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writes:What do I do about this guy? I really like him:(?There's this cute guy who works at the gym where I've been going for 4months now.He's cute and I really like him. He's quiet, keeps to himself and he seem really passionate about his job.He's really friendly with everyone there but me. He talks to most of the girld but he doesn't speak to me but yet he won't stop staring at me.He watches me all the time and he gets nervous and timid when I'm closer to him.But the other day He was at the reception with one of his colleagues and they were both weaving at me to get my attention cause I didn't look at them when I walked in. So I turned and smiled at him we were staring at each other for a few seconds I was staring into his eyes whiles he was staring at my lips. ( I've been told I have nice lips)Why did he do that? He's never done that before.Everytime I see him my heart drops. I get butterflies when I think about him. and I dream about him most nights. (I'm not obsessed or anything)What do I do? I'm I been silly? I'm 22 and he's 25 Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 Your not being silly but the only thing you can do really is try and get to know him. You don't know him on a personal level as off yet because you have both never really spoke to each other, so that needs to be solved first. Just try and have small conversations to begin with, talk to him, ask him questions and try and get to know him. You need to try and establish a friendship with him and then see where it goes from there.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 November 2012):
Maybe you should just try talking to him? It sounds like he's as confused as you are, and maybe someone just needs to make a step towards talking so you can find out what he thinks of you!
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