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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my g/f is getting bored with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, so my gf of a month has just passed her driving test and now she's seems very off with me. I mean we can spend the day together and not have a real kiss at all, we have gone all the way so it's just really weird. She tries to get rid of me very early in the evening ... (84 words)

My husband's friend is coming on to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a big problem and don't know how to handle it. My husband's best friend is putting his moves on me, I don't know what to Do, I already keep my distance but he finds ways to talk to me, he knows exactly how I feel but he doesn't stop harassing me. I don't know what to do ... (85 words)

Orgasm question

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think there is such a thing as an orgasm that *requires* BOTH gspot and clitoris stimulation?? I ask because I've heard of females having either a clitoris orgasm or a vaginal orgasm. I've tried having just a vaginal orgasm or just a clitoris orgasm, but stimulating ... (289 words)

Expert advice? He asked if I had a crush on him, and when I said no he was like THANK GOODNESS! Please Read :-/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Guys an girls PLEASE interpret this :( Not sure what to think? Known him for about three years and been emailing on and off and such. Then out of of no where Its one of those awkward ones and yet funny at the same time type of questions. He's been wondering for quite so... (525 words)

Is it true that you don't lose weight during your period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Maybe I'm being stupid believing this, but I've been eating very, very healthy and exercising a lot over the past week. And I was losing weight, but since I started my period 2 days ago i've noticed I have come to a stop and haven't changed in weight anymore, in fact it looks ... (160 words)

I am his first girlfriend and he isn't sure that I am the one. Should I let him go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused right now. My boyfriend and I have been going out together for 6 months. He's 31 and i am his first gf. So he has nothing to compare to when something doesn't feel right in the relationship. He told me he had this feeling that he doesn't know if I am 'the ... (181 words)

Why did this guy change? We used to be so close!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused as to what i have done i am lost. Before i use to like that 46year old , he was protective, caring would defend me at work, was my main support and we use to flirt so much. Every one noticed and we was just tight i fell for him. People would say he never hel... (328 words)

I followed my girlfriend and found out she was visiting her ex in prison. She was very upset that I followed her and found out. Now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for over seven months now. We met over a dating site, but an amusing turn found that we shared a large group of mutual friends that lived near each of us. Everything had been going smoothly until sometime in the middle of last month. I knew he... (974 words)

Is this a relaxed body language or a sign that they like your body language

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - I am in my 40's and sat next to a man in a pub and the guy is sitting normally at a table with a group of you all about the same age. After a while he turns his body to face slightly towards you to spread out leaning his back to the side wall of the booth that you are in and ... (115 words)

"To go or not to go" that is my question?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age - I've always gotten solid reliable from you guys, I expect nothing less. I work in a very small office..38-43 folks. I'm mid 50s, blessed with good genes, high metabolism, very active, bikes to work everyday rain, shine, snow, etc., you get the picture. The type younger wom... (234 words)

How to win a girl to be yours forever

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a boy aged 19.the three past years.i fall in deep love with a certain beatifull girl.we have been together and still loving each until today.the way i love this girl is incotrolable because i have passed a lot of problems which might end up our relationship.now the problems ... (151 words)

He's welcome to go out and have fun with his friends, but I can't take him smoking pot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf likes to go out with his friends once in awhile. It doesn't bother me that he does, I trust him. The fact is.... he does not respect my feelings on the aspect of smoking pot with his friends. All of his friends do this so he does to. I asked him please not to because I ... (333 words)

I'm thinking of filling for divorce because my husband never backs me when his friend disrespects me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age - I am 50year old woman who has been married for 19 years. My husband isis a retiree. We have a 16 year old autistic son. Since the beginning of my marriage, my husband's best friend has been a thorn in our marriage. His best friend is a 70 year old devorced man who is completely ... (451 words)

Boyfriend mocks me and now I'm so self conscious!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3.5 years is always mocking me whenever we go out (like i look like an ape, or i look at him like a dog,....), its hurting me and i told him several times not to do it, but he always does. Nowadays i feel very self-conscious even to go outside and i st... (96 words)

Divorced wife entitled to 50% of assets, I don't have a property?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My American wife, she is white, filled for divorce lawsuit in the US and we got married in Pakistan. So can claim 50% property in case court give decision in her favor? I don't have any property in my name but she does and she is the one asking for divorce! Please help me... (59 words)

Am I moving too fast with my ex whom I hurt previously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So my ex girlfriend finally forgave me after 8 months and we are starting all over again. I broke her heart and she was furious with me until recently when I did something really sweet for her while explaining why I did what I did and how much she means to me. Now I think she ... (156 words)

GF was my Boss's mistress, and she never told anyone until the boss revealed it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - please help me. i just found out my girlfriend with whom i have recently taken very seriously had an affair with my boss (while he was married. he is still married). she once told me the story of how they met and things that went on. To spare you the long story, the bottom line... (397 words)

Struggling to accept that my GF has dumped me but what do you think ladies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - After a relationship of more than a year, my girlfriend and I broke up on tuesday. She said she didn't know what she wanted anymore and that she couldn't talk about it. After a two hour talk she/we finally decided to end things. This break-up happened after a holiday with her... (258 words)

He's glad that I don't have a crush on him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

Am I a sugardaddy or is possible for a relationship with a woman 20+ younger than me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age - what are your opinions of an older man getting with a younger girl and getting her pregnant? i met a girl who is 20+ years younger than me. we have talked and not having any children of my own, she said she is in love with me and will have a baby for me. ive talked to her ... (151 words)

