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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years now. We have a pretty basic sex life, nothing ever too wild. One of my favorite things she does is let me finish in her mouth when she gives me oral. She doesn't give many blowjobs, I do wish I would get those more often. I want to try something new and that is when we have sex, if I don't finish in her, i usually finish on her chest and stomach which she likes. How should i approach the idea of when i pull out, for her to finish the job in her mouth. Any ideas would help!
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reader, feralfox +, writes (30 November 2012):
Hi there,
Sometimes it's hard to talk about things in a relationship, especially when it comes to sexual fantasies. However, communication is key. It sounds like you want a detailed step by step, but honestly the answer is simple: just talk to her about it!
Maybe after you have sex one day and you're both cuddling or lying down together, both of you will feel intimate and it'll be easier to bring it up. You could start the conversation by saying something like, "That felt so great/I love having sex with you/etc. It'd be fun to try something new though. Do you have any fantasies that you'd like to try?" Listen to her response, she might surprise you. Then, when you have listened to her ideas you could also bring up your own fantasy. I'm sure if you've been together and you're both sexually comfortable, which it sounds like you are, then this conversation will be fun and enlightening to you both. Make sure that you don't seem selfish though, listen to her fantasies as well or she might thing you're only asking her to talk about your own.
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