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writes:I've been seeing someone for a while now and we both seem to really like each other. The only problem is.. he has a girlfriend. He's never once mentioned breaking up with her, in fact he tells me nothing about her. I don't even know her name. Any ideas on where I actually stand? Does anyone think he's actually going to break up with her or am I just some pathetic bit on the side? All this sneaking around is getting so annoying. I have no idea how to ask where I stand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Why would you date a guy with a GF? Even if he did leave her for you If he can do it with you he can do it to you. Show him you're an real person with class and end it. Because to him you're nothing but an cheap hook-up.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 November 2012):
 You don’t stand anywhere.
you lie… in his bed… with your legs spread. Nothing more nothing less.
If you want to know where you stand stop having sex… it will be apparent fast…
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): "Any ideas on where I actually stand?"
You're his side pussy, nothing else.
"Does anyone think he's actually going to break up with her or am I just some pathetic bit on the side?"
Nope and Yep.
"I have no idea how to ask where I stand."
Well you just asked us so you clearly do. Besides what's to ask? You're his side pussy that much is clear. OP don't spoil his fun by asking for crap. Legs open, mouth shut, them's the rules of being side pussy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): "Any ideas on where I actually stand? Does anyone think he's actually going to break up with her or am I just some pathetic bit on the side? All this sneaking around is getting so annoying. I have no idea how to ask where I stand."
You stand with him where you lay down with him: on the side, in the shadows, out of sight, behind soundproof walls, in a vacuum of total and complete secrecy, before he goes home to his girlfrend whatever her name is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): In all honesty.. you don't stand. You are clearly fun on the side. He has no intention of leaving her for you. I would run now before you let yourself become more attached.
The fact that he has a girlfriend..has informed you of this, yet continues to see you suggests to me that this is not going anywhere. At least for you. Get out.
best of luck.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Is he going to break up with her? HELL NO! Why would he do that when you're proving that you're ok with him having two women... Also, it says something about you that you're completely uncaring about his girlfriend's feelings, and might want to spare him of dating a person like you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Yes, to him you are just a bit on the side. Does it not bother you that he is CHEATING ON HIS GIRLFRIEND with you? Has it not occurred to you that even in the unlikely event that he did break up with his girlfriend for you, he would do the same to you as he's doing to her, and cheat on you? Think. No matter how nice he may seem or how well you get along, this guy is a dog. There is NO excuse for his behavior. Have some self-respect as well as respect for his girlfriend (even if he doesn't), stop letting him string you along, and call it quits with this guy.
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reader, mooh  +, writes (15 November 2012):
hi, this relationship with this guy is leading to no where... he's not being honest with you. im so sorry and i know it's very difficult especially as your feelings for this guy are increasing, but if he really loved you and had respect for you he would have already broke up with his current gf. he is just using you until you get fed up of it. In this case when the guy has a stable/secure gf and a fun loving mistress to spice up his life, the guy is going to get greedy and try to keep both. try to think about what is best for you! it seems like it's better to end as soon as possible and move on to someone else.
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