Is this love without him saying those 3 little words?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age - My baby always tells me that he cares for me " just so much" but has never said he loves me. He's a Capricorn and has said in the past that he a man who will show love when in love opposed to JUS saying it right out. He's also said that he's going to tell me which implies he ... (117 words)

Any advice to stop me feeling this jealous? My LDR Gf is seeking out other friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm my long distance girlfriend's first ever friend and boyfriend, and she says I'm the only one who really understands her. Still, she is seeking more friends, and this is making me feel extraordinarily jealous. I think it's because she has devoted so much time and energy ... (84 words)

I have a crush. How should I act in front of the son of the Boss, to avoid looking slutty or suggestive, as he is a serious man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i work ina hospital and my boss and the wife are strict people who are very rich and are good christians. so now i developed feelings for their son who is our adminstrator i can't stop thinking about him when he comes to work i feel nice. When he is around me i... (112 words)

Am I normal? Still a virgin and I do get frustrated. My studies have taken precedence over a relationship. Should I make some changes in my life?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m male 25, single and virgin, never involved in ANY kind of sexual activity with anyone ever. At the moment I’m really focused on building my budding career and personally think that involvement in any relation/flirt might divide my attention and take me away from my objec... (246 words)

Does Giving up porn give you ED

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's sex drive has decreased. It's been at over a month since we've had good sex. The rest of the time he looses his erection, or doesn't get one. It's been quite frustrating for me, and I've told him that it makes me feel like something is wrong with me or he has a ... (111 words)

PMS wife, Tired of being married to a shewolf!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for five and a half years, and as far as I can remember my wife has had some pretty vicious PMS. Growing up my mom never did so maybe that's why I never figured out how to deal with it as a man. Previous relationships weren't a problem because it was e... (230 words)

My crush and I are now in regular contact, think it could develop into something meaningful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3885 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy I've been crushing on, we've became facebook friends for some time now and I've noticed, since we became facebook friends he updates it more often now. I got curious and uhhh went through a bit of his timeline on facebook haha It wasn't updated much and now its updated ... (157 words)

GF went back to her EX, I made my one night stand pregnant, GF came back and then left when she heard about the pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago, which she went back to her ex (whom is the father of her child). I was assured it was over, and I begged her to come back. She suddenly comes back with a paper showing a divorce, and wanting to start again. I have no problem wi... (121 words)

My boyfriend blew me off to hang out at a strip club

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. Simply put. I'm leaving to go back home tomorrow and I'll be gone for a few weeks. Our friends are in town though and I wanted him to get some time with them so I said he could go out, and he promised to be home by 10 at the latest so we could still spend time together ... (133 words)

My unemployed boyfriend has HIV, but I still love him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age - Hi 3 years ago my boyfriend told me he had HIV. I respected him and we went to the clinic and used condoms. His HIV was well under control. We've had some wonderful sex, however he kept it secret, and fell out with me for no apparent reason on night - and I thought it mig... (351 words)

My boyfriend's parents think I am not good enough for their son

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is my deal ..... I dont feel good enuff for my boyfriend and his parents ... cuz I dont act a sertin way or cuz I was brought up differently then them or cuz my kid dosent act the way that they want her to act cuz, im not in school right now .... theres so much stuff ... (508 words)

My boyfriend cheated with a girl who is now making my life miserable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I feel so devastated and I don't even know how I got into this situation. I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I really loved. I found out he basically cheated on me with a girl who has had an on again off again relationship with one of h... (276 words)

I need feedback from others who have opened up their marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have a good marriage and communication about our needs and fantasies. My husband first suggested for me to experience another man. At first I it was an instant NO, this was years, years ago. We however talked about it and fantasize about it and enhanced our sex ... (127 words)

I don't trust my former friend around my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a girl who I knew for a while who I've always been suspicious of because she use to always tell me about all of these guys she has been with and how she cheated on them and use to always say she could get and steal any guy she wanted. She use to always say how f... (385 words)

Are there different kinds of feelings when having an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 29 year old woman and I've always wondered, are there different types of feelings when having an orgasm? I only use my fingers to masturbate and stimulate my clit area. When I have reached an orgasm i get a great feeling, but if i keep going I get another one, but it ... (110 words)

How can I know that I'm not going to get repeatedly hurt by this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know what I want, I've been in and out of relationships for years and I know that this time what I'm feeling is real, I didn't want to have feelings for this guy but I did. The problem is I'm worried his feelings aren't real. I'm his first real relationship and I don't even ... (97 words)

I felt betrayed when I found out my girlfriend had told me I was her first boyfriend but I wasn't!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

12 April 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright so this is going to be kiiinnndd of a weird question. It's water under the bridge now, but I just want to see if my reaction to my girlfriend a while ago was reasonable. So here goes: My gf and I are in 10th grade in high school. All the time, I couldn't believe... (286 words)

Who hurts more in a break up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Who hurts more in the long run? The dumper or dumpee ... (18 words)

Is sex really ruined when a man has to pull out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Because of a medical condition, I do not use contraception such as the pill or injection etc. My doctor many years ago taught me how to calculate my fertile days etc which has worked perfectly for many years. My ex and I used this method fine for years, when I was near to be... (359 words)

My supervisor flirts with me but I just found out he is gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

12 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a supervisor at my job who always seems like he is flirting, I mean he will come stand me and starts singing songs, asking me dumb questions, and trying to joke with me like guys normally would do if they are trying to get a girls attention. I know that he has gotten my ... (231 words)