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writes:how do i approach girls when clubbing?i went round town last night clubbing and i was hopeless... saying that i didnt even try! im shy and lowish on confidence, i know im good looking and fit, i keep in shape but when it comes to speaking to girls who i have never met before i havent got a clue! i have all these ideas and flirty things to say but i never use/say them. like last night i went in with my mate and his siter who is bestfriends with my sister and just chilled on the sofas drinking all night with a few other friends who we met, but as soon as they went to another club and left me and my mate he dragged me up (i was very drunk at this point) and said right come on lets go pull and took me on the dance floor and i just stood ther not having a clue how to dance or what to do and hes talking to all these lasses and im just stood ther in the back ground wobbling all over the place trying to look cool hahah its awefull! please help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): When you're in a club, at first just keep yourself to yourself, don't come across like you're eyeing every piece of skirt up in sight, try to maintain the "I'm just here for myself and I'm not out to intentionally pull" kind of thing and don't come across too keen. If you see a girl you quite like and she's not with a guy, then maybe slowly put yourself in a position to get noticed by her (but not in her face so not to blow your cover lol) maybe just enough so that you may see when she visits the bar or your paths might cross as you're both moving around the club, and if you get the chance and you both make eye contact try slipping her a friendly smile as you pass/or stood at the bar. You never know, she may then think "Oh he was a nice guy" and then remain your cool, and try a similar thing again until she clicks on that you're paths keep crossing for a reason and it must be fate :P no but on a serious note she may before long when she see's your not waiting for another woman or a group of rowdy male mates get the impression that you're are open to meeting and getting to know someone tonight (I.e her) ... Just a thought :)
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