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writes:I'm in a long distance relationship for almost 5 yrs. now.But sometimes I feel like this man doesn't have any plan to setle down. I really don't know where I stand.I know he loves me but I'm begining to think that this is all he wants; and nothing more?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 October 2012):
 after 5 years at your age he doesn't have any plans to settle down.
there is no excuse for ADULTS who are LDR to not make it local after 2 years...
To be honest this is all he wants.
I started an LDR with a guy in December 2010... we were two hours apart by car... (how often do you see your LDR guy?)
by MARCH 2011 we were seeing each other pretty much every weekend... by JUNE 2011 we were pretty much together full time... December 2011 he gave up his job, his friends, his life and his apartment and moved to be with me in what was MY home (now our home).... and this saturday we get married.
A man who is working full time and an adult should want to be with the woman he loves as much as possible. I have friends who are also the same distance LDR. He's 52 she is 40... they just got married but he can't move to her for 3 years...till he retires. They are totally committed and in love and together by skype nightly and in person 3 out of 4 weekends...
If you would like to give me more info I will gladly retract my statement but what I see is that you have NOTHING with a man who is getting laid without any of the efforts needed to have a real relationship.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (2 October 2012):
 Hi
How do you know he loves you?
After 5 years I would expect more than a long distance relationship,in fact I would have wanted more after 2 years.
Is there any reason why one of you has not relocated to be in the same place? How often do you meet up?
I wouldn't want to waste another minute on him,lifes too short.
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