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writes:i love my crush, more than anything in the world and would be happy to marry him any day. me and my crush don't see each other anymore because we went to different secondary schools. im in year 9 and so is he. we only keep in contact (but rairly ever) on facebook. we used to have small talk but that stopped. he just started ignoring me. what are all the posible reasons he would start ignoring me?he talks to everyone, even other girls, except me.today, a girl i know on facebook was likecrush's status: heyyy people :)girl: heyyyyyme: yo!!crush: how ugirl: gd ucrush: gdgirl: thats goodcrush: klwhen he said 'how u' i thought he was speaking to me. i was so happy i cried because i hadn't spoken to him in a long while. but when the girl answered i started to wounder if he was talking to me. probably not. he never talks to me. we used to be the greatest friends ever in primary school. now it's just evaporated in to thin air. please help. what are all the possible reasons he's ignoring me
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012): Don't feel bad about yourself if your crush ignored you.It's only natural, your both young and his behavior towards you is so common for guys. 2 things I can tell why he ignored you. 1. He likes you, his shy about it and that's why he doesn't know what to do around you. 2. He knows you like him and his just not into you and he want you to know by totally ignoring you.How can you tell which one? Ask yourself. If this guy is the shy type. sure thing its reason number 1.. But if he isn't the shy type the its reason number 2.If he doesn't like you its not the end of the world, you dont even need to hate him or obsessed about it. Just learn to accept how things are. Love yourself,Make yourself Beautiful, Be Happy seeing him as your inspiration then maybe one day who knows things might change...
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reader, advicer96 +, writes (2 October 2012):
The best thing to do is mail him directly so you can see if he is deffo avoiding you, if he is, he is not worth it. If he replys then bingo ;) ask him to meet up for a catch up or something. You never know, he may like you back. Or you could of gone off him. What ever happens this isnt going to be the only guy you like. A few years ago when i was your age, i mailed this boy all the time and he obvz didnt feel the same way, and when i look back i feel so stupid on how pesty i was. Just go for it because you only live once and you need to do something about your crush now before the moment passes. :)
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reader, Candid Cally  +, writes (2 October 2012):
There are so many possible reasons for why he could be ignoring you, and also many reasons for why he may not be ignoring you.
The thing about friendships from primary school is that they tend to hold up pretty well so long as you continue to attend the same schools together. Once you go to different schools, you begin to make new friends at your new school. Sometimes, someone just realizes that they have more in common with the people they are seeing everyday, that the friendships they had with people they aren't seeing anymore just slowly run their course and slowly but surely the small talk stops too.
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