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writes:My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship since the past 7 months, he was out of town for almost 3 months,things were fine and everything went well. Ever since he came back to town, I sometimes feel like I'm least important, I do not have a problem with hin going out with his friends, but there're times when I feel like he pays more attention towards his friends and not me, I have a problem with him always ready to go out with his friends but not me! Ever since he got back to town, we hardly see each other, and when we do see each other, our nights would always end up in such a sour note,he tells me he loves me, but now I'm starting to think if that's genuine, and also, I sometimes feel like he's hiding somethings from me and that I really want to know! Help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (5 June 2012):
Maybe he got used to living life without you in those 3 months and it's just an adjustment back.
Try making plans and see if he goes along ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): Why not go out with your friends as he does with his? Don't mean this to sound rude because its not intended that way but, could it not just be because he has more of a life than you that you are feeling left out or maybe even jealous ? Or that you expect him to be your soul source of entertainment? I understand you wanting to spend some quality time with him and do something entertaining with him so why not try to come to some sort of arrangement or even write out a schedule or time table for example one week you and him do something together and the next week he go out with friends and you do likewise with your friends?
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