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anonymous
writes:me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years now and he cheated on me right after i found out i was preganat and he new but one night his ex girl friend texted him and he told her to never text or call him and that i was preganat and we were happy and didnt want nothing to do with her and then a few weeks later she shows up to my work and showed me all these dirty text he sent her asking her to meet him at the end of his drive way and and then he called her while she was at my work we borke up and then got back together a week or two after i had my baby bc i wanted my family to be together and we have been good until here latly i have found out he has lied to me more than once about being at a friends house and one night he was out til 4 in the morning while i was at home with our baby and he told me he was hanging out under his friends shelter but i came to find out that they actully went to the bar and he has not told me the truth and then he goes out to work on the road to make a better living while i stay at home trying to save money with not having daycare and he comes home on his second week home and i found a girls number in his pocket and he said it was just the guys that gave his number out as a joke but my question is why did he have her number ?? i really dont know what to do or if i can even trust him any more and with this my emotions towards him has changed ????
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2012): make his loser arse pay through child support
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reader, Zaaleena +, writes (15 November 2012):
It is so scary to leave a relationship especially when a big commitment has been made but the brutal truth in this instance is that you would be far happier on your own.
Please remember NOTHING you have done has warranted this behavior. If he's that unhappy with you he should leave and if he has not got the guts - do the leaving for him.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): I agree with DVI, get out now, make a great life for you and your baby, he is not worth your time. Or your heartbreak. Hold your head high and think always to yourself I deserve better than this and reach for the moon.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Run away. Don't walk. if you can fly, or drive, or ride a motorcycle, or moped, make it happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): you may feel compelled to stay with him because you're scared to be a single mother, and you want to hold your family together, but he's not trustworthy and he's lying to you. you just had his baby, and he's running around with other women. do yourself a favor and end this relationship. it'll just get worse, and you don't deserve to be treated that way.
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