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writes:I went out to a movie with this girl who I thought had been giving me signals that she liked me for a few weeks by: complimenting my clothes a lot, smiling and making eye contact a lot. So we saw the movie a few weeks ago and had a good time, got some food after and just talked about random stuff, music, gossip ,etc. We hugged and parted.two weeks later, any time I text her to try to hangout, she's "busy"... I would have been fine and accepted it, but when I run into her at a coffee shop with one of her friends mid day I feel brushed aside. I ran into her later with a friend of mine and she gave a reason saying the commitment she "had to go to" today was earlier than she thought. Either way I just felt frustrated with her and really just gamed. I do like her, but if I'm really being brushed off it's really not worth it, so am I just getting bad coincidence's because it's near the end of the school year, or am I wasting my time?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (5 June 2012):
 Well I hope you didn't wait 2 weeks before you finally contacted her after the date. My guess is she's just not that into you. Move on. You're a nice guy you don't deserve this kind of treatment.
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reader, Titaniumtestes11 +, writes (4 June 2012):
Your wasting your time. The same thing happened to me. I wouldn't go any further than just being friends with her. Don't be a nuisance either. Act like she needs you more than you need her "even though that's not true." don't text her let her text you and maybe then things will change.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 June 2012):
 I would say she is not interested and is letting you down gently. She would only be messing you if she promises there is a next time and stands you up. One of the hardest things to do is to tell a person they don't like you enough to continue dating you. Complimenting you and making eye contact are not enough to secure you a spot as a boyfriend. Maybe she is really good at socializing and making people feel good. She could be dating other guys at the same time and also smiling and complimenting them and decide to go ahead with the one she likes better. In the dating game it can be cruel. As confident as I am I have to face the reality that there are guys who don't want to be with me. I accept silence or busyness as a signal to stop contacting them. Because you barely knew each other she does not owe you explanations or any thought that goes into her head.
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reader, LoleetKa  +, writes (4 June 2012):
Well like you said it is not worth it , if she likes you she would try to find a time for you and she always can just show her ur not anymore interested in her and she will try to win ur attention again but looking for who's really gonna do their best to make a space for you is better than chasing after girl thought you someone else ..
Break away since ur not in love yet , you deserve better :)
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