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female
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36-40,
*uphrasia
writes:hey everyone.i just got back with my ex boyfriend.we had broken up for about one year six months.it has been a month since we started dating again.we broken up because he cheated on me and a week after we broke up he started dating another girl.he is no longer dating that girl.they broke up some months ago.i like the time we spend together and frankly no man has ever made me feel the way that he does..i hate to admit it but i love him and i never stopped loving him.he has apologized for what he did and i have forgiven him...the thing is we are both at the same university and so is the girl he started dating after we broke up.my friends don't like him because of what he did so i haven't told them but we secretly see each other.we both agreed that since we are graduating in five months we should keep it on the low.we will move to the same city after we graduate,we only discovered this after we got back together.he has mention us getting married and settling down.we live in a community were there is a lot of gossip people don't seem to mind there own business,especially my friends,i don't want this to disturb my studies.and the fact that my friends don't like him has left me wondering if i am not just blinded by my love for him that i can't see his faults and i feel guilty about the secrecy. a part of me is not sure about him so i don't want to become physical with him yet.my friends are now starting to catch on so right now i feel like just ending the whole thing...i need advice because i think i am just not sure about what i am doing.
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reader, euphrasia +, writes (15 November 2012):
euphrasia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much for your advice.i will do just that.it nice to hear the opinion of someone who is neutral to the situation.thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2012): Dont end it unless you are really sure. You should keep the relationship on friendship grounds as you need to learn to trust and love him again or you will always second guess yourself. Your friends are free to have an opinion but its what u want that should count. Dont rush the relationship but also dont end something because of what others think. You said it you love him, you owe it too
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