with me, two girls on separate occasions approached me and said they were with him (he is quite a hard worker and seen as a good catch) he promised me that he ... (355 words)

Boyfriend was my whole life. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago and now all I have is my job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This post may sound really pathetic but I'm just really confused in my life right now and I hope you guys can try and help me out. I would like to know your guy's opinions on how to deal with a break up from a long term relationship. I was with my boyfriend for the past 4 y... (367 words)

We keep dating and breaking up. His behavior changes and then he goes back to his old ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I hav been with this guy since 3 years approximately and we've broken up twice already and after a gap get back together ...we don't get over each other !! But when the first break up happened it was because of the change in his behaviour he starts not being bothered and being ... (150 words)

She hurt me, I love her but should I just live with a broken heart and no violence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am 21 and I am gay. My girlfriend and I got into an agrument one night at her house, so I grabbed all my stuff and told her I was leaving. I was actually leaving her for good, and she fought it. Thst's nice, but I needed to go home to cool off anyhow. Then she wouldnt ... (226 words)

I like a girl who seems more affluent than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I really like. I met her working with her last summer at a summer job. She seems pretty nice and sweet and thinks I'm every bit as such and we chat on Facebook every once in a while (not frequently), we get along fine and she's definitely single. But the big ... (322 words)

Should I ask her out? Or is the age difference too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So a bit of a random question, I have moved offices at work and now am at a office closer to home. Of which is next to a bakery.. over the past few months I have been in for my lunch and have met a nice young girl, who seems nice and has a nice smile.. I go in a few times a... (270 words)

I seem to be the only one on the "team" who does any work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! This isn't a relationship question, but I need advice and I didn't know where else to go. Sorry! I’m in college at the moment, and basically the person that lives with me does the same course, and last semester I ended up giving him literally all of my answers for the ... (292 words)

What should I read into her comment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, So I was seeing this girl which I worked with for a while, we started just running together after work, which lead to us sleeping together and going out, dinners, concerts etc. She has children but she had them at an early age, I wanted to spend more time with her but ... (330 words)

His friends are rude to me and know too much of my personal business

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How would you deal with your boyfriends friends being rude to you? I've found that I'm not really comfortable at all around my boyfriends 5 main best friends. They all make very rude comments to me and even just make rude comments about our relationship in general, and it makes... (289 words)

Should I ask the guy for a second date or assume he's not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I had a date with a guy on Friday night. It went well, we had a good talk, laugh etc and have things in common. I find him attractive, but don't know if he feels the same way. I don't know if the chemistry was there. After a few drinks in a nice, ambient pub we ended up ... (357 words)

Uncomfortable that my GF is going to see her ex abroad. Can I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months. She asked me the other day about my ex's and I told her what she's asked and was honest. So I asked her about hers. She told me that she still talks to one of her ex's. No problem there, so do I. She then said that she'd slept wi... (331 words)

Pregnant and need to get married quickly! How can I tell my Muslim family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been with my bf for 4 years and now and I'm pregnant and we are planning to get married asap but my family don't know abut my pregnancy and they keep on delaying everything. I come from a muslim background and my bf has converted to islam so plz dont judg... (84 words)

My husband is ill and no longer interested in sex. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age - My husband has a lot of issues with his heart and lungs (chronic obstructive pulmonary disease). He's only 66 but acts like 80! He does not want me to show him any interest in sex or anything and acts like he wants to give it all up. help! ... (53 words)

Valid reasons to leave your partner after less than 2 years marriage.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Some of you may remember my posts in the past. Well the good news is that we have been getting along well and building our future together. Bit there are two big pressures that I face on a continual basis. The first is the fact that I am expected to do the cooking and I'm ... (314 words)

Was it wrong for this person to slip their friend a sleeping pill, passing it off as herbal medication?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I was recently hanging out with an old acquaintance and we were chatting about dates we'd had with other people. This guy then proceeds to tell me that he and a friend were hanging out at his house and he wanted to go to sleep and have this friend stop yack... (134 words)

Confused: why did she start acting weird after I told her I am the same age as her and not younger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid well, I am in an awkward situation. I met a girl the other day at a cafeteria and as she was passing by, I stopped her and exchanged greetings so I could ask a bit about the place. The conversation went on and I asked her to sit with me so we can talk comfortab... (394 words)

Boyfriend absolutely cannot keep erection during sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, me and my boyfriend are having a big problem. Things have started to heat up in the relationship and we've begun trying to have sex. Being the responsible girl-scout I can prepared with some Durex. I am a virgin and just really didn't want to get preggers on the first go. ... (229 words)

