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He made plans and then just didn't show up!

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Question - (4 June 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2012)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *ikiwe writes:

Hey guys,theres this guy who was introduced to me by my sister.He wanted to get know me....so ive known him for a month basicaly.Thing is he was to come to my town last weekend so that we could spend time together....but apparently he didn't come at all.I mean he should have called me at least to let me know he could't make it!So he has't even bothered calling me....am i jus overecting or something.He is not my boyfriend but really???Input will be appreciated.ThANKS!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012):

Picking up a call or ignoring it really does depend on yourself to be honest and how badly you want an explanation from him.

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A female reader, Nikiwe South Africa +, writes (4 June 2012):

Nikiwe is verified as being by the original poster of the question

One more thing...incase he does call me.....should i just ignore him or what??

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A female reader, Nikiwe South Africa +, writes (4 June 2012):

Nikiwe is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thaks for the input guys.....i think i'l just let him be.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012):

Sounds like a time waster to me, and perhaps you've had a lucky escape. He could be a full time let down in every aspect of his life. On the other hand, he may be nervous and now is having second thoughts...he could be a genuine gentleman in that sense where he's not overly confident and keen on meeting a woman just for it to lead to that one inevitable thing lol

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (4 June 2012):

CindyCares agony aunt He is not your boyfriend , but he is absolutely rude regardless. It really takes minimal time and effort to make a quick call or send a text saying, sorry, can't make it this weekend, need to cancel- whomever you are, boyfriend, friend, acquaintance . And if he can't even be arsed showing that minimal courtesy, I really would not bother with him anymore.

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