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male
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26-29,
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writes:"Dear Cupid" or whatever, I really like this girl, and we're in a complicated situation. Well, I am in band and I play trumpet, and she was on dance team, and I have liked her since the first week of school. Well, after our first home football game, there was a dance, and we went as freinds, but what I didn't know was she had turned this guy, a giant d-bag, down because she had already said she would go with me (and I also later found out that she would have said yes if I had REALLY asked her out and to go with me). And about 5 weeks later, we had homecoming, but I was too afraid of rejection, and the d-bag asked her out at the homecoming dance, and 2 weeks later he cheated on her. Well, after hanging out with her alot more, I decided to tell her I like her, but her freind beat me to it. And now, she keeps telling me she doesn't want another boyfreind. Did I wait too late and quit trying, or should I wait until she feels a little less emotionally damaged and see what she says then? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): If she already knows, and she WOULD have dated you not to far back, wait a while, maybe ask her out during Valentines day in the morning at school, so if you two have to talk anything out, you can. And also, when she says "It's cold.", wrap your arms around her and bring her close, it helps, I've been there.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 November 2012):
 I don't think the D-bag and her managed a whole lot of "serious relationship" time so I would tell her. You don't really have anything to lose, do you?
She might not be ready to date, but at least she will know how you feel. The ball will be in HER court. You will not have any regrets of NOT telling her down the line.
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