Girls: Do you say no sex to your boyfriend often?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Just like to know if this is normal behaviour for men or in relationships. Last night in bed with my boyfriend I wasn't feeling too well (have a bad headcold) and told him I didn't want to have sex with him, to just cuddle and sleep. He kept bugging me for well over an... (211 words)

When he asks me questions, I feel put on the spot. How do I communicate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating this man for about a month, give or take. and it takes me awhile to get use to, open up to someone, but on the other hand he is very talkative, intelligent, comprehensive, sesquipedalian. i love that but, when he asks me questions i feel put on the spot and dumb ... (109 words)

Sex with my boyfriend is bad and he didn't listen when I told him it wasn't nice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4269 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my "boy-friend" and i had sex for the first time yesterday. mind you, i told him i didn't want to have sex because i really liked him and wanted to really get to know him, but we did and thats fine, sex matters but its only a big deal when people make it a big a big deal. ... (141 words)

I can't last long during sex, I feel weak and breathless!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years! We started having sex after a year in a half being together. The problem is I cant last very long during intercourse. Its always been a problem for me but not for my boyfriend. Foreplay is what really gets me going... (140 words)

I feel like he's bored when we text. Does he like me at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused about a guy's feelings for me. The other day we went to dinner I thought it was nice but I don't know how he feels about it at the end we kind of gave each other an awkward side hug goodbye. (I didn't want to make him uncomfortable with a real one.The start ... (215 words)

I like a guy, others like me, but I don't like them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been talking to this guy (lets call him boy 1)for about a year now and we were almost going out. we never stop talking until were asleep or at school. we kind of died down and went from being 'on it' to very close friends. i havent stopped liking him where as hes had ... (284 words)

Is there any way to get this guy to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 15 and there's this guy I really like and we text quite a bit and we were playing the question game and he said I was cute but he also said he likes someone else. Us there any way to get him to like me because I really want to go out with him. ... (56 words)

I've fallen for my best friend but now that we've had sex she has backed off. I don't know where I stand, its driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

- Hi guys, I'm looking for some advice with love! I'm 25 and have had 3 serious relationships in my life, the longest being 4years the other 2 being just short of a year each. The latest girl I was with took me for a ride, she would abuse my good nature and expect lifts ... (645 words)

How do I stop loving this mean manipulative man? I have to see him almost every day

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of three yrs recently broke up with me and we have a daufhter together. This man is mean and manipulative but i still love him. I dont know why i would love someone who calls me names and hurts me because he doesnt love me back anymore. How do i stop loving him ... (69 words)

Why would he tell others about his girlfriend, but not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy and I recently found out that his girlfriend is moving in with him. He talks about her to everyone else...except me. I asked him what did he do over his vacation and he told me he did "absolutely nothing". Someone else asked him that very same question and he ... (153 words)

First Date : Big Problem for Me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone I'm a male...16 yrs old And my problem is I'm going to go out with a girl on a date...It will be my first date...Yeah I Know I wait the old of 16 for I can go on date...anyway I really like this girl and I'm afraid To make this date the worst in her life...In fact ... (106 words)

She's "slutty," but I can't let her go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

15 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, well there it goes. I got a problem. There this girl whom I know for 5 years already. We used to be boyfriend and girlfriend when we were young. It ended up pretty ugly and we didn't talk for few yards. One day she sent me a message and we started talking. It was real ... (1541 words)

What does it mean when you call your past partners"friends" instead of "exes"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Would you refer to someone you dated years ago as a "friend" or an "ex girlfriend". My boyfriend always calls girls he went to school with "friends" even though I'm pretty sure they are girls that he dated. I'm not sure why he does that. He's very open about the fact that he ... (126 words)

Inviting him over - would it send the wrong message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been working 2 years now in my current workplace. Ever since, I have liked very much an older male colleague. Despite other men that have passed through my life, he was constantly on my mind. We don't work together every day but there were times that we had a lot of work ... (296 words)

I want to invite my online date to my birthday party, but I'm afraid my parent's won't approve

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Need help!! I met a guy online.. We are around the same age, we've Been talking for a few weeks( I know he's a real person and who he says he is etc) anyway, I'm having a bday party and he's invited, but I don't know what I should tell my parents, they would murder me if they ... (152 words)

I don't see myself marrying him, but he's good for now, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

15 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! So me and my bf has been together for almost 2 years now and we have an amazing relationship. He's only a year younger than me but i feel like he has so much growing up to do and it literally drives me crazy! My biggest mistake was taking all of out classes together ... (178 words)