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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does she love me or is she crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys i need some advise. me and my ex broke up about a month ago a 6 month relationship. she went back to the guy before me. she said she was sorry but i dont care what she says. shes done this a couple times the guy is a jerk but im not here to beg her back. my question is ... (228 words)

Settling down? Or just sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a seventeen year old girl who is looking to start dating a twenty two year old. i dont know what he wants in our relationship: to settle down or just sex? he often tells me how attractive he thinks i am and that seems to be all he talks about. i dont want to get hurt and i ... (67 words)

I'm hurt that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for my birthday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I am happy being with him. The thing is...he didn't give me anything for my birthday. He simply said "happy birthday babe." We are in a long distance relationship but I came home for my birthday....I was with him. I expected him to ... (141 words)

I'm worried that I'm falling out of love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) age 30-35 - Ok, I have been with this amazing girl close to 2 years now. We were friends for 2-3 years before we started dating and we have a great time, rarely fight and I just love her so much. We live very close and see each other every day. We've talked about marriage and kids and ... (347 words)

I want to tell our parents about us dating but I know they won't approve!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3892 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years and are very much in love. However, i'm 18 and she's 19 and it's really hard to hide this from both of our parents, as we still live with them. My parents found out about us back in June but they told me I had ... (180 words)

Long Term Relationship Transitioning out of the honeymoon phase

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We have lived together before and currently live together again. I believe that I am transitioning out of the honeymoon phase (he did a lot earlier than i did) and I don't know how to handle this. We are comfortable ... (206 words)

How can I break up this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a girl truely and so much... but she loves another guy who is not her religion. How can i break up this relationship? Please help me...... (30 words)

I started feeling insecure after I heard my boyfriend telling his friend that another girl is stunning.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now. He and I have long distance relationship 'cuz he is studying abroad but we have been pretty good friends since young. About three months after we became couples, he let me check into his email so i ran through his chat ... (200 words)

Should I even bother to hang around with my best (bi/gay) friend after he has hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3886 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a straight girl who has a male "best friend" of 8 years. All those years ago he supposedly liked me, but I never went there as I didn't feel the same – but I didn’t play him. However the years have gone by and we had grown closer - everyone assumed we were a couple. I fell ... (619 words)

When did the term "nice guy" start to have a negative meaning?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Quite often, that term is usually not viewed as a compliment (at least amongst many guys). Has this always had a dual meaning?... (23 words)

I don't know if I want this relationship any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3888 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and a half,and i broke up. We broke up about 3 days ago. We went through each others phone and he saw my fb messages.where guys would hit on me and flirt and i would go along.i would always end up blocking them or cutting ties with them. So those men i ... (200 words)

How can I get over my crushes on 2 teachers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am sooooo shy, but, out of no where! I am suddenly attracted to older men and 2 of my male teachers!!! I've never thought of them in this way before but now just have sexual thoughts about them. It's really annoying because now I can't talk to them properly without blus... (220 words)

I want to move in with my BF but get the mortgage on the place myself. Is this right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend are moving in together soon and it might be possible for me to have a mortgage on a place. However I don't want to go into a mortgage with my boyfriend. It sounds cruel but even though i adore him I just dont feel like he is stable yet? What... (159 words)

Are these fishy goings-on, or am I paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I found a message in my boyfriends phone, he was flirting with a girl, but she lives/ works in another country, but yearly at least they come together at a conference in the same place. There was a lot of prompting from her side, so you were really chatty last n... (589 words)

Going on holiday without my boyfriend - should I tell him the truth about where I'm going?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Am i being selfish going on holiday without my boyfriend? I'm going to London for three days next week with my mum. My boyfriend doesn't even know yet! When my boyfriend gets paid, he goes to see his friends for about three days. Sometimes less, sometimes a bit more (it has... (227 words)

Does my ex boyfriend really love me, when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Does he really love me? I dated this one guy for about 6 months and then, like most relationships, if came to an end. We never really spoke after we broke up, I mean sometimes we did talk. But if I ever needed help he would always be there for me. I still love him and care for... (122 words)

Is it time to leave? She issued me with an ultimatum: The bachelor party or her

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend(who I live with) and I have been at odds everyday for the last week. My friend has a wedding coming this weekend, and their bachelor party on Friday night. So she has made an effort to fight with me everyday. But to cut to the chase majority of the hostility ha... (337 words)

I have moved on. But some of my friends from the past have not. How do people handle a situation like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I am a women in my early 30's. For the past 3 years I have made significant positive change in my life in every way......career, education, health etc. The changes have been gradual and have involved moving away from my hometown to make the changes easier. The... (345 words)

