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Why do I still like this girl and how can I let go of her?

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Question - (15 June 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2012)
A male Canada age 30-35, *lwayswondering writes:

Good evening.

I will keep this short. I liked this girl for a long time. She was dating someone then broke up. I transferred to a different university, but told her I liked her before I left (this would have been 4 months after she separated). She decline as she obviously wasn't ready. To this day I still don't know why I told her that. Now it's 10 months later, I still like her (can't explain why), and haven't seen her in over a year (still talk through internet). How do I let her go?/can you maybe explain why I still like her? Maybe because nothing as good or better come along (to be blunt)?

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A male reader, Alwayswondering Canada +, writes (17 June 2012):

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I feel kind of silly because I haven't seen her in person for over a year. It's kind of like "Oh... you STILL like me?". Idk. Oh well. Thanks for the support.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (17 June 2012):

Moo's Mum agony auntThat's true you would get some closure and you will be closed off from other opportunities when you are always thinking of her. Life is short get on and find out once and for all and move on. All the best to you.

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A male reader, Alwayswondering Canada +, writes (16 June 2012):

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I do a bit of both. A friend of mine said I should tell her how I feel because I got a "not looking right now". Maybe a "no" would give me closure?

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (16 June 2012):

Moo's Mum agony auntAre you heading out and having fun with your mates at all or are you just locking yourself away and pining for this girl? The only way to get over someone is to throw yourself out there and hang out with people and have fun.

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