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writes:I am 14, and can’t chose between two guys, they are both my age. i have been going to the same school as one of the guys for about 13 years, and we know each other pretty well. We had a ‘thing’ in 5th grade, then he left for a year. He came back last year, and i liked him. But then i found out that he liked this other girl, so figured I would just have to let it be. Over the summer break, this really nice guy, whom i had only met once at the time, started talking to me over Facebook, and we became really close. After some time, he asked me to go out with him. We go to movie nights together with friends. at the movie nights we sit together and he puts his arm around me. but because we dont go to the same school, we hardly get to see each other. he calls me beautiful and is so sweet to me. we tell each other we love each other (i know.. I’m only 14, but still). well now the summer break is over, and were back at school. the guy whom i had a thing with in 5th grade now likes me, and always hangs out with me after school. we both play the same sport, and are interested in the same things. well, yesterday he told me he liked me, and that i should dump the guy who i met over the summer. i have been considering this, because my feelings are coming back for him. i just dont know what to do because the guy who doesn’t go to the same school as me is so sweet and we talk all the time, (texting). any ideas?? thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2012): Okay, so I'm sixteen lol my boyfriend is cyber schooled while I am still public schooled. And let me tell you our relationship would probably not survive if we went to school together. We've been together for about a year and I see him 3 or 4 times a week. I never would have thought I'd like s guy who didn't go to my school, but it is much better that way. I still get butterflies when I see him and we've been together for awhile now. It's a good feeling. I personally think the one who calls you beautiful is a keeper. If this other guy is already trying to dictate what you do can you imagine if you were together? And you should probably talk to the guy your with about it. Being open with your feelings in a relationship is very important.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 It doesn't get any better..... For example, I am now 62 years old.... and I'm aware that there are some 3.6 BILLION women on this Earth.... AND I CAN'T MAKE UP MY MIND WHICH ONE TO SELECT FOR MY "GIRLFRIEND".....
(But, I keep looking!!!!!).....
Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2012): First of all, NEVERRRRRRR let anyone tell you what you "should" do, EVERRRRRRR! (Apart from your parents) Lol. You need to always make your own decisions so even if you're not 100% sure it was the right thing to do, at least it was your choice and you won't have been pressured into something you wasn't entirely sure you wanted to do.
Now in my opinion, I'd say continue talking to the other guy from the other school. The guy at the same school had a chance and he buggered off for a year, now he's back having feelings for another girl but also saying he likes you too and is telling you how to live your life? (N). Give the other guy a chance.
Keep chatting to the other guy over facebook (how far does he live from you by the way?) Depending on that, you could arrange to meet up when you both have spare time to do stuff. Just because you don't see each other every day, doesn't mean it will be a waste of time if you both genuinely like each other that much. He could probably have a chance with girls in his school, but the fact that he met you (from another school) during the summer and he likes you says something for this guy doesn't it? Any guy from any school can tell a girl in the same school he likes her and she should be with him, but that's most likely just for convenience for him I would say more than anything else in most cases.
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