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writes:helloi know you have answered this similar question many times but i honestly need help to let this go!i met this guy on face book. 2months ago.he seamed so amazing. we talked a lot, exchanged many photos and videos, called each other all the time.we were planning to meet because i am Ugandan and he is American and in the Navy.all of a sudden, he stopped talking to me from no where.i am friends with his best friend and roommate in the Navy. he doesn't know we have issues. since i normally talk to him i asked him what is wrong with him. his roommate told me sometimes he wants to be alone and wants space.that sometimes he won't talk to him either. i believed that but not any more. to me its not space. he just ignores me completely. he is always on line but never says a thing or reply me. ignores my calls.i only want to know what i dis but he won't say a thing and make matters worse, i cant take a bus to ask him.i had fallen for him deep inside so it hurts. what can i do about this situation?please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much guys. this feels much better. and you are right, i had stopped contacting him 4 days ago. i was thinking of doing it again, but i don't think he is worth it.
i deserve much better i guess
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 Sorry, it's only been 2 months. I would accept that he isn't interested any more. It's not that he needs space or time to himself, he just isn't interested in having a online relationship with you any more.
And I would honestly leave the room mate out of it. If the guy you were talking to can't be MAN enough to tell you it's over - it's not his room mates job.
Sorry, honey.
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 Well, it's just his way of telling you that he's not interested anymore. I wish he'd had the decency to tell you honestly and directly. But he's changed his mind, chickened out or maybe felt that things were getting too serious. I understand your hurt and pain, but you have to summon your courage and dignity, and move on. Don't attempt to contact him anymore. Just ignore him entirely. And remember that the internet tempts people to do things they wouldn't do otherwise. It's the lure of anonymity that brings out the worst in people. Do not be so trusting in the future. Take care, girl.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 November 2012):
 you can't do anything.
if he wont' talk to you he wont' talk to you.
you need to let this go it was just a brief online fling.. for two months, nothing much to be honest...
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