My wife says there is no love for me and she has fallen for some man online

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i have a problem. my wife and i have been together for several years now and we have always had our ups and downs. we have both done things in our time together to hurt each other and we both dont like it. the problem now is that we drifted apart from each other and she met a guy online and is inlove with him and says she has fallen out of love with me years ago. she says there are no feelings there to try for. she says she cares about me as the father of our kids but she does not love me. iam lost i have changed so many things about myself for the better and i have been able to keep the changes and i like them. my distractions from her and the family are gone and iam only focusing on them. problem is she does not love me. i fallowed different books and everything. counsellors and preachers but nothing seems to work. i love her so much i dont want to let her go but she frustrates me that she does not think she needs to change herself or work on any of the problems in our marriage. what do i do?

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