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26-29,
*onfuzzledamethyst
writes:Hi...ok in the summer I went on a date with my bf into town and on the way home I got off at his stop but he was like 'your not coming round my house' in a jokey way and I was like I wasnt going to but why? and he said 'my house is a complete tip and my family are weird' we were laughing about this then I ended up inviting him round my house?so he came round a few days later and we were talking about 'kinky' stuff we were gonna do but as a joke not seriously but then he said I can't come becuase I don't think my parents want me alone in my gf's house but eventually he came round but did'nt tell his parents but we just sat on the bed snogged, cuddled and talked...when we got back to school his brother and his gf bumped into us in a coridoor and invited me round but my bf was really embarresed and sill acted like he did'nt want me to... but his borthers gf has been round loads of times - I assume becuase his mum picked them up the other day????? now we are in november and I asked if he wanted to come round again sometime (he does'nt have much spare time becuase he does alot of swimming training)and he thought my mum did'nt like him lol we joked about that but then I mentioned about going round his and I said 'so i am never coming round yours like ever??' and he said 'No!... well you can but my family are arses' I was fine but I can understand why he would'nt becuase he is embarressed if they might ask questions and mortify him but if they are fine with his brother and his gf surely they are wondering when they will get to meet me?!?! What do I do... I can't understand why he would'nt want me round his family can't be that bad?!?!? and I hav'nt done anything to put him off but maybe he is affraid his family might put me off??? IDK has anyone been in this situation to help me?!?!?!? I can't have a relationship with someone and not meet his parents?!?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, noteveryoneisperfect  +, writes (25 November 2012):
Well as a teenage boy I actually say the same thing to my gf I never let my gf over other than once but Im assuming that he may be embarrassed about how his house looks maybe he lives in a crappy house and about his family maybe he has an awkward relationship with them but all I can really say is that he may just be embarrassed about how his house looks and doesnt want you to see it so its not you dont worry about it
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