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*allingwaterising
writes:Hey everyone, I just wanted to find advice on something. I recently moved back to the Michigan area as a transfer for law school. I'm an aspiring and active young guy, I played college football, I work as a private contractor and project manager while finishing law school. I've dated enough to know what I like and don't like. I'm almost exclusively attracted to Indian women. It's just a fact, I've tried quite a bit but frequently run into the issue of culture and family restricting my options. I've got a political science degree with a minor in far east studies so I know the culture well. I'm just trying to find single Indian women who prefer or like white guys to get to know, date, and spend time with. Any ideas? Would love to hear feedback. Also, if anyone ends up asking the obvious yes I have dated an indian girl. It just didn't end up working out. But after that ad dating a little more I realized what I was attracted to more and so I have set out looking for it. Thanks in advance,Fallingwaterising Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): Blackberry Messenger! I have it and often get a lot of adds from a variety of women from all different countries (including india) who always seem more than keen in building a relationship with a guy. Its just that I'm not currently looking to build a relationship with anyone just yet so I often ignore their advancements lol.
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reader, Nephertite  +, writes (4 June 2012):
 As an Indian woman myself, I can tell you it's not that the woman is attracted to White men specifically. If she is attracted to you and you happen to be white, it's not because of your skin colour, but it's cuz you have something Indian men don't. Indian men are coddled to death. They love being waited on hand and foot.Their mothers pamper them and do everythign for them, so they basicalyl want to marry a maid/whore int he bedroom, not a friend or a lover. Indian women on the other hand are talented... not just in the kitchen .. in everything they do and they want to be noticed and loved and paid due attention to. So, if you can give women in general what they want, security, love, affection, and devotion without being too needy, you've nailed it. As for Indian women specifically, understand that family an dfilial piety means everything. They need you to understand this concept somewhat alien to most - When you marry her, you marry her entire family. Respect is of utmost importance to the elderly and they are conservative, but not so prudish. Find the balance, find the love and ENJOY :)
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