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writes:So ive been with my fiance for three years and we live together in a nice apartment..im disabled and get a tiny check every month thats only enough to pay the rent and i receive food stamps...and my fiance is a CNA at a local hospital so everything she makes goed to other bills... We've fallen on hard times and she decided she should go strip to catch up on our bills...i agreed because we have a great trusting relationship but im sitting here at home and tonights her first night and i cant help but to feel completly terrible about it...i think when she gets home im going to tell her she can quit and ill just try to find a job... What should i do? She's super hot and im sure she'll make plenty of money but if it destroys our relationship id be torn up...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question...came home last night with $500, apparently some rapper named DreyStyles came...we've decided she'll go a couple more times and thatll be it...hopefully it works out
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (15 June 2012):
Hey,
I can understand your feelings because you feel she is degrading herself to help look after you so don't worry that's natural. I would feel the same in your shoes so perhaps there is a way of getting in extra money without your partner being a stripper. I would say look at your lifestyle, you say you live in a nice apartment? Is it a designer apartment with high rent and other charges or somewhere pretty standard? Do you have cable packages, buy expensive food, have the lights on all the time etc? Perhaps you could find a cheaper place to live, cheaper food and find a way to save money. That way she won't have to take a second job. Hope it all works out for you.
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reader, Discovery +, writes (15 June 2012):
My personal opinion is that's definitely not a job you want her to have. I'm not saying there is something inherently wrong with it but just yes, I don't think it will fit into your relationship at all and will most likely bear some slight or major negative effects.
I hear too many horror stories about the spirals that start with slight adult entertainment.
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