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writes:A sociable guy of age 23-24 for 3-6 months approached upto 20 girls fo date and not even one accep him! What might be the reasons and what is the posible solution? The guy is tall, handsome, sociable and humble. Ur a advice will be of help tanx Reply to this Question
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (3 October 2012):
Did all these girls know that he was also approaching other women as well? If so, it doesn’t exactly make a girl feel special to know she’s one of 20, you know! Assuming each girl doesn’t know that he’s asked another girl, or a lot of time passed between asking each girl, then I’d be asking whether this guy had first got to know these girls and built up a friendship with them? For all the talk of “love at first sight,” it’s actually more often the case that a relationship comes from a strong friendship, so he should make sure he’s got to know these girls well before asking them on a date if he wants to increase his chances of getting a yes.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 Very little information to go on here.
How exactly did he approach these women? And where? What did he suggest as a first date?
What type of women were they? Shy, sheltered women or more worldly and outgoing? Did he approach them individually or in a group? How well did he know these women before he invited them out?
Was he alone or with friends? What sort of friends does he have? Are they well behaved and mild mannered or trouble makers?
Additional information will help us help your friend.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 is this guy walking up to girls and asking them out without knowing them before hand... just "hi do you wanna go out?"
or are these 20 friends he's known for a while?
how is this guy asking these girls out?
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