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writes:my boyfriend wants me to convince him to have sex to see how convincing I can be. He wants it to be a game.I know he does, because he told me he wants to see if i can convince him to as well. I need help I've tried different things, but no luck. I'm at a dead end. please help.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (2 October 2012):
 You need help convincing your boyfriend to have sex with you? I'm genuinely confused and need more explanation on this game thing. You said nothing is working, so right now you aren't having sex at all until you can come up with a way to convince him to have sex with you...? How about you meet someone that doesn't play weird manipulative games and just wants to have sex because they enjoy you? Just a thought.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (2 October 2012):
 I like SVC's game better!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 October 2012):
 I once at a very young age have a boy tell me that the way to make any man horny was to stroke his back just above his butt crack...
of course as an adult now I know that it was what worked FOR HIM....
every man is different.
why is this game so important to him... is he the one always begging you to have sex?
tell him ok here's the game:
get very very very dressed up... CFM shoes... stockings and garters, short skirt.. cleavage etc... NOT trashy.. just what every young man thinks of as uber hot....
then take him in the car... drive to a favorite bar... sit him on a bar stool and say "STAY"
then go out on the floor and FLIRT like CRAZY with every other hot man there.... HE can't get off the chair till you are ready to take him home and have your way with him. HE cannot speak to you or touch you.. he can only watch you flirt and dance with OTHER MEN
that's what I think of his game.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 October 2012):
 Dress up looking nice, and then ignore him. That's what seems to work.
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reader, daletom +, writes (2 October 2012):
Can you say more about this "game", and the "different things" you have tried? When my wife convinces me to have sex, it's called "seduction". (And it's VERY exciting to have her do that to me!) Is that the kind of "game" you're talking about?
I put too much value on sexuality to reduce it to some kind of parlor game. He may be telling you that he's not interested in a serious sexual relationship.
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