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writes:Why do I believe what my boyfriend says? His actions never meet up. He is tech savy but denies it. He has remodeled my home but denies it. He is insanely jealous of my kids. He frequently denies me sex. Yet he is on porn sites alot. And denies that as well. The list goes on and on......why do I fall for his bullshit all the time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): I'm married and if anything happened to my relationship or partner I have told friends I could never see myself with another man until my kids were adults.. As I would be very weary of them being jealous of them.. They are my life, my world and I would never want them to be put in any danger.I'm also British and in the news lately there has been numerous story's of jealous bf doing horrible, and devastating things to children that are not theirs, and when I read this my heart bleeds for them and even their mothers who have to live with this pain..If you are seeing him being different to your kids acting jealous, isn't it now time to call it quits, before he puts them at risk.. I'm not judging you, but surely you need to distance yourself and your unit from this man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): "why do I fall for his bullshit all the time?"
That's a rhetorical question isn't it?
Simple answer? Because you're a sucker. Reality though only you can say. He can't be all that bad if you haven't left him yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): Probably you put up with it because you love him and hope he'll change his ways and become the person you would like him to be. Truth is, people are who they are and if someone doesn't like it, they either disassociate themselves with that person, or put up with it for as long as they can tolerate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2012): "Why do I believe what my boyfriend says? His actions never meet up......why do I fall for his bullshit all the time?"
Because he tells you exactly what you want to hear knowing you want to believe what he SAYS, and he tells you exactly what you want to hear knowing you DON'T want to believe what he DOES. You'd rather be in denial about a scumbag boyfriend than be without a boyfriend of any description.
"He is insanely jealous of my kids."
Then you need to dump him, NOW! Sorry, but any mother who chooses a guy over her kids, especially when his behavior potentially compromises their emotional well-being, is guilty of negilgence.
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