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female
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30-35,
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writes:Hi, my best friend and I recently revealed we had feelings for eachother, we haven't known each other long but clicked straight away.He's known I've liked him since we met but he only told me recently that he liked me because I admitted I still liked him. He said that he doesn't want to ruin our friendship as most of his previous relationships have been short lived but I'm tired of always being the best friend as this always seems to happen to me, especially as the frienship is either ruined by both of us not doing anything about our feelings and getting awkward or they get a girlfriend and so get bored of me. We didn't get to finish our conversation because we were at school and I've never really had a chance to pick it back up again.We went for coffee with friends and he was quite flirty and snuggly with me, giving me his jacket and stuff, so while eveyone else was talking and I asked if he was being serious about liking me and he said yes, so I asked if he still did and he got all shy and said "a little bit" though I don't know what that means exactly.Then today he didn't really seem to talk to me and it felt weird, I don't know what to do or why he was acting like that. Do we stay friends? Do I bring up our conversation and finish it? Or do I leave it awkwardly as it is?
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 Maybe I'd see how it goes with him carry on talking normal, maybe allowing the flirt to continue, it will spiral out on its own you won't even need to do anything probably if he does like you.
Its hard when your close friends though to go out of the friendship zone, it just shows he doesn't want to lose you, but acting like that he obviously cares a lot about you in the love way just maybe isn't ready to go any further.
Time will tell.
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