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I like this girl but she has genital warts!

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Question - (4 June 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, *andomando writes:

I met this girl and we have been talking for a couple weeks. I just found out she had genital warts. I know the warts are treatable but once u have it you always have the HPV virus. So if i have sex with this girl am i going to get the virus? I guess she got it about 2 years ago and hasnt shown any signs of the warts since then.. If i wear a condom can i still get it with skin to skin contact? how does it get transmitted when there are no signs of it? is genital warts that bad??? she got it treated but i mean i dont really know much about it.

Help!! i dont know if i should move on or not really worry. any in sight would be great!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (5 June 2012):

Honeypie agony aunthttp://www.cdc.gov/hpv/vaccine.html

You can look into the vaccine as well.

Not judging your girl, but I would personally be leery of dating/sex someone with HPV since you can EASILY have it, transmit it and not know you carry it around.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (4 June 2012):

Danielepew agony auntWon't you please check this site:

http://www.medicinenet.com/genital_warts_in_women/article.htm

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012):

Hpv is transmitsble through oral and genital contact. Even if you never develop warts, having the virus drastically increases your risk of developing penile or oral cancers in the future.

Unless you are certain you would be willing to take these risks, (you would likely be a carrier of the virus for the rest of your life) you should not do anything with her.

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A female reader, sweethoneypie United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2012):

i had the same thing with an ex bf. I asked my doctor and she said you can still catch it whether using a condom or not. Less chance if there are no visable signs. As long as the girl goes to get treated if symptoms occur as do you you shouldn't be affected. Though there is always a chance x

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