I met a guy, and we hit it off. Does he have feelings for me, or is he just being friendly?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this great guy at a private house show this past weekend. He actually is a member in the band that played. I immediately found him attractive but was sure he wouldn't see me the same way. As I was talking to two other females and one of the other band members, he eventually came up and started talking with us. I noticed he seemed to have a lot of attention on me, and these guys being as silly as they are, he challenged me to rock paper scissors where he told me we had to look into each others eyes because eye contact was part of the game. Later on when a bunch of us were hanging out in the living room I sat down next to him and he focused a lot of his attention on me again, even touching my shoulder and looking me in the eyes. As we talked I noticed he mostly had his body pointed towards me and I could tell he was paying close attention to our conversation. At the end of the night as I started to leave, he held out his hand for me to shake it, and after I did I just said "Well, just give me a hug" and we hugged and I left shortly after. That evening I added him on Facebook sending him a short message saying I hope it wasn't strange, etc. He answered the next morning instantly giving me his phone number. Two hours or so later I sent him a message wishing him and the rest of the band good luck at their big show for a music festival that afternoon. We texted back and fourth a little bit until they went on for their show. Within an hour of them finishing their set he texted me, then he let me know when they headed back to their hometown, and told me when he got home as well. We texted quite a bit last night asking each other questions, and he even commented on all the ";)" faces we were making and he said he didn't mind it. We only talked for a short time this morning because he is busy today, but I keep wondering if he is interested of if he is just a really friendly guy. The band is actually already pretty famous and I know several girls try contacting him all day and flirting with him. Am I lucky and do I have his attention, or his he just a friendly guy?

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