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writes:So I broke up with my ex nearly 6 months ago after a rocky 3 and a half years! We had been through a lot but it was constand arguing and sex, sometimes I was happy, but then our sex life turned really rubbish, and it was him basically saying 'I want sex give it to me now' and I never really liked it at all, it got to the point where I cried everytime he was in me cos it hurt that much! Anyway, I broke it off cos I met a guy in a hotel...I did have sex with this guy and I felt like complete crap so I dumped my ex! Since then we didn't speak properly, and now recently, I found out he has a girlfriend yet he keeps texting me saying 'I miss having sex with you, you were good at it'And the other day when I was with my new man, I got a text saying 'delete my number' it was completly out of the blue, so I replied ' what the heck' with the response 'delete it now!' So I ignored it cos I was busy. And that night I posted a picture of me and my new man on facebook and in the morning I got a message saying 'f**k me?' I was like what the actually heck is this guy on? So I ignored it again, with my new man getting annoyed he is texting me, and about an hour later a message saying 'sorry wrong person'!Like I said, our sex life was really crap well from my point of view and now he is texting me saying he wants me to have sex with him! He has been with his girlfriend for 2 months and he keeps pestering me for sex even though I have moved on and he just won't leave me alone! What can I do? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2012): Well.You just need to tell him that you have moved on and its as simple as that.You know that he is just using you for sex so you need to tell him that your with someone else and that you and him are only friends and nothing more.Xxxxx
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 how about you BLOCK his number and block his email and block him on all social media and just move on with your life....
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (3 October 2012):
 If you know his girlfriend, save the messages and show them to her. Then block his ass.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 I agree with Chiraven, get a block put on his number so that he cannot contact you again, or simply just ignore him. If it gets to much then change your number, but I strongly recommend never texting him back as this just fuels it even more.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (2 October 2012):
 First, are you sure that your ex still has the same number? Did YOU change numbers? Maybe this really is all a mistake and you two don't even know one another except via these annoying texts. I mean, really never met.
If it really is your ex, I would strongly recommend that you place a block on his number with the phone company so his texts and calls can no longer reach your phone. Most companies make only a nominal charge for this, if any.
If you want him out of your life, shut him out.
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