Could my boyfriend have lied to me? He said he was a virgin when we met, but seemed to know so much.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were to together for five years. When we first met we were both virgins but throughout are relationship it was always in the back of my head thinking about. What if he hadn't been a virgin? He said he was but he knew so much about it. I asked if it hurt him a... (88 words)

I start to feel nauseous when there's a possiblity of starting a relationship. Why does this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been writing like crazy the last couple of days trying to figure out what's happening in my head. I have had this a couple of times, but the last time, it started about two weeks ago. I met a nice girl and we really seem to connect and like each other. But since I know... (280 words)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a girl. I recently graduated... (323 words)

Is his lack of empathy, and the fact that he is not understanding towards me, going to make it difficult for our relationship to continue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months. He has a lot of an amazing qualities but then there are some characteristics that I can't get past. He isn't emotionally supportive and I feel like he doesn't "get me" like he should. I told him about my painful past ... (495 words)

Boyfriend wants me to experiment with a woman?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for seven months and it's been great for the most part. He recently told me that he thinks every woman should have a sexual experience with another woman, especially if they're in college like myself. He doesn't want to see or watch it happen but he ... (113 words)

We don't have any kids and I even hate to mention this, but should I run before it's too late?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is a jerk and very careless with money! I don't even know where to start!!! Ok, I've taken a few deep breaths and I think I'm ready to explain. My husband is very naïve when it comes to all things money. For example, he wants to take out a loan to remodel the hous... (358 words)

Why did he just up and leave me and his kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we have two kids. A one and two year old. Just the other day. i was out, and he just up and left without notice. Got a email that he has gone crazy so he is away for a while, but I know that was a lie being in a institution. I am ... (78 words)

Why do guys like you more when you're taken ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Why do guys like girl more when they are in a relationship? Why do guys pay more attention and seem to be attracted to women who are taken? When i had a boyfriend guys always wanted to take me out. But now that I'm single there's no guys in sight. But if I do star... (78 words)

It's over, but he still wants me around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend of 5 years dumped me 4 months ago and won't let me go. He broke my heart. He told me he wasn't fully sure I was the one for him and he couldn't go on feeling these feelings of uncertainty any longer. He told me he loved me and that this was just what he had ... (285 words)

My Mom seems to want me to be more like her. But that's not me. How can I handle this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) age 30-35 - hey aunties and uncles, it's not a relationship question, well not of the romantic kind anyway. just a quick background, As a child I wasn't very shy but as the years passed I suppose I became shy with strangers at school I wasn't bullied, isolated or anything like th... (379 words)

I don't want to break up. What can I do? She wants to tell everyone we are dating and I am not there yet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a very complicated situation. I've been dating this girl for a couples of months now. I had never dated a women before and before I met her I always considered myself straight 100%. I don't like women, I just like her. I have actually become very closed to h... (231 words)

Do the good guy's ever win back the one they love, from the bad boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age - Hi, girl's. My question is after women break's up with a good guy, she's been seeing for a little while, because her ex, the bad boy want's her back, the one who treated her bad, he cheated on her , hit her, just a bad guy all around. They alway's say they will change, but... (233 words)

Married 19 years and my wife has never had an interest in sex. Why does she not like sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 April 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I, too, have the common (and perhaps the oldest) question: Why doesn't my wife like sex? I have been married for 19 years. I've been very successful, we've traveled, and we even purchased our dream house and live a comfortable life. 19 years ago, our dating was pass... (428 words)

I like this guy and he knows I do. Are there any subtle ways to confirm if he likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I really like somebody, and he knows. I want to know if he likes me too but I don't know how to tell. I'm really shy and he knows it. He doesn't have a phone, but he has talked to me during school, but only a little. Sadly, we aren't exactly friends since he knows t... (71 words)

So it that it? He told me he was not looking for a relationship. I thought we had more going on than that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I always love to read this website love all the advice now I need some. I'm 24 separated and have 2 kids.now I met this guy in the club. He's 21 and military.. He asked my number and gave it to hi. we started texting then he was so funny and nice. He ... (301 words)

He's separted from his wife but still legally married . We've been dating but now he wants a break. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, this may be long so I apologize in advance. I have found myself in a situation I can't really talk to anyone about, except all of you. For seven months now I have been in a relationship with a gentleman who is separated from his wife but still legally m... (528 words)

I'm distraught about his actions. He's been lying to me and talking to another woman on line. Do I stay quiet or confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 April 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Not long before my fiancee and I got engaged, we had a fidelity issue- on his part. It took me a long time (and I am just summing this up to keep it short) but eventually I forgave him. Its been YEARS since then but sometimes I get bitten by the bad-memory bug and start fe... (571 words)