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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,I have a classmate that for a little bit was calling me bebe and taking pictures of me or basically anything and sending it to me and was texting me and calling me at all times also trying to set up movies or wine nights or dinner nights. so made me think she was flirting (which i think i was wrong to think that now) so i flirted back cause i am single and she is attractive. but then she all of a sudden stops replying and gets really weird then switches her status from nothing to that she is in a relationship. and now keeps posting statuses that she loves her boyfriend. did i miss something here? when she was flirting with me or was she just trying to get attention and i looked way to much in to it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): I think you were reasonable thinking that she was interested. I think SHE might not be a healthy person, however, based on what you've written.
I agree, you should have asked her out before because you would have less hurdles and less mess to deal with.
It depends on what you want. Everything is a choice you make. If you want to date her and don't care that she may be a big flirt for all you know, then make the move. The worst is she says no. You'll live.
But if it wasn't worth it to begin with, then leave it alone, since she's posting about her bf now. (not that the bf should stop you if you think this girl is really really worth it. But of course, if she says, no, respect that and leave her and her relationship with the bf alone